In a short life, parents play an extremely important role, giving us life and bringing us up. They spent almost half their lives worrying about us. Parents are irreplaceable from birth to adulthood and then to independence, so it is often said that parents are more grateful than the sky.
When children grow up and become famous, they should first thank their parents who gave birth to them.
Our growth is inseparable from the company of our parents. For most people, parents are the most important people in life. For some people, they are unfortunate. They may be abandoned by their parents at birth.
As this article will tell, this child was abandoned by her biological parents, who have nothing to do with her except giving her life, but she has a deep emotional bond with her adoptive father.
First encounter on a snowy night
As the saying goes, good is rewarded with good, and evil with evil. People believe that kind people will be rewarded, and kind people will bring full positive energy to society and infect people around them.
In our daily life, we always meet many good people. And these good people all have the same characteristics. Most of them are ordinary, born in poverty, and may even lead an extremely difficult life, but it is such a group of people who keep a kind heart inside.
In their cognition, they help if they can, regardless, because they are kind and can't see the injustice in the world and the hardships of others. Life is hard, but there are still such people in the society now, and Henan old farmer Anbang is one of them.
Lu Anbang is the most common person in the vast sea of people, and his family conditions are generally even poor. When he was young, he worked in a drama troupe, but his salary was not high enough to support himself. Later, at the age of 52, he was unable to continue working due to injury and had to retire completely.
Although he lived for most of his life, his salary was not generous, his retirement fund could not meet the normal needs of life, and he had no other professional skills. So he can only open a small convenience store in the town to maintain his retirement life. Convenience store business is sluggish, and his life is as poor as ever.
One evening, it was the beginning of his fate with his children. He didn't expect that this so-called fate was a long-cherished wish that bound him all his life. That day, he was walking home as usual. Looking around, there is no one in the alley. At this moment, he suddenly heard several baby cries. At first, he really didn't care too much, because he probably thought he heard wrong.
So he continued to walk home. I don't know why, just at this time, he heard the baby crying more and more clearly. Now he is really sure that he didn't hear the sound, but there is a baby crying.
At this time, his heart was full of doubts, why there was a baby crying in this deserted street, and the baby seemed to be left unattended. He was shocked. Was he lost or abandoned by adults? He tried to find the baby, which was the first time that Lu Anbang and the baby met.
Insist on adoption
As mentioned above, although Lu Anbang was born in poverty and lived in poverty, he has always been a kind-hearted middle-aged man.
At that time, he felt very distressed when he realized that the baby might be abandoned. He immediately made up his mind to find the baby. He was very puzzled why the parents abandoned their child, and finally found the child in a trash can.
He has been married to his wife for decades and has never had children, but as he grows older, he doesn't care. Although he and his wife are poor, they are also very happy. Nevertheless, his neighbors will still point at him, so he is really eager to have a child of his own.
After that, he took the children home. When he got home, Lu Anbang was questioned by his family, including his wife. He was surprised where he had taken such a child.
Under the inquiry of his family, he finally told the origin of the child. At this moment, he made a decision to adopt the child, went to the local police station to go through the formalities, registered his household registration, and gave the little girl a name-Yuanyuan.
He didn't know that his decision would make the rest of his life worse. He not only divorced his wife, but also mortgaged his house. Of course, this is another story.
Of course, his family had to accept his decision because he was always eager to have children of his own. Just when he saw hope, he accidentally found a "pimple" on the abandoned baby's waist, which was abandoned by his parents for this reason.
This situation can be said to be a greater burden for Lu Anbang, who is not rich, and giving up adoption is the best decision.
But even so, the good-hearted man did not decide to give up, and no one advised him. He immediately took the child to the hospital for treatment, and he began a life that was doomed to be difficult for the rest of his life.
Difficult survival
The little girl's illness is not easy to cure. Originally, the Lu Anbang family could only live their own lives, but it was obviously difficult to treat the little girl. Otherwise, her biological parents would not abandon her so easily.
Liu Anbang could not have not thought of this problem, nor could he not know what he would face in the future, but he only thought that it would be worthwhile if he could cure a steady stream of diseases through treatment and let her grow up healthily like other children in the future, so he never thought of giving up.
For him, no matter what disease Yuan Yuan has, he will never give up treatment. He just wants to cure her, and he cares nothing else.
Later, after a comprehensive examination in the hospital, Lu Anbang realized that the original source was congenital bone marrow embolism, which is a congenital serious disease with great difficulty and high cost. Although it can be treated, people worry that it must be treated in a hospital bed all the year round.
Perhaps because of this, her biological parents decided to abandon her and let her die.
So Lu Anbang began a steady stream of seeking medical treatment. After treatment, her condition has improved. /kloc-for 0/6 years, Liu anbang treated her like her own, without a trace of mistreatment. Although the little girl is unfortunate, she is very happy when she grows up.
. But for the source, from the day when the source of adoption was decided, Lu Anbang's life was actually an unfortunate beginning.
Due to constant illness, his wife divorced him at an early age. Not only that, he mortgaged his house in exchange for a steady stream of diseases. He was not rich before, but now he can be said to be very difficult. I can't help sighing, why do such kind people live so hard? Maybe sometimes the world is unfair.
Today, Lu Anbang is over 70 years old, full of diseases, and has no strong smile on his face. For him, it has reached the end of his life, but for the source who was adopted that year, life has just begun.
But what is certain is that Lu Anbang has never regretted it. He doesn't regret the departure of his wife, the mortgage of his house and the hardship of life because he persisted in 16 years, which is unimaginable and impossible for ordinary people to persist.
However, he never gave up, and his responsibility and obligation to adopt abandoned babies in those years never changed. As always, even when he was ill, he was thinking about the endless problems of life in the future.
Summary:
From Lu Anbang, we can see the goodness of human nature and inner softness, but we can't help but reflect. When we are unable to do good, we don't need to consider giving up.
As the saying goes, one good deed deserves another, but Lu Anbang, a kind and ordinary middle-aged man, makes his life more difficult because of his kindness. Therefore, Lu Anbang's spiritual quality is worthy of recognition, which is also lacking in today's society, but it also tells us that paying goodwill also needs to be within the scope of ability.