Grandma plays Altman to scare her grandson.
Recently, in Datong, Shanxi, there was such a kind grandmother who did bad things. Because her grandson liked Altman since childhood, she wanted to surprise her grandson, bought a set of Altman clothes and played the real-life version of Altman, appearing in front of her grandson who had not seen her for a long time.
But what people didn't expect was that a good surprise turned into a fright. Grandma scared her grandson to tears. She wants to throw away all the Altman toys and never believe in light again.
Although my grandmother has good intentions, she wants to surprise her grandson. For her happiness, she can learn to play cosplay like a young man. Such a grandmother is also rare.
However, the way to tease the baby is still a bit thoughtless. Grandma's Altman directly turned into a monster Altman, which destroyed Altman's heroic glorious image in the little guy's heart, and may have some psychological shadows, which backfired a little, and he was kind enough to do bad things.
When children are young, playing with them is a great pleasure in life. Especially the elderly, prefer to tease children, but some wrong ways to tease children are really unacceptable, and they may end up extremely happy and sad, you know?
Make fun of a child's genitals
Some old people may make fun of their children's genitals when teasing their grandchildren. Old people may not have any bad ideas, but this way of teasing the baby is really unacceptable.
On the one hand, the child's genitals are not fully developed, and they are easily infected by external stimuli, which affects the baby's healthy development.
On the other hand, stimulating the child's genitals prematurely will easily lead to some bad habits of the baby, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child.
Hold the child high and throw it out to play.
When children are young, some treasure dads may like to hold their children high or throw them up for children to play, and some old people may have similar actions, which may be very popular with children, but there are great security risks.
If a person is not careful, misses or slips, then the problem may be big or small. Children are too young to express themselves correctly and can't tell right from wrong and danger. As guardians of children, they need to be more careful and think more. Every move may have an impact on the child, otherwise it may hurt the child.
Kiss a child on the cheek.
The child is still young and cute. Perhaps adults can't help but want to kiss their children and show goodwill, but this practice should not be excessive.
Because the child is still young and has delicate skin, kissing the child often may infect the child with bacteria and eventually affect the baby's health.
Tease the children to drink.
With a baby boy at home, maybe the old man sometimes teases the child to drink, thinking that a man should drink some wine from an early age, so it is very inappropriate to touch the child with some wine when the child is very young.
Alcohol burns the brain, and the child is still young. The metabolic capacity of alcohol is very poor. It is not only easy to stimulate the baby's stomach, but also may affect the healthy development of the baby's liver function, and may even affect the baby's brain development and make the baby stupid.
For drinking, you really can't encourage your baby. It is best to let the baby drink it when he is an adult.
Tell the children that their parents don't want you.
When some old people tease their children, they may tease them and say, Mom and Dad don't want you, so you can only stay with me. This way of teasing children is not good either.
Children are too young to believe, thinking that mom and dad really don't want themselves, will leave a psychological shadow, and will also think that it is the reason of the elderly, and they will leave themselves, so they may alienate the elderly.
Always compare children.
There are several children at home, and some old people may always hold children with bad habits, which is not good compared with good children.
Although the elderly may want to use provocative methods, this method is not suitable for common use, and it may be useful to use it occasionally, but frequent comparisons may make children with bad habits feel inferior and think that the elderly don't like themselves.
to tell the truth
Although some ways for the elderly to tease their babies are not desirable, the original intention of the elderly is still good. Just pay attention to the way you tease your baby. As parents, we should stop some wrong ways to tease our baby in time, so as to better avoid bad results. After all, parents are the first caregivers of children, and everyone is doing their best for their children. As long as they are reasonable, the old people will listen, don't you think?