Nannies become part of the family.
Nanny has become an indispensable role in modern families, especially in big cities. Both husband and wife have to work. It's okay to have no children, but they can't take care of them naturally.
Nowadays people don't want to sacrifice their careers for their families, so they can only hire people to share housework and take care of their children. After the child was born, she hired a nanny, because she didn't want her mother-in-law to take care of the child, so she had to pay for a nanny.
When I hired a nanny in A.D., I chose Sister Wang. I think Sister Wang has a lot of face and can dress herself up. Those who can tidy up themselves will definitely tidy up their homes.
Sister Wang is doing well at Xiyuan's home. She cooks well, does housework neatly and is diligent in taking care of children. Xiyuan feels lucky, so she has been taking care of Sister Wang. When Sister Wang's family usually asks for money, they are never stingy.
Sister Wang is about the same age as AD. She's smart. If her family was poor and didn't provide her with the opportunity to go to school, she might be working in the company like AD now. Yuan and Sister Wang are very similar in character. Both of them are serious and have strong personalities. They are in harmony with each other and can talk.
When the nanny can really integrate into family life, the relationship between the nanny and the employer is no longer an employment relationship, but more like a family relationship.
Because of this, Yuan trusts Sister Wang and treats her as family. But what AD didn't expect was that her trust brought disappointment to Sister Wang and ruined her ten-year marriage.
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People are separated from each other, and some people have bad ideas.
On the first day of entering Xiyuan's home, Sister Wang never stopped her eyes when she saw Xiyuan's husband. As for the reason, this is Sister Wang's secret. She knew she would lose her job if she said it, so she kept forbearing.
Here's the thing. Her husband and sister Wang are very similar in their first love, even in their temper and personality. Sister Wang once thought that her husband was her first love. After repeated testing, I found that it was not just similar people.
Sister Wang is married and has children now, but she has never let go of her first love. Although we only talked for less than two years, it was the happiest day for Sister Wang.
Sister Wang and her first love are very loving and want to get married, but her parents refuse to marry her to another rich family, that is, her current husband.
My husband's family is rich, but it is not good for Sister Wang at all. As soon as her husband got drunk, he punched and kicked Sister Wang, and her in-laws even disliked Sister Wang's poverty and looked down on her. Sister Wang hasn't read many books and has no ability to escape.
After five years of marriage, I have been trying to be satisfied with perfection. Over the years, she often regretted marrying her husband. If I had insisted on marrying my first love, I wouldn't have lived like this.
These were originally dusty memories. Sister Wang intended not to mention them, but when she saw her husband, her memory was torn open again. She wants to go back to the past and the day when she lived happily with her first love.
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The nanny ruined the marriage.
Sister Wang works hard and Yuan's husband is very satisfied. At that time, her husband was very kind to her. Wang Can, the sisters, saw it. She was jealous of Ade.
Looking at their happy photos, she fantasized that she could replace AD. That year, I was very busy at work and didn't go home until eleven or twelve every day.
When I got home, I couldn't say a few words to my husband, so I had to wash and sleep in a hurry, because I had to get up early for work the next day.
At that time, her husband came home every day to see Sister Wang and her children. Sister Wang will clean up the house, coax the children and cook the dishes that her husband likes. When Sai Yuan is not at home, the nanny and her husband eat together, like a couple.
In this way, the communication between the two became more and more, and her husband's troubles in the West would be told to Sister Wang, who also patiently enlightened her. At this time, AD was still busy with work and didn't notice the changes at home.
Indeed, she trusts her husband and sister Wang very much. However, things are always unexpected. I came home early from work one day and saw Sister Wang and her husband drinking, still very close.
This scene is really shocking. She overturned the table and asked Sister Wang to explain. Sister Wang was a little drunk, so she told the truth and said that she always liked her husband. Her husband doesn't know, but at this time, no matter how to explain it, it is powerless.
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Finding a reliable nanny is the key.
This is the first time that Yuan and her husband have had conflicts. At this time, Sister Wang has been working in Yuan's home for two years.
I can't imagine that in the past two years, a woman at home has been thinking about her husband, and her husband is also responding, ignoring Sai Yuan, which is unacceptable to Sai Yuan.
Yuan and her husband had a big fight, then filed for divorce and moved out with their children. Unexpectedly, his original happy marriage was ruined by a nanny. Nannies become part of the family when they get involved.
There is no blood relationship between you, but after all, you are outsiders, so be careful at all times.
The most important thing is to hire a reliable nanny?
When looking for a nanny, you must listen more and see more, find a formal housekeeping company, then interview the nanny, pay attention to the nanny's appearance and conversation, and then ask some parenting questions, such as how to take care of the baby and how to take care of the mother.
In addition, it depends on whether the nanny has health certificate, parenting certificate and other certificates. Finally, in the process of getting along with the nanny, we must pay attention to the boundary, and we must not treat her badly or be too close.
If necessary, you can install a camera at home to prevent the nanny from doing anything out of line.
I hope that every family that hires a nanny can live in harmony with the nanny.