1. Don't care too much about children;
Don't worry about everything, such as the baby falling down, encourage him to stand up by himself, don't treat him like a flower in the greenhouse, but let him know how he should feel.
2. Don't bribe children;
Adults can say what they want, what they can do and promise, what they can't do, don't cheat children, and don't perfunctory children for some purposes.
3. Don't be too close to children;
Although parents will give all their love to their children, don't be too close to them, and don't let them rely on their parents 100%, otherwise it will be difficult for them to learn to recognize the world independently.
4. Don't force children to do something incompetent;
We should consider what children can bear physically and psychologically at every age, and don't impose what children can't. This kind of pressure may cause children's psychological shadow and even affect their growth.
5. Don't be too strict with children, and the requirements are too high;
Parents should be considerate of their children, because they are immature in age and body and mind, and learn to be tolerant and patient with them.
6. Don't cheat and unnecessarily intimidate children;
The child's inner world is very simple. Don't cheat or intimidate children just because they are disobedient or uncooperative. Their young hearts may leave lingering shadows.
7. Don't criticize or laugh at children in front of friends;
Every child has self-esteem, whether he babbles or goes to kindergarten, he has self-esteem. Therefore, when a child makes a mistake or does something bad, please don't criticize or laugh in public, but consider the child's self-esteem and communicate with him in the right way at the right time.
8. Don't praise children too much;
Praise children to be true, not exaggerated, not excessive, so that children can have a correct understanding of themselves.
9. Don't be moody to children;
What this means is that adults should correctly express their feelings about getting along with their children, not be moody, and not be angry with their children because of anything.
10. Don't turn a blind eye when children are in trouble.
The child is an individual who cannot live independently. Therefore, when children face fears and difficulties, adults should give appropriate encouragement and good suggestions to help them tide over the difficulties, live the joy of success and affirm themselves.
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Children need their parents to accompany them most of the time, which is of great help to their physical development and mental health.