With health, you will have other possibilities; Without health, everything is zero. So, what is the most important thing when people reach middle age? Lao Wang believes that these five points are the most important when people reach middle age.
1, health first. At the beginning of the month, a friend of Lao Wang in Taiji Chuan said that when he returned to his hometown last year, he found that two childhood classmates had died, one was 46 years old and the other was 45 years old. Health is so important when people reach middle age. Lao Wang wants to say that you can earn money, but you must exercise first. Only with a healthy body can you control more wealth.
Family harmony and family health are all you have. Family harmony and family health are the happiest things for you. The ancients said, people, only by establishing a family can your treasury be opened and more wealth can be loaded into it; For modern people, with a family, you are truly mature.
However, after having a family, family harmony is the primary issue. Don't think that you can do whatever you want just by cooking raw rice into cooked rice. Boss, all kinds of hi in the game, as long as the family is not harmonious and the contradictions and quarrels are constant, it will affect your career.
Of course, family harmony also needs the health of family members. For many middle-level workers now, if one of your family members is seriously ill, a large part of your wealth, or even all of it, will be taken away.
A person in the workplace, with an annual salary of 654.38+0.2 million, was diagnosed with uremia. This is a bolt from the blue for young people and newly formed families. Therefore, Lao Wang suggested that family harmony is very important and family health is also very important.
3. Cognition is also very important. Reading can improve cognition. If you don't learn to improve your cognition in middle age, you are likely to become the object of ridicule.
Once, Lao Wang attended an art exhibition. A well-dressed woman is admiring a famous painting. She never stops talking. She looked at the horse in the picture and said that the horse's ass was too fat, and everything else looked good. This sentence surprised everyone. Can you imagine the expressions of people around you? After that, no one wants to chat with this gorgeous woman, but everyone can get by with their faces.
Why? This is that the angle of cognition and appreciation is too low and incompatible with the surrounding environment. If the lady says that the lines are soft and full, maybe her cognitive level will rise a lot. Many people are biased against cognition, and think that if you don't approve of me, I won't play with you. Don't forget, if you are rejected because of your cognition, or if you reject someone with high cognition, your social circle can be imagined.
4. Wealth is indispensable. When you were young, you didn't have money, and others wouldn't think much of you. When people reach middle age, wealth has not accumulated, let alone others, even relatives look down on you. Society can't measure a person by money, but neither can you without money.
For example, if you attend an activity, the person with money and status must be C, and the person without money and status can only be the person standing next to you. When people reach middle age, if you want to be near C or C, you must have wealth, which is the basis for you and your family to walk in society.
5. Have the ability to make money continuously, which is generally a unique or unique skill. What does the accumulation of wealth depend on? The ability to make money continuously. What can make money continuously? You have unique or unique skills. Without this, you may really be unable to walk in society. Especially for middle-aged people, unique or unique skills are particularly important.
If you don't have this ability, you will continue to look for a job in order to survive after you are 50 years old. At that time, it was too late to regret not mastering a skill when I was young. In the workplace, as long as you are given an opportunity to have unique or unique skills, as long as you seize these opportunities, you can continue to make money with your skills.
Write it at the end
Middle age is your most energetic period, and many achievements are basically made during this period. Therefore, you should make good use of your golden period of middle age and make yourself more valuable.