The feelings pushed by each period of time are initially known through each other's "talk".
Therefore, mastering some communication skills can make it easier for you to walk into a person's heart.
Today, we will analyze "talking" in detail, and analyze how girls should reply when they tell you that there is nothing to talk about!
First, analyze the subjective reasons. What does the girl mean by "nothing to tell you"?
Girls can't hide their emotions. Whether they are happy or sad, they will be more inclined to express themselves externally, thus expressing themselves.
The joys and sorrows in life, they are also more inclined to pass on to the people around them. It is not that girls like transitional emotions, but that girls yearn for the princess lifestyle from childhood to metropolis. So the way to express emotions will inevitably change in another direction.
When a girl tells you "I have nothing to talk about with you", it is more like an emotional catharsis, conveying her negative emotions.
Of course, in addition to girls' own reasons, there are also many brothers who tend to regard humor as ridicule. The focus of the chat is how to tease girls' paper, while ignoring how to guide girls' emotions. Then once the interesting topic is over, the girl's mood will also drop, and the focus of the chat will be on the topic instead of you. Girls think that you are like this and will naturally say "nothing to talk about".
There are also some boys who don't tease girls at all, especially when they see that girls are indifferent to themselves, they feel nervous, and the topic has always revolved around girls, even saying that they will only ask girls questions. Such a logical chat can't stimulate girls' emotions and girls will feel bored. Even if you girls have a good impression on you, they will reduce your good impression on you because of boredom and say "nothing to talk about"
In fact, the reasons for these two situations are that the girls' emotions are not grasped, the focus of the chat can not be found, and the chat can not be ended in time.
Now that we have a general understanding of the two situations in which girls say this sentence, we will make targeted responses according to the above two situations:
1, don't care too much about girls' emotions, change the subject.
As mentioned earlier, girls are creatures dominated by emotions, and their emotions are changeable. So girls don't care. It's normal to tell you there's nothing to talk about. At this time, you must not over-interpret the words of girls and think that sisters are rejecting themselves. Here we can reply to girls like this:
W: I think there is nothing to talk about.
M: a little. I'm slow. Before that, I ... (shared my interesting experience).
Don't dwell too much on the girl's words. After simply replying to the girls, take the initiative to switch to topics related to them and guide the girls to enter their own topics, thus establishing effective communication.
You should know that when chatting with girls, as long as you constantly introduce yourself to girls, show your value (humor, maturity, thoughtfulness and love), and constantly deepen your sister's impression of you, the other party will continue to get along with you, and your relationship will also improve.