There are no two identical leaves and no two identical children in the world. Different children have their own characteristics. What are the characteristics of Zi Qian? I think kindness should come first. Then because of kindness, different qualities are derived, such as gratitude, such as civilization.
Know how to be grateful: give the takeaway brother a bottle of drink.
I didn't eat enough for dinner. At 9 o'clock in the evening, Zi Qian ordered takeout with his mobile phone.
In the past, in less than 30 minutes, the take-out of this store in Xiao Jiu was sure to be delivered on time, even in advance. However, on this day, neither the left nor the right came. ...
What's going on here?
Ziqian sat on the sofa: "Mom, is it raining outside?"
"When mom came back, it was raining lightly, but it would be nice to wear a hat! And now? ……"
Words haven't say that finish, zi Qian has opened the door to the balcony. The rustling rain outside the window is very clear.
"Mom, can you cancel the takeaway now?"
"Mom didn't try. Zi Qian, you try? "
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Zi Qian kept his head down and operated on his mobile phone.
"Mom, when the takeaway is delivered, shall we give the takeaway brother a bottle of drink?"
Did not respond in time, waiting for Zi Qian to continue.
"It is no longer possible to cancel the order on the platform ..."
It turned out that since the order could not be cancelled, Zi Qian wanted to send a bottle of drink to the takeaway brother to show his gratitude.
"Of course! Milk, red bull, anything! However, my mother hopes that Ziqian can personally apologize to the takeaway brother. "
Zi Qian is full of reluctance.
"Mom, you send it this time and I'll come next time, okay?"
This is Zi Qian, a junior high school student, who is kind-hearted, but still shy and afraid to confess.
It's been raining.
About 30 minutes later, I heard the doorbell ring.
Zi Qian jumped up from the sofa and picked up a can of red bull (maybe the child thinks it is more refreshing! ) Give me a hug and walk to the door.
The door opened and there stood a middle-aged man. Wearing a wet raincoat and carrying Zi Qian's takeaway in his hand.
While greeting, I took the takeaway: "Hello, Master! Thank you! "
Pass another can of red bull: "Master, thank you for bringing us takeout in the rain!" " The child didn't know it was raining when he ordered it, but later he wanted to cancel it, and it was impossible to cancel it. Thank you for giving it to us in the rain! Have a refreshing drink! Be sure to pay attention to safety when riding back "
The master smiled! After a short period of disbelief, labor is respected and happiness overflows.
Close the door, and Zi Qian begins to eat. I continued to go back to the sofa and read.
The scene just now seems to have never happened. But as a mother, catching Zi Qian's expression clearly shows her happiness and intoxication after her gratitude is actually expressed.
The next morning, I went to the middle school with members of the principal's office, met Zi Qian's principal and teachers, and praised Zi Qian's Excellence again and again.
Linked to last night's scene, I think, the Excellence here points more to Zi Qian's kindness! Because this is the premise and starting point of healthy growth.
Civilization: Pick up the mask on the ground.
Going upstairs from the underground garage, I saw a mask on the ground. Zi Qian went over and picked it up. ...
After returning home, urge Zi Qian to wash his hands before doing his homework.
The winter vacation has begun. Zi Qian does his homework at home during the day. When they come home from school in the evening, the two girls will have a chat.
"Mom, I have a little chest tightness these two days. Will I get sick? "
Reach out and touch your forehead. Your temperature is normal.
"Mom, do you think this has anything to do with the mask I found on the ground?"
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I can't keep silent any longer. When Zi Qian is shaken and confused, as a parent, I must give him correct guidance in time to let him know that what he is doing is very correct, but he can continue to improve.
"Zi Qian, my mother saw a mask on the ground and thought it was meaningful and useful. Pick it up and throw it in the trash can! This mother wants students to be modest, because my mother can only do it at school at present, and pick up the garbage in time when she sees it ... "
"Mom, I got pneumonia? I still won't pick up the mask on the ground in the future! Although I have been insisting for two months! " Zi Qian can't wait to interrupt me.
"Zi Qian, there is nothing wrong with you! However, if you can't protect yourself, you can only take it for two months! Therefore, you must wash your hands every time you finish, and you must have a sense of self-protection in order to do more good deeds and contribute more to environmental protection! "
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The prevention and control of epidemic situation in COVID-19 requires everyone to wear masks in public places and protect themselves.
What should I do after using the mask? This is also an important issue related to environmental protection. In order to effectively deal with it, separate recycling is implemented, and waste masks and dustbins are added in public places. Most people will put the discarded masks in the designated trash can, but they will always be found lying on the ground. ...
At my side, a child appeared. He saw the discarded mask and took the initiative to pick it up. That was Zi Qian. This is a seemingly insignificant action, but it is actually great. Because Zi Qian is not only strict with himself, but also tolerant of others, which is the embodiment of caring for the environment and stressing civilization.
This winter vacation, Zi Qian didn't run around as usual. He just did homework and read books at home, played sports with his father, watched movies and chatted with his mother.
We are caring for Zi Qian's kindness, and expect Zi Qian to grow more excellent qualities on this premise and basis, such as natural and graceful, such as active expression.
Every child is an angel and has his own growth rhythm like a flower. As parents, all we have to do is trust the company, give help, and then wait for the flowers to bloom.