1, establish a correct view of love
However, different from social youth, the specific cultural background of the university will lead to emotional loss, academic confusion, difficult choices after graduation, and even pain after lovelorn. Although love and marriage are different, they can't be like children. Love will appear at the right time, place and background, not necessarily now, not necessarily in college.
If there is no suitable love, just wait and see, and inadvertently there will be special gains. Learn dialectical thinking and know two aspects of things. If the opposite sex is attractive to someone, wanting to have a happy lover during college doesn't mean later life. "belated love" may be true love, and puppy love may have disappeared long ago. I believe that everyone will meet true love.
2. Cultivate healthy love behavior.
Love should be elegant and pay attention to the beauty of language. Talk sincerely, frankly and naturally, and don't put on airs and be rude; We should understand and understand each other, and don't ask questions endlessly, so as not to hurt each other's self-esteem. Otherwise, it will only make people disgusted and hurt their feelings. Elegant intimate action can produce the pleasure of love and psychological effect.
Vulgar intimate actions often produce negative psychological effects of emotional separation, damage pure love and dignity, damage the image of college students and bring bad psychological stimulation to others. If you think the answer is yes, it shows that you have the ability to love. Don't hesitate to hold each other's hands bravely and enjoy this moment of happiness! Love is a responsibility. I hope each of us can remember this responsibility, be responsible for ourselves and each other.
3. Cultivate the ability to love and take responsibility.
The love of college students is influenced by many factors, so in the process of pursuing love, it is inevitable to encounter various twists and turns. Psychological setbacks such as unrequited love, love illusion and lovelorn love are a test of college students' psychological endurance. Only people with strong tolerance can better cope with setbacks, otherwise it is likely to lead to adverse consequences. Enhance the ability of college students to bear the frustration of love; Mental health is very important.
Another important factor is the sense of responsibility. Love is not only two of a kind, very much in love, sentimental, but also responsibility and responsibility. Perhaps now that the social concept is open, many people think that love and marriage are not necessarily related, which is natural and everyone has the right to choose. However, whether it is for marriage or not, each of us should consider clearly whether we can bear this relationship before falling in love.
The specificity and loyalty of love can also be understood as the power of love. Love is a verb here. When each of us chooses to start a relationship, we should first check whether we are really ready to accept a person to spend some time with us, caring for each other, encouraging and supporting each other, no matter how long it takes.
Conclusion: We should correctly handle the relationship between love, study and occupation. Love is a major event in life, but it is not the whole of life. We should give priority to learning and mastering scientific knowledge. Work is more important than love. Work is advocated and it is not advisable to fall in love too early. But don't think that love is a stumbling block to your career. If treated correctly, love can also promote career.