1. Social values: In many cultures, swearing is regarded as impolite and uncivilized. If you scold others, you may feel that you have violated social values and moral standards, resulting in a sense of guilt and self-blame.
2. Anti-empathy: When you scold others, you may feel responsible for their pain and anxiety, which will make you feel guilty and blame yourself.
3. Self-identity: If you scold others, you may feel that you have drawn a line with them, which may lead to loneliness and anxiety.
4. Worried about the future: When you scold others, you may worry that it will have a negative impact on your future, for example, it may affect your reputation, interpersonal relationship and job opportunities.
To sum up, scolding others may cause negative emotions such as guilt and self-blame, and affect one's mood and mental health. Therefore, we should try to avoid swearing, learn to control our emotions, and seek healthy ways to deal with contradictions and emotional problems.