"As a single mother, I will talk about my thoughts and practices on mental health. For a woman who has experienced a failed marriage, it is psychological trauma. Since ancient times, people's thinking has been that men and women are more capable, and women will be labeled as second marriage, divorce or even worse after divorce. This kind of voice will always accompany them to grow up.
Because of the betrayal of my ex-husband, I chose to divorce because I couldn't accept the betrayal, instead of compromising because of a little girl and giving her a complete home, because in my mind, I believe that a loving family is the best growth for my child, rather than giving her some wrong guidance on the way to her growth.
Let the clock go back to 10 years ago. After graduation, I started a business in Shenzhen with the money my parents gave me. Everything went well and the company made a profit in the first year. Good times don't last long, they are short-lived. Because of its wrong choice, it is not a ruin but nothing.
The phenomenon of early marriage and urging marriage still exists in remote mountainous areas, which is also one of them. Because it is urgent, it is a flash marriage! The man's family can be said to have nothing, no car, no room, no bride price and no banquet. This is not the most cruel. The most cruel thing is that I transferred 30% of the company's shares to him, which led to the subsequent disaster, misappropriating the company's public funds and supporting the mistress.
I had a baby with him in the first year of flash marriage. At that time, I didn't want children. My career has just started, the company has just improved, and my career is in the growth stage. At that time, the LED industry was officially enlightened. He secretly told his parents about his pregnancy, which led her parents to beg me to keep the baby on the phone.
As an emotional person, I believe that both men and women will consider the feelings of the elderly to some extent. I am now 3 1 year old and my daughter is 8 years old. My relatives and friends have never had my wedding banquet, and things have happened one after another. If your mood is not adjusted well, how can you set an example for your children and be a good daughter of your parents?
This marriage, many people will think that it has painted a stain on my life. But as a post-90s generation, I don't think so. Since I was so big today, I have never regretted any step I have taken. I always tell myself with the best mentality that everything I experienced today is right, perhaps because I was a bad person in my previous life, so I have experienced so much in my life.
It doesn't matter if you fail. Face it with optimism. Betrayal is not important. Look at it with a tolerant attitude. Life needs eight kinds of mentality to support us through this life and adjust our inner world. Make yourself more perfect, better and more attractive. "
Correct mental health attitude in the face of setbacks
Whether to face the failure in life, marriage, study, employment, feelings, etc. It doesn't matter, keep that pure heart. I have been an entity, an e-commerce company and a company. I have earned and lost, but I have never been discouraged. If there is another chance, I will go forward again.
Everyone knows KFC. No matter men, women and children, even if they have never eaten, they have heard of KFC. Colonel Sanders, the founder, failed in his life 1009 times. What a powerful force supports him. This power was not given by others, but by himself. I remember he once said that success once in this life is enough.
Many people will keep making excuses for themselves. I also want to make money. I also want to open a shop. I also want to invest, but I dare not act. I always tell myself that I am poor and there is only one person left. What am I afraid of? There is no 100% chance of success in the world, and even if there is, it is not my turn.