My father is a private primary school teacher. He is versatile and clever. He can play everything, play everything and sing everything. He is short and was born in Mu Na. He doesn't like talking or doing farm work.
When he was 25, he was introduced to my 22-year-old mother. My mother doesn't know a word, but she is strong and half a head taller than my father. Before getting married, she was an "iron lady" on the production team and was a good cook at everything.
The introducer arranged for them to meet at their own home. My father left first and sat behind the desk waiting for my mother. My mother saw my father as soon as she walked in the door. She sat there tenderly, clean and handsome, and fell in love with him at first sight.
My father saw my mother's thick eyebrows and strong walking style. At first glance, he was a frank person and fell in love with her. He nodded and agreed to associate with my mother. It was love at first sight.
Later, every time my mother mentioned this blind date to us, she squinted and said, "Your father played a clever trick. He knows that he is short and afraid that I will look down on him, so he has been sitting behind the desk and can't get up. " Then I nodded in agreement, and he stood up. When I saw it, God, why is he half a head shorter than me? But I had promised at that time, and it was too late to regret it! "
After that, my mother giggled and looked at my father with reproach and tenderness in her eyes. My dad replied, "I didn't win by appearance, I relied on talent!" " "
My dad is really talented. He plays the erhu well, plays the electronic organ well and writes calligraphy well. Later, he was admitted to a public teacher with his own skills. My mother has no culture and has worshipped him all her life!
At home, the mother does everything, washing and cooking, taking the baby to farm, and even building a pigsty, plowing and picking the grain. She also scrambled to do the work that these men did. My father is short and thin, so he can't do heavy manual work. Once after picking grain, he fainted in the farmland due to heatstroke and lay at home for several days. For this reason, my mother loves him very much and only lets him do some light work.
In those years, my mother shouldered the burden of the family like a man, supported my father to be admitted to a public teacher, raised our two sisters with him, and sent us to college, but she broke down from overwork. In the first year after graduating from college, I got sick and left us.
My father took care of my mother when she was ill, but he couldn't take care of anyone. After marrying my mother, my mother took care of everything and didn't even wash a pair of socks. After my mother fell ill, his sky collapsed. ...
The night my mother left, he cried! This is the first time I have ever seen him cry.
I also introduced my father and aunt Liu. At that time, my mother had only been gone for a year, and my father had not yet come out of the pain of losing her mother. Aunt Liu teaches in a primary school in another town. My father used to ride a motorcycle for two hours and had to transfer to the county seat to take the shuttle bus. Plus the waiting time, it took him a long time.
My uncles and aunts all disapprove of my dad going to Liu Yi, saying that she is too far away for my dad to go. They all advised him, "Can't you find a younger one nearby?" It is also convenient to take care of your life in the future. "
But my dad said, "I'm in good health. Who needs to take care of me? " I just want someone who can talk! "
After his mother died, he sold his house and land in his hometown in the countryside and lived alone in the school dormitory. In addition to class every day, I just go back to the dormitory and stare blankly. People are much older.
After getting to know Liu Yi, he seems to have beaten chicken blood and recovered his spirit. Every weekend, he would ride a motorcycle for two hours on the mountain road to see Liu Yi.
Aunt Liu looks like my mother, but taller, whiter and gentler than my mother. She always speaks softly to my father, who likes it very much.
She is five years younger than my father, her ex-husband died early, and she raised two daughters alone. The eldest daughter is married, the second daughter works in other places, and her ex-husband's parents are still raised at home. And all the relatives of her ex-husband's family.
After getting along with my dad, she also reminded him: "I have a heavy housework burden, and I have to take care of my parents-in-law and my unmarried second daughter." After you are with me, I can't go through it with you. If you can't accept it, then break up. "
But my dad doesn't care about it at all. Instead, he moved his things from the school dormitory to the Liu family, a bit like a swallow nesting. Soon, he and Liu Yi went to get the license together, and handed over all his salary to Liu Yi for management. He rode a motorcycle to and from Liu Yi's home and school every week, and became a weekend husband and wife with Liu Yi.
They lived apart for seven years. Finally, five years ago, my father retired and moved to the Liu family to live with her. My uncles and aunts all thought my father was a "son-in-law" and became a son-in-law. But I can't figure it out. Liu Yi lives in her ex-husband's house. Whose family is my father's son-in-law?
But they really love each other together. My father also supports my ex-husband and parents with Aunt Liu, and has a good relationship with the two old people.
Aunt Liu is also very kind to our sisters. Whether we get married and have children or have difficulties at home, she will give us money, just 20 thousand at a time.
We go back to the Liu family to see dad. She always cooks a big table for us. When she left, she prepared a lot of rice, meat, eggs and vegetables for us to take back to Wuhan.
Liu Yi's second daughter divorced after a bad relationship with her first husband, and one daughter was awarded to the woman for support. But she later married and gave birth to a child, and no one took care of the child. Aunt Liu and my father took on the responsibility of raising the child.
Because Liu Yi and my dad have been taking care of them since birth, the children and my dad have deep feelings. We take our son back and often buy her things. My son gets along well with her.
Liu Yi's ex-husband's parents are also a kind old man. One summer vacation, my son and I went back to play and stayed at Aunt Liu's house for a week. I woke up in the morning and found that my son and I had washed and hung up the clothes-the old man actually helped us wash them all. They are all old people in their seventies and eighties!
Seeing Aunt Liu's house is so good, my father lives comfortably in her house, and we are both very happy. Who knows, my father is treating diseases.
The year before last, my father suddenly had a stroke and half of his body could not move. Fortunately, Liu Yi was around to take care of him, taking care of him every day and helping him go out for a walk. He slowly recovered his self-care ability.
We are all very grateful to Aunt Liu. Without her, my father could not have recovered so quickly.
However, in March this year, my father suddenly felt a headache and couldn't breathe. He went to the hospital for examination, and his platelet count was less than 10, which was critical. We quickly transferred him to Wuhan Hospital, where he was diagnosed as leukemia after examination.
Our sister decided to pay for his treatment, but Aunt Liu said that she had already prepared pension money for my father, and we would give it when it was not enough. Therefore, all the expenses of my dad during his chemotherapy in Wuhan, nearly 65,438+200,000, were paid by Liu Yi.
After the treatment in Wuhan, my dad transferred to the county hospital for further treatment. In the meantime, Liu Yi took care of him and fed him spoonfuls. Back to Aunt Liu's house, she also made him all kinds of delicious conditioning. Finally, my father's health improved, and his platelet count rose to 1 17, returning to normal.
Now, my father's condition is basically stable and he lives at home with Aunt Liu. Nothing happened, and Liu Yi won't come to us. She said, "It's not easy for you to be outside. You have to work, you have to take care of the children, and you have to pay off the mortgage and car loan. The pressure is also great. You can live your own lives, your father has me watching, don't worry! "
Yes, we're not worried. My father found a good wife like Liu Yi, and we are all grateful. Without Aunt Liu, my father's later life would be unknown. Although we have two daughters, after all, we have a family and a job outside, so we can't stay with him all day. Only Liu will accompany him to his old age.
Our sisters agreed that even if my father died, we would take Liu Yi as our mother and do our duty to support her.
This is the story of a friend of mine.
Her father became a widow at the age of 52. At the age of 53, he was introduced to marry Liu Yi. After they got together, they helped each other and lived together for 13 years. Marry two daughters, raise the children of Liu's first daughter, and support Liu Yi's ex-husband's in-laws.
Such a family is really rare. Especially during his father's stroke and leukemia, Liu Yi took out his savings to treat his father and take care of him, which was even more touching.
What is a halfway couple? So that's it! The story of my friend's father also tells us:
1, not all couples on the way are looking for money. When choosing a wife, we must pay more attention to each other's personality, and a good personality can make this marriage good.
Don't take money too seriously, even if you are a couple halfway. You should trust each other more, support each other, help each other solve difficulties and tide over difficulties together. Only in this way can the marriage last.
3. Halfway couples should also have an emotional foundation. If they only aim at economic benefits, they all want benefits, but they don't want to pay. Such a remarriage relationship will disintegrate sooner or later.
Finally, I wish my friend's father a speedy recovery and spend more time in Liuyi!