19 My husband was diagnosed with cancer. At that time, his friend accompanied him to the hospital for examination. As a result, his friend never came to my house or contacted me after he knew that he had cancer. Maybe he's afraid to borrow money or something. In short, this friend who had been together for nearly ten years suddenly disappeared, and my husband had to hehe at that time.
It's gone. Once upon a time, there were several very good friends who thought they would get along for life, and the long-term good friends also drifted away and had little contact. I thought they wanted to call them the other day, but they seemed afraid of me. In a few words, their politeness, alienation, politeness and intimacy have disappeared without a trace. Forget it, although I need friends very much, there is no need to pester me, because I lack sincerity and have so many precautions in friendship, and people don't want to have too much intersection with you at all.
I thought about it and found that they are still very good, kind, caring and affectionate. At the beginning of my illness, he gave me money to comfort me. In fact, I got a lot from them. This is my fault. I've been sick for too long. I have been ill for almost four years. Besides, I'm too sick. I have relapsed three times, either in the hospital or at home. I'm not fit to play with anyone anymore.
I am a cheerful and lively person. I still want to talk to them when I am bored. I don't know what's going on. From the moment I missed them, I slowly returned to them for a long time, or I didn't. After a long time, you will know that without a healthy body, when your life becomes a burden to society, you should not imagine that others will give you enough face and respect.
At this time, friends in life are basically just patients. Patients' lives are very fragile, and with the passage of time, they have gone more than half. I told my son that my micro-patients didn't reply, and my heart lifted, thinking that they might be broken or dead.
Later, when Weiyou didn't reply, my son joked with me happily. Mom, stop chatting with them. They may be bad people or dead! But I know they are alive and well.
But I still remember my friends. I love them and wish them well. It's just that there will never be them in my life again, and I don't need them, just as they don't need me.
Finally, I want to tell my friends that death is doomed to be lonely. Then, I will go alone.
Guys, take your time.
On this issue, let me give an example:
A classmate of mine in junior high school got breast cancer five years ago. Her family is not very good. She was single and her husband died young. It is really not easy for a person to bring up her son. She was terminally ill after just a few days of stability, but, more unfortunately, the man she called wanted to love her all her life (married) left her mercilessly after suffering from cancer and ended her relationship for five years. In addition, her confidants and close classmates (these classmates are well-off, including me, of course), after her illness, some went to the hospital to visit, and some didn't even have a phone call. Slowly, in recent years, except for me, all the others have disappeared without a trace. ...
This is the reality, the world is cold! In fact, physical pain is far less than mental pain!
Fortunately, she is objective and actively cooperates with the doctor's treatment. After five long years, she is recovering well now. Although I lost my love and some so-called friends, I also realized what true feelings and friends are.
Now, I am still the same as before. No matter what happens to her, my feelings for her have not changed. She is unfortunate, but she is brave and objective. She also knows that a true friend will never leave her when she needs it most.
I am a patient with advanced cervical cancer. Answer this question, my heart is calm. I have friends all over the world. How many people are there? It's a pity that I'm sick, my friends, almost none. I know one or two.
Sick people and friends will gradually alienate, so don't be sad, let alone complain, and face it calmly. Healthy people in life often feel lonely and have no friends to talk to, let alone a sick person. When you are sick, you are basically alone, and you will not end your life until the lights are exhausted. During this period, except for my closest relatives, I will take care of me, and I have little intersection with my friends. Because I'm not on a channel, how can I have the same language!
Once you get sick, give yourself strength and accept your disability. It is reasonable for anyone to stay away. It's not that friends are unkind, but that they are afraid that you are fragile and don't know how to communicate with you. They are afraid that any words will hurt you. Sometimes being away from friends is also a kind of fulfillment and protection. During this period, the departure of friends seems indifferent, but it is also a kind of love with temperature. They let you know that health is very important, that's all.
In order to love our family, but also for ourselves, let life be more meaningful, let us cherish health and life!
Liver cancer was diagnosed in July this year. Liver resection was performed on July 5. To tell the truth, many relatives have stopped contacting me after hearing that I have cancer. On the contrary, a friend who hasn't contacted me for many years contacted me and came to see me. Had dinner at my house. So I think relatives often can't catch up with a friend. I don't ask for a gift in the snow, because it's too extravagant. There is no need to add icing on the cake, because there is no need. I just don't want to hit someone when he's down. Everybody right?
After suffering from cancer, most of my friends drove cranes to the west.
1, next door to Lao Xu. He is an alcoholic. Drink a catty of white wine for a meal. One day we went fishing, and he said, no, I want to throw up, so I threw up. Later, I learned that this is the wine I drank three days ago. This touched me a lot. Drinking is too hurtful. Since then, I have never been drunk again. The trick is to have a good drink as soon as you get to the table, and then suddenly disappear as soon as you arrive. Will you be timid after others. Nobody pursued it.
After Lao Xu changed his job, he could not live past 50 because of liver cancer. 50, that's how most drunks die. Besides cancer, there are cardiovascular and cerebrovascular diseases.
2. Xiao Zhang next door on the left. Dentist. A short, capable and clever comrade-in-arms. After job hopping, he opened his own clinic. I guess he made a lot of money. Unfortunately, he didn't live past 50. He also has cancer. He also drinks, but not as much as Lao Xu. I suspect that he is narrow-minded and preoccupied.
3, colleague Lao Lu. When I was in the army, I had already detected intestinal cancer. After the operation, I am still alive and well. She should be 60 years old now. The reason why he got cancer is probably his cancer personality, that is, complaining all day. Nothing goes to the heart, and no one goes to the eyes. When I used to get intestinal cancer, I hung a bag of feces outside after the operation, which is what people often say. The person who loves cleaning the most has the dirtiest disease. I haven't seen Lao Lu since, and I don't know what kind of person he is.
4. Friend Li Er. After job-hopping, by chance, Dr. Li and I became friends. They have been dating for 10 years and often drink and chat together. Li Er, who was over 60 years old, suddenly got stomach cancer and died two years later. Li and I visited once, but unfortunately we were both dying, so there was nothing to say. The reasons for his illness are decoration, fatigue and pollution.
A few years later, Dali also died of lung cancer. Didn't tell me. I haven't heard from you in months. I don't think something is right. I went to his house and finally met my sister-in-law. Things have changed. Speaking of the past, I am embarrassed.
5. All the above are colleagues and friends. To talk about relatives and classmates, there are too many to mention. Cancer, virus, is now a human nightmare.
I had many good friends before I got cancer! But after getting sick, it gradually faded! There is a saying that is good! Call someone to drink tea to cool down! Really realistic! Friends I met after cancer! Always stay with me!
The rich have distant relatives in the mountains, and the poor are neglected in the downtown area. As long as you have money and can afford your own treatment, friends will still be friends and will not leave you. If you have no money, you need to borrow money for treatment. People can still help you once or twice. It's hard to say whether you have friends around you, and it's estimated that there are even fewer relatives. Relax, that's all in the world.
I have breast cancer. I don't have many friends. I have two or three good friends who care about me. My relatives also take care of me, especially my husband. I'm afraid I'm angry and in a bad mood, and I've met many good people who have helped me. Thank God for being so kind to me.