First, parents should pay attention to their children's mental health and learn to see through their minds. Children with psychological problems generally have the following manifestations:
1, easily nervous, irritable, anxious, afraid to associate with people, timid, afraid, timid, and always insecure inside.
2. Sensitive, suspicious, overly restrained, thinking too much, indecisive, attention to detail, perfect work, obsessive-compulsive disorder.
3. Some children are nervous and anxious, but what they tell their parents or doctors are somatization symptoms such as headache, insomnia, gastrointestinal discomfort and listlessness.
Some children's psychological problems are hidden and difficult to find. The concrete manifestations are: things to be done are delayed, problems are always delayed, and some even go drinking, throwing problems out of consciousness and not solving them.
5. vent when encountering setbacks and problems that cannot be solved, and vent with acts such as smashing things.
6. A normal life of escapism. For example, sleeping during the day and surfing the internet all night at night; Tired of learning, wandering the streets all day or running away from home. Introverted, silent and pessimistic thoughts and behaviors.
Second, to pay attention to children's mental health, we must first understand children, children's psychological needs and children's feelings. Parents usually need to do the following when educating their children:
1. Don't get too close to children. Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with people of the same age, so as to learn how to get along with others and master interpersonal skills.
2, don't care too much about children, it is easy for children to be too self-centered, thinking that everyone should respect him and become arrogant.
3. Don't praise your child too much. Children have achievements in doing things. Excessive praise will make children infected with the bad psychology of fishing for fame.
4. Don't get emotional with children. Parents should keep emotional restraint when getting along with their children. Don't be too emotional, it will make children sensitive and suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid.
5. Don't cheat and scare children, as this will lose the authority of parents in the eyes of children, and children will not listen to all warnings in the future.
6. Respect children, don't expose their shortcomings in public, and don't criticize or laugh at them in front of peers. This will damage children's self-esteem and lead to unhealthy psychology such as inferiority, timidity and escape. Invisible bad stimuli will strengthen children's weaknesses.
7. Cultivating children's sense of self-worth is conducive to cultivating children's self-esteem and self-confidence, and using various opportunities to help children acquire the abilities that they may master. This requires parents to have a suitable expectation for their children. This requirement must be achieved by children through hard work. In addition, let the children solve their own problems as much as possible. Design some situations that can promote children's success. Adults must be patient and let their children complete the activities within their power, and must not interfere or arrange, so that children will never feel the successful experience.
8. Cultivate positive emotions. Parents should cultivate their children's positive and optimistic mood when educating them, because this mood is an important condition for their normal psychological development and healthy physical development. Parents should set an example to educate their children and keep this kind of mood at all times, which is conducive to cultivating children's happy and positive emotional state.