Faced with all kinds of pressures in students' lives, senior two students should help each other, get rid of the psychological state of depression, depression, fear and helplessness, and maintain a safe, stable, healthy and positive psychological state, so as to lay a solid psychological foundation for cultivating various excellent psychological qualities. When we have many excellent psychological qualities, such as concentration, self-confidence, happiness, love, fear of difficulties and setbacks, perseverance and so on. It is like a clean stream, trickling in our hearts and cleaning our hearts. We will wait and see. Happiness: We all want to live happily. Happiness is not given by others, but comes from one's own mentality and inner feelings. The same thing, different people have different mentality, thus producing different results. There are three seemingly simple sentences that help many people find and experience the happiness of life. These three sentences are: "Great!" "I can do it!" "Let me help you!" . Optimists often say "Great!" This seemingly insignificant sentence reflects the psychological quality of a person who can still smile when encountering setbacks. Confident people like to say, "I can do it!" " "I can't" and "I can't". Although there is only one word difference, it is essentially different. "I can do it" is a necessary quality for a successful person, while "I can't" is the main reason for a loser-losing self-confidence. Happy people often say, "I help you". A person in trouble likes to say, "You help me". Helping others is not just a word, but an attitude towards life and a principle of being a man. If you can help others sincerely and selflessly, you can experience the happiness of life, and in the process of helping him, you will find your own value and sense of accomplishment. Self-confidence: Li Bai said: "I was born to be useful." Mao Zedong said, "I am confident that if I live another 200 years, I will waste 3,000 miles. "Self-confidence is the psychological cornerstone of the success of many celebrities. In contrast, many things are not that we are unable to do well, but that we dare not do after losing confidence. Looking at Mrs Thatcher, some of our psychological defects may change. When former British Prime Minister Margaret Thatcher was a little girl, she once heard someone say, "Women want to be in power! "She stood up at once and said confidently," I want to be not only the first female parliamentarian in Britain, but also the first female prime minister in Britain! " "A confident person can turn smallness into greatness and mediocrity into magic. Honesty: Confucius said: "People without faith don't know what they can do. "Xunzi said:" A gentleman raises his heart, but he is not sincere. "If you slip, you can stand up immediately; If you break your promise, you may never get it back: Zhou Youwang paid a heavy price for fighting the vassal war. Words must be believed, and faith must bear fruit: Liu Bang made three chapters with the people, and finally won the world. Faith is the foundation of being a man. Zi Gong once asked Confucius: How to govern the country? Confucius replied: First, there are sufficient grain reserves; Second, there must be enough armaments; Third, let the people trust the government. Zi Gong asked again: As a last resort, two of the three articles should be removed, which one should be kept? Confucius said: the third article should be retained; Faith is the most important of the three. If the people don't trust the government, the country will soon perish. Love: Mencius said: "Those who love others will always love others, and those who respect others will always respect others." Lu Xun said: "Ruthlessness is not necessarily a true hero. "The so-called golden rule is: treat others as you want them to treat you; The anti-golden rule is: what I do to others, others must do to me. Obviously, the golden rule is a rational attitude, and if the anti-golden rule is not handled well, it will cause fierce internal reactions and make irrational behaviors. Looking back on my past, there may sometimes be an "anti-golden rule" because of the inequality I feel inside. I always thought I was so kind to him/her, but how could he/she treat me like this? This is the source of pain ~ but it should be inevitable, because people are selfish. If we can think more rationally: whether he/she treats me well or not is his/her right. I have no right to change the other person's attitude. The other person is also treating people and has the right to choose friends. Take a step back ... treat others as you want them to treat you. People who deserve to be treated well will naturally feel your sincerity and treat you sincerely. Only in this way can a virtuous circle be formed, and the relationship between them will be further fearless of difficulties and setbacks: Fang Yue, a poet in the Song Dynasty, said, "Disappointment is often the same as the disappointment of the speaker. "Confucius said: You know pine and cypress withered when you are cold. Difficulties and setbacks are the waves that overturn the ship of the weak and the melting pot that temper the iron will of the strong. When reviewing his life experience, the famous mathematician Hua described his "three robberies": the first robbery was from 15 to 20 years old, suffering from poverty and illness, but he forgot to eat and sleep every day, studied mathematics hard, succeeded in self-study and entered the kingdom of mathematics; The second robbery was in the period of War of Resistance against Japanese Aggression, when the politics was dark and the people were poor. They still persisted in overcoming difficulties and wrote books. The "three robberies" were ten years of turmoil, and all the property was looted, but they still ventured to implement the "optimization method" and "overall planning method" and applied mathematics to the national economy. Will and perseverance are magic weapons to overcome difficulties and setbacks. Perseverance: Luo Song Dajing said: "The rope saws the wood, and the water drops pierce the stone." Xunzi said: "You can't jump ten steps; It's hard to give up. "No matter learning or doing things, with a clear direction, we must persevere, persevere, work hard and persevere. Never give up until you succeed. In Greek mythology, Zeus made Schiff push a boulder to the top of the mountain every day to punish him. West cheever tried his best to finally do it; But at night, this huge rock will automatically roll down again, so that Siziffer will push up again the next day. Day after day, year after year of torture did not push Schiff's will down, but he persisted with extraordinary perseverance. In the end, Hitzfeld's unparalleled persistence forced Zeus to give up his punishment and win his freedom. Success belongs to persistent people.
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