What does it mean to be a lesbian?

Looks like a lesbian.

Lesbian, English, referred to as Les. Many LES were born. They can only be friends with men, not love and sexual desire. But some people like women, but they may also like men. These people are bisexual. Some people are nervous and afraid at the sight of men, so they can't talk, let alone fall in love, so when they need love, they have to find a woman. This is called androphobia (non-scientific name, corresponding to fear of women) and can be treated. Psychological factors, such as trauma or environmental influence, can also be changed. Finally, there is something special: those who are dumped by men and say that they want to be LES and never love men again are just escaping from reality, which can also be said to be psychological abnormalities (different from the above "psychology").

Homosexuality is a kind of culture, so we should judge it rationally.

Homosexuality is actually a very simple problem, as simple as the earth going around the sun. However, for various reasons, many people don't really understand the secret and the world, and it is normal for them to misunderstand or even dislike it because of their ignorance. In fact, every phenomenon has a reason, and homosexuality is no exception. Homosexuality, like heterosexuality, is natural, not mental illness, which has been recognized by more and more psychologists. Homosexuality exists not only in human beings, but also in the animal kingdom, which is not a patent of human beings. Perhaps, the orientation of the sexual object itself is independent of human will. People often regard homosexuality as mental illness, sexual perversion and sexual perversion. In fact, their minds are completely normal. Not to mention, some homosexuals, such as louganis and Versace, have made remarkable achievements in their respective fields. Homosexuality has existed in the world since ancient times, and China is no exception. China's ancient novels "Jin Ping Mei" and "A Dream of Red Mansions" contain descriptions of homosexual characters or homosexual behaviors. Feng Menglong's Love History has a chapter "Love Story" devoted to homosexuality. Its handling attitude is no different from heterosexuality. And in China's recorded history, traces of homosexuality can be seen everywhere. There are many classic stories (Broken Sleeves, Peaches) and famous figures (Emperor Aidi of Han Dynasty, Dong Xian). Other studies also show that China's attitude towards homosexuality in ancient times was more liberal than that in the West at the same time. Homosexuality is a cultural phenomenon. Homosexuality has existed since ancient times, but until a century ago, homosexuality was always regarded as an evil "behavior" rather than a "state". Gay sex is condemned as evil by Christianity and illegal in some European countries, including Britain. The first case study on homosexuality was published in the United States on 1879. It takes this topic as a brand-new topic, as if homosexuality had never existed before. It was surprising at that time to regard homosexuals as an almost different race and define homosexuality as a mental disorder. In today's terminology, medical experts have thought that "sexual behavior" and "sexual orientation" or "sexual orientation" are different. The former refers to what someone "did" and the latter refers to what someone "used to be". During this period, many experts used "sexual perversion" to describe homosexuals in the new sense. This shows that homosexuality is regarded as a reversal of gender identity, or it is upside down: "lesbians are physically women and psychologically men." On the other hand, gay men are physically male and psychologically female. "Sexual perversion explains why women's passivity can be seen in men, while men's initiative can be seen in women. Research experts have concluded that for a woman who wants to be a man, or a man who wants to be a woman, homosexual relationship is an emotional effort as close as possible to normal heterosexuality. Nowadays, homosexuality, heterosexuality and bisexuality are considered as different types of "sexual orientation", which is defined as "persistent attraction to members of a specific gender in sex, feeling or illusion"; Therefore, homosexuality refers to "the basic or absolute attraction to members of the same sex". However, after all, homosexuals are a minority of sexual orientation, and their sexual partners are opposite to heterosexuals. When laws and social customs reflect the will and intention of most people or rulers, discrimination and persecution against homosexuals are inevitable. Therefore, the elimination of public discrimination against homosexuality depends mainly on universal education, which requires both emotional care and rational judgment.

Lesbian noun

T(Butch): abbreviation of English Tomboy, which refers to a lesbian who is masculine in dress, behavior and temperament and plays the role of "husband" among lesbians; The word "steamed stuffed bun" in lesbian culture in Taiwan Province Province is a common name for lesbians. Femme: a lesbian (also known as P) who has femininity in dress, behavior and temperament, identifies with women psychologically and plays the role of "wife" among lesbians. The distinction of T/Po in lesbian culture in Taiwan Province Province is equivalent to Butch/Femme in the West. The word "Po" originally comes from T, which means "T's wife". But in recent years, women's subjectivity has gradually emerged, so it generally refers to those who are more feminine. Lesbian: A lesbian. Lazi: a synonym for lesbian, transliterated from Lez (short for lesbian). It first appeared in the book Crocodile Notes (Qiu Zhu of Lianjing Publishing House), and the related statement is also the word "Lala". Indiscriminate: Literally, it can be interpreted as "unclassified" or "difficult to classify", which is a new term in lesbian culture in recent years. It refers to lesbians whose dress, behavior and temperament are difficult to define, showing a cross-gender ambiguous situation. Uncle: The etymology of "elder T." originated in 1960s, and lesbians used it to address their elders. O-Le: short for old lesbian, generally referring to lesbians over 30 years old. As for why it should be translated into "Leo"? Some lesbians joked: because after this age, it is time to use Leo for maintenance. T bar: lesbian bar Bisexual (bisexual): the object of love and desire may be the same sex or the opposite sex CC: also called "sister", it refers to a homosexual who is feminine in temperament, behavior and dress. "CC" comes from the English word Sissy and can be heard in early Hollywood movies. Sometimes called C. Couple: Gay couples.