That's the reason. If you care too much, it will take time and effort. -* * * "heart" such a big place, haggle over every ounce, is bound to take everything to heart. If you put too much, you will be unbearable for a long time. For the sake of your health, you should also put down what you should put down and move forward lightly. There must be only one "heart". Only when you are healthy can you be happy.
It's hard for yourself to haggle over every ounce. Everything can't be black and white. Weigh it-accept if the profit is greater than ours, or give it up. Life is short. If you do what you like and forget what you hate, you can't care.
There is some truth in this sentence. Happiness in life lies not in how much money you have or how much you have, but in satisfaction and relaxation.
People who haggle over every ounce always care too much about things that are not very important. Obviously, they have to haggle over trifles, waste a lot of time and energy, and miss a lot of beautiful things in life just for that trivial little profit.
Although some jobs need to be haggled over, many things in daily life do not need to be haggled over. You can't be disappointed because of a little gain or loss, so that life is full of pessimism and negative energy. Such people are usually very tired.
The ancients said: "Don't be happy with things, don't be sad with yourself." I think it is the best benchmark for a happy life. Everything is impermanent, and you can't be happy or sad because of your own gains and losses. This will not only make your life very tired, but also make your life happiness very low.
So don't be too harsh, be content, try to do the right thing, stay away from the wrong thing, and don't be too cruel in everything, which is not good for yourself and friendly to others.
Very reasonable.
People who haggle over every ounce usually have a small pattern and a low level, and often can't see the scenery behind the open-mindedness.
Imagine a person standing on the 1 floor to see the scenery and a person standing on the 1 1 floor to see the scenery. Whoever looks more will find more beauty. From the 1 floor, it can be clearly seen that there are many things in the market, busy with life, quarreling over trifles and frustrated with life. All the sorrows and misfortunes are magnified in front of us. From the 1 1 floor, you can see all the beautiful scenery, but you can't see the trivial things. All the wounds are just a small flaw in the spring breeze and will not affect my mood.
Everywhere, the green poplar is tied to the horse, and every family has a road to Chang' an.
"A lot of pain in life comes from blind competition."
"If you think wrong, you are wrong. Take a step back and think about everything." "The more tolerant you are, the better your own life will be. The more you care, the narrower your space will be. " People's gains are often not between disputes, but beyond gains and losses. "People who care too much are actually unhappy." People are always staring at their eyes, calculating the slightest profit, and always thinking about maximizing benefits. Finally, I was upset and exhausted. If you care about the gains and losses of interests, you will be trapped in a quagmire and unable to extricate yourself; If you care about fame and fortune, you will devour your conscience, and it is too difficult to turn back; If you care about the rights and wrongs of human beings, you will be entangled in the world and cannot escape. How can you tolerate happiness and happiness if you have too many calculations in your heart?
"The heart is like a road, and the more you care about it, the narrower it is; The more inclusive, the broader. " "The great wise man must be modest, the great good man must be tolerant, only the little wise man is aggressive, and the little good man haggles over every ounce." In life, when we meet people, we will always encounter all kinds of problems. More tolerance will make us calm. If you care too much, there will be a storm. Life is short and things change. Sometimes we don't have to care about everything, we care about everything. I don't care, but I get along well with others and get respect and love from others. Why not? What determines a person's future is not care, but kindness and a tolerant heart. People live too tired, and most of the time they are competing with themselves.
Only with your heart and less care about gains and losses can you be satisfied and everything be safe.
People who haggle over every ounce must be tired alive. People who haggle over every ounce, big or small, like to haggle over every ounce. They are afraid that they will suffer a little. What happened, he was wondering whether he would suffer. Will others take advantage of her? My heart is also very tired. No matter what happens, he wants to take more advantage than others. His mind is still balanced. How happy such a person is, he will not feel happy and will make many diseases. My heart is not bad, but my temper is a little grumpy and willful. On the other hand, how many people are not willful? People are all the same. Don't criticize such a stubborn person too much, which is different from people's ideas. We think he is haggle over every ounce, but he doesn't think so himself. We should also understand people like him, change our ideas, grind the iron pestle into a needle, and let nature take its course.
People who haggle over every ounce must be tired alive. People who haggle over every ounce, big or small, like to haggle over every ounce. They are afraid that they will suffer a little. What happened, he was wondering whether he would suffer. Will others take advantage of her? My heart is also very tired. No matter what happens, he wants to take more advantage than others. His mind is still balanced. How happy such a person is, he will not feel happy and will make many diseases. My heart is not bad, but my temper is a little grumpy and willful. On the other hand, how many people are not willful? People are all the same. Don't criticize such a stubborn person too much, which is different from people's ideas. We think he is haggle over every ounce, but he doesn't think so himself. We should also understand people like him, change our ideas, grind the iron pestle into a needle, and let nature take its course.
You don't know me at all. I won't haggle over any of them. I'll listen to you if there's anything.