Xiaoli is a customer service staff of a communication company. She is proficient in makeup and knows a lot about clothing collocation. Colleagues all say that she is a fashionable compass, and she has a high rate of turning her head when walking in the street, but Xiaoli is not welcomed by her colleagues in the company. As a customer service staff, Xiaoli is often complained by customers. The customer's reaction is that she is most afraid of seeing Xiaoli's face. Whether it is a new customer or an old customer, Xiaoli always shows her face with a cold face. When the customer is in a hurry, Xiaoli also pops up a few rude words from time to time. Now Xiaoli is in danger of losing her job.
Xiaoli's appearance mentioned above can't be said to be unattractive, but why do customers report that they are most afraid of seeing her face? It can be seen that the shaping of personal image is not only an external tool, but also has profound connotation.
Personal temperament and accomplishment
Appearance beauty is the harmonious unity of inner beauty and outer beauty. Inner beauty is the beauty of people's inner spiritual world and the concrete embodiment of people's psychological and cultural qualities such as thought, morality, sentiment and character. If a person does not have inner beauty as the foundation, then no matter how good the innate conditions are, no matter how carefully dressed, they can only be superficial decoration. Without rich and profound beauty, it is impossible to produce charm. Therefore, a person's external beauty is a natural manifestation of his internal beauty, while good personality cultivation, profound knowledge and noble moral sentiment are the real sources of external beauty, and the resulting beauty can leave a deep impression on people and lay a deep imprint. Therefore, the inner beauty has unparalleled depth and breadth than the outer beauty.
Personal dress and aesthetic style
Generally speaking, a person's appearance, manners, expressions, clothing, accessories and other factors will prompt others to form their first impression, which is a concrete manifestation of a good personal image. People's external beauty can give me great psychological satisfaction and enjoyment, but also make others pleasing to the eye, which is the condensation and embodiment of people's own beauty. Some people are naturally well-proportioned and have beautiful facial features. These people are lucky to have natural beauty, but no matter what a person's innate conditions are, they can make themselves look beautiful through makeup, clothing, styling design and so on. And they can also make themselves have a more perfect posture through physical exercise. Not everyone can have the luck of natural beauty, but everyone can pursue and shape a beautiful personal image. So everyone can show their beauty more fully through certain forms.
expert opinion/advice
(1) High moral character. Kind-hearted, compassionate, know how to lend a helping hand when others are in trouble, not for personal gain, not to harm others. Be measured, tolerate others' mistakes, and don't be mean to others.
(2) full of interest. Face life with humor, and don't do evil without authorization. We like elegance, civilization, health and progress, and fully enjoy the interest of life.
(3) Diligent and studious. Study hard, arm your mind with knowledge and enrich your life.
(4) good health. With a strong body, you have the capital to succeed. No one wants to cooperate with a person who has lost hope and no future. Therefore, one needs to do more exercise to promote health.