Life has six turning points, that is, six deadlines. Each term represents ten years, and the palace attached to each decade represents the task at this stage. From the perspective of fighting, they are: Life Palace (childhood), Parents' Brother Palace (youth), Husband and Wife Palace and Fude Palace (youth), Daughter Palace and Tianzhai Palace (middle age) and Finance and Business Palace (prime age).
The first deadline: the palace of life
Corresponding divination: divination
Strange doctor: the difficulty of survival
Meaning: The first house, that is, the life house and the moving house, determines your life and the first ten years of your life. Starting from the palace of life also determines your essence, whether it is good or bad, whether it is a mule or a horse. The palace of life determines the whole life, but from the time limit, the palace of life is only the beginning of ten years, which almost plays a decisive role in life, so the experience and environment of this decade determine your future path.
The battle of Wei Zi began in the palace of life, which represented my vitality and the first decade of my life. Life, life, first of all, people have a life, only the existence of people, life can continue, so the layout of the first palace is the beginning of life, which tells us that life is difficult.
Life is not our decision, but our choice. This choice is often called hard work. Everything depends on human effort, heaven rewards diligence and so on. All these subjectively motivate us to keep working hard. Life is fragile, especially at the beginning. Without any blow, many lives are destroyed in the bud and at the beginning. This is why the first divination after heaven and earth in Zhouyi is Shuileitun. Difficulties and fears, pain and strength, survival and destruction begin from the beginning of life.
Life is fragile, what survives is precious, there is no good or evil!
The second deadline: Parents and Brothers Palace
Corresponding divination: Mongolian divination
Divination meaning: being kind to others.
The second limit of fighting in Wei Zi is the parents' palace and the brothers' palace, which determines whether you have a good education and a healthy personality in your life; You are evil, upright, talented and a slave; This decade can also be decided.
The second boundary is very important: born without knowing, dead without knowing. The second deadline is often considered unimportant by people, but it is actually the basis for this irrelevance to determine your life. "Menggua" means when children are confused, that is, when they are given correct guidance. The protagonists here are brothers, sisters, parents and teachers in the Second Palace of Wei Zi Doodle. The biggest mistake of our time is to separate school education from family education. From Wei Zidou's Book and Zhouyi, we can clearly see that they are inseparable. Modern only children are spoiled, which leads them to be all wimps, flashy and unable to stand the test of life, and countless people commit suicide in order to fail the exam. This kind of person usually has a problem with this deadline. In the final analysis, it is a matter of family and school education, so this period determines the foundation of your future life. It also tells us the responsibility of parents and family members to their children: not only to raise, but also to be positive!
Third Term: Husband and Wife Palace and Fude Palace
Corresponding divination: Need divination
Divination meaning: wait for the opportunity, ready to go.
The third boundary, that is, ten years after the age of twenty, is called the couple's palace or the Fude Palace. Husband and wife palace and Fude palace are the first houses when you leave home, that is, the beginning of your pursuit of independent life and life, which play a decisive role in your later life.
When people leave their families, they naturally have to live independently. The first characteristic of independent life is love, marriage and ideological independence. This shows that this arrangement is very logical and in line with the social and cultural traditions of China. Marriage is no joke. A happy marriage can make a perfect life. How many emperors have achieved something because of their good wives? The most famous is the loneliness of Emperor Wendi, and there are many others, such as sourdrang queen. Many people have been building their country all their lives, but they have been ruined by their own women. So be absolutely cautious before marriage. In ancient times, there was no such thing as love This is entirely based on parents' orders and matchmakers' words. The failure of ancient women's marriage was often attributed to their parents. Traditional marriage has its own advantages and disadvantages, avoiding being as frivolous and indecisive as modern people. After all, few parents push their children into the fire pit. Its disadvantage is that it stifles human rights in this way. In fact, human rights are relative, and westernization is often decisive. Locke's philosophy of human rights has obvious absoluteness. Human rights don't work in the east, and eastern society is relative to rights. For example, Confucianism said, "If you let me die, I have to die.". Confucianism added: "the monarch regards the minister as a brother and sister, and the minister is centered on the minister; If you treat me like a dog or a horse, then I will treat you like a Chinese; If you regard your minister as dirt, then I regard you as Kirkan. "Freedom of love leads to the tragedy of modern society, because the lack of social experience also gives criminals an opportunity. Many children regard marriage as a joke, and many people get married twice every six months. So there is no absolute thing, only relative things, one yin and one yang is called. We arranged marriage on the third term, which also told us that marriage is a connecting link. At the same time, it tells us that people are prone to lust when they are young, and they are prone to greed when they are old, so be careful. We still have to refer to divination, assess the situation and get ready to go. In the meantime, don't overdo it. It should be yours, not yours. Don't rob!
The third deadline: Zi Nv Miyawada Palace.
Corresponding hexagrams: litigation hexagrams
Weird one: You have to finish what you started.
The fourth house, the fourth decade, is also middle age.
After the couple's palace and the spirit palace, it is Miyawada's children's home. In western philosophy, children are regarded as parents' negation. From the social observation, once you have children and families, it is the beginning of contradictions. Children and families directly lead to all kinds of pressures and trivial things in life, just like Tang Bohu's sentence in "Occupy New Year's Eve": daily necessities, sauces and vinegar tea. Therefore, the fourth hexagram of Zhouyi is used to express contradictory litigation. The reason why children and families are after the age of 30 and before the age of 50 shows that the main purpose of life in this period is to support their families. The fourth house also represents desire and pressure. Having more children means more family expenses and great pressure. Therefore, the fourth palace is the Children's Palace in Miyawada, which inspires us to reduce our desires, especially our lust, in order to keep our family. Many people cheat when they get married. No matter how strong a person is, there are times when he is weak. Once they are vulnerable, there will be more children. With more children, more people will cheat, and the family will be in chaos. So this decade is a decade of accumulation and prosperity, and many nouveau riche started in this decade. It is also a decade for ordinary people to pursue wealth to support their families, which directly determines your economic situation.
The fifth term: Finance Palace and Career Palace.
Corresponding divination: learning divination
Strange doctor: tolerant of people and animals.
After struggling for more than 40 years, I finally came to the first receiving season of my life, which is called Caibo Palace and Career Palace. Rich and poor, successful and unsuccessful, you can get a general idea of these two houses. The meaning of accommodating people and animals is to do social welfare. Why you do public welfare depends on your wealth and status. The second characteristic of having money and status is stupidity. There is a saying that "men become bad when they have money." It's better for women to have money! "If you really hate everyone, the poor couple will fail." Poverty mentioned in this poem is not only a bad thing. Just because the poor people think about something, they will not be serious and have no ability to be serious. Don't think this is a bad thing, but it is actually a good thing. Especially at the age of 40, when you are rich, you treat women as playmates and men as playmates. These people are usually economically independent and prominent, and have enough financial resources to support their extravagance and waste. Power is human potential, and power is also human courage! Therefore, if you are rich and powerful, you must think of success and people. Money and career are not confused in the fifth term, that is, fifty. Therefore, I ching Shi gua said that if you have money and ability, you must learn to have money and ability. What is a rich and capable person-helping the people and helping the poor? This is what I ching Shi Gua said: a tolerant animal!
The sixth term: Friendship Palace and Sick Palace.
Corresponding divination: comparative divination
Guay: Make contributions and benefit future generations.
Wei Zi Dou Shu: Friends Palace and Disease Palace. That is, the last decade is equivalent to 60 years old.
If the heights are too cold, the extremes will be reversed. The most successful time in life is often when fate is coming. At the same time, the highest time is also the time when others affirm you and respond with one voice; Therefore, represented by Friends Palace and Sick Palace, on the one hand, it is a response; On the one hand, it means the end of life, getting worse and worse, and being troubled by many diseases; It is also the season of receiving goods in full swing; This is also a sign of death; Therefore, it is expressed in Zhouyi Bigua. Compared with divination, it means attachment, assistance, etc. This tells us that when life reaches the highest level, we should do something for the younger generation, instead of relying on our own merits, relying on the old to sell the old, and finally forcing young people to have no choice. The present era is such an era, where yin is not yin and yang is not yang, and young people have no choice but to take risks. China is a society that respects the old and loves the young, but respecting the old is not just a matter of qualification. When we respect the old, we often forget to love the young. Both are indispensable and complement each other! You don't love youth, so what are you? Why should everyone respect you? This is Chinese-style human rights, Chinese-style social morality! Therefore, this divination is an important reminder to make contributions to future generations, not to care about personal losses, and not to be jealous of talents!