Fear of marriage. Many children can't overcome this obstacle when they grow up. They are afraid of killing time in endless quarrels after marriage and suffering from marriage phobia. For example, my relative's brother has quarreled every day since he was a child. Although he finally divorced, he began to have a girlfriend. When he is angry, he also likes to hit his girlfriend. He is overbearing and selfish, and even doesn't let his girlfriend communicate with colleagues on his mobile phone. He doesn't think she is at fault at all.
Become violent, like fighting, and form bad habits.
Lack of security. When parents fall into complex emotions, they tend to focus on their own affairs and pay less attention to their children. At this time, children often feel pity. They will feel neglected or underestimated by their parents. Children often ask themselves, "Who needs me" and "Who will I go to when I need help". This insecurity will make children emotionally fragile, vulnerable, timid and unwilling to stay at home.
Inferiority and paranoia. ?
Without a father or mother, children feel inferior to others. Being laughed at and ignored, he formed an inferiority complex. They are often depressed, withdrawn and withdrawn, and lack self-confidence in doing things. Older children will also be suspicious, suspecting that others look down on him, bully him, misunderstand others' words and deeds, and cause obstacles in interpersonal communication.
Rebellious psychology ?
Confrontation with people around you is manifested in unreasonable rejection of other people's demands and not listening to anyone. They accuse their parents for no reason, contradict their teachers and treat people coldly. It may lead to children running away from home, or being taken care of by strangers and walking with others in the future. Easily deceived. It will make children distrust the people around them and feel powerless in love.
Guilt. ?
Children often attribute most of their parents' quarrels to their own problems. "Are you not good enough? They are not good enough? " Children who used to be very active, smart and smart have all changed because of the changes in their parents' relationship. They are withdrawn, passive, uninterested in their surroundings and often immersed in guilt. This kind of self-blame will lead to the psychological state of children escaping from reality.