First, if you are a woman, please tidy up your mood.
From a psychological point of view, when a woman meets a chicken feather in her life, please tidy up her mood first. When you are in a good mood, you have the mood to take care of the chicken feathers in this place; If you are in a bad mood, how can you manage that chicken feather, let alone manage it? To say that a woman is really a special species, if she is happy, she will do anything you think is impossible; If you are unhappy, you don't think she will lift a finger. So, men, please make your queen happy. If she is happy, you don't have to bother. She will take care of the whole family, old and young. But if she is unhappy, the consequences will be really serious.
And the vast number of female compatriots, but also learn to clean up their own mood. Reading, writing, shopping, doing your hair, eating desserts and chatting with your girlfriends will all help you find that long-lost good mood, and then deal with the chicken feathers in that place (temporarily or for a period of time-for example, three years in your baby's brain) and make a chicken feather duster? (? _)?
Second, if you are a man, please focus on things.
Sir, it goes without saying that you should concentrate on your work when you meet a chicken feather in life! In fact, many men encounter nothing more than housework, so there is no need for you to pay attention to many chicken feathers yourself. Leave the feather duster to "her"! I suggest you try not to involve chicken feathers here, because instead of helping, you may make chicken feathers fly all over the sky. So, let's focus on things, especially work. When your career is better, aren't you afraid that she won't get a beautiful "feather duster" at home? Of course, if you are still alone, you still have to concentrate on your work (career)! Because, you will find that when the career is smooth and smooth, the feelings will also bring their own peaches and smooth sailing. Ha ha!
Third, if you are a family, please be happy together.
If you encounter a chicken feather at home (in fact, this is really common, especially in the first few years of giving birth), then tell your partner clearly! Only in this way can we build this home together.
If you are still two people, you will find that sunshine is happy together. If either of you is in a bad mood, it will lead to the other half being in a bad mood. When you make her sad, you think she will make you feel better. Will you immediately think of all kinds of things that you "tortured" to death by her if you accidentally provoked her? When she makes you unhappy, in fact, she is walking on thin ice all day. The main reason is to know whether you are unhappy (she doesn't want to). This is the case with women. Occasionally a little arrogance angered her man. Although she has 10 thousand guilt in her heart and thinks it shouldn't be, I still hope he can coax himself first. This is what women think! So, married men, you know, let her go, coax her and follow her all the time when they are in love!
If you have given birth to a child, especially when the child is young, it is best not to let this chicken feather exist for a long time, because it deeply affects your child. Although it's true-I want a divorce minutes after giving birth. However, every couple, or in other words, no matter who you marry, this idea exists, and the true face of the pig teammate will only be discovered when the baby is born! So, enjoy the ups and downs of this most difficult day, and grow up with your other half with a positive and optimistic heart and your baby who has been carefully cared for for for ten months! After three years, you will find that not only the children have grown up, but also you and your lover have grown up and love each other more. On the other hand, if you can't handle the trivial matters in this life after having children, you may not only destroy the previous vows in the quarrel between rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea+baby; More importantly, you may not notice it in the short term, but it actually affects the most important mind of children. Children grow up in an environment full of opposites, struggles, quarrels and even beatings. In the later life, even in the subsequent marriage relationship, there is a great possibility of repeating the mistakes of parents, which is not good. On the contrary, they are patriotic, professional, honest and friendly in a harmonious, humble and loving family. Why not be a dragon and a phoenix? The so-called "three years old", in fact, the temperament of children in these three years lies in the shaping of parents, and more often it is the subtle influence of parents (or it can be said that it is actually a set). Now everyone is emphasizing the importance of being born in a family. Don't forget that you and your lover are your children's family. Therefore, if you have children, you must be clear-minded. You will find that the child is as bright-eyed as you, and he also plays an important role in the process of cleaning chicken feathers!
If we live a chicken feather, we also believe that we will live well! Because this is real life!