I am healthy, but I have not been pregnant for three years. What should I do?

I feel that this situation is quite common. I have several friends around me who have been married for several years and still have no children. Some people don't want to have children at the beginning of marriage, but they want to have children two years later, only to find that they can't conceive. There are even three or four years without pregnancy.

For example, I have a friend who has been pregnant for four years and finally got pregnant last month. Their pregnancy path feels quite representative.

When they were pregnant, they bought a bunch of ovulation test papers. As soon as ovulation was detected, the two began to hand in their homework. Her husband said that if you drown, you will die, and if you dry it, you will die. I have been preparing for this for half a year, and my husband is under pressure when he sees his wife picking up the ovulation test paper.

But still not pregnant, the two made an appointment to go to the hospital for examination. It is preliminarily confirmed that there is nothing wrong with both of them. Among them, the woman still has a "salpingography" that has not been examined. The doctor said they haven't been married long, so it's not recommended to check this. This is still harmful to the body. Later, the woman started follicular monitoring at the doctor's suggestion. After the holiday, she went to the hospital for a B-ultrasound every two days to see the development of follicles. Time is running out, and she goes to the hospital every day. In this way, I tried for another three or four months, during which his wife suffered a lot. While going to work, she has to ask for leave to go to the hospital for B-ultrasound. The result still missed.

Later, the two tried various Chinese medicine treatments, traveled for a change, and went to Hangzhou and Shanghai for an inspection. Anyway, this time they did their best, but after three years, there was still no result.

Early this year, they finally gave up. I feel that this incident has given me too much pressure and psychological pressure, which has completely affected my life rhythm. I think my life is too depressing and against my original intention. So later, the two began to find things to do as much as possible, trying not to leave room for thinking about having children. I got pregnant last month.

So what I want to say is that there is still a chance to get pregnant. When fate is not there, you can't force it. As long as you check that both husband and wife are ok, you can relax and don't take giving birth as psychological pressure. If you push yourself too hard, both husband and wife will take giving birth as a routine and lose fun and emotional communication. The so-called child is the crystallization of love. Only when the feelings are good, the atmosphere is right, and the fate is here, the children will naturally come.