1, sensitivity: Teenagers have a strong sense of self-esteem and an urgent need for self-esteem. They cherish their honor. Therefore, when they realize that their self-esteem is threatened, they will have strong anxiety, anxiety and fear. When their self-esteem is hurt, they will be angry, angry, and often nervous and suspicious. I often regard others' unintentional words and irrelevant actions as contempt or ridicule for myself, so I am moody and my mood changes greatly.
2. Rebellious psychology: refers to a psychological state in which people take opposite attitudes and words and deeds to each other's demands in order to maintain self-esteem. The performance is that you talk about the east and he talks about the west, you say it should be like this, and he says it should be like that, showing his cleverness with the abnormal mentality of "pushing cattle" and "anti-cattle". There are two reasons for this rebellion. Subjectively, teenagers are in a period of transition, and their sense of independence and self-awareness is increasing day by day. They are eager to get rid of the guardianship of adults and oppose adults treating themselves as children. In order to show their uniqueness, they hold a critical attitude towards everything; Objectively speaking, improper means, methods and places of educators often lead to rebellious psychology. Rebellion is a kind of abnormal psychology. If effective countermeasures are not taken in time to overcome and prevent it, it will gradually evolve into pathological psychology or criminal psychology, which should be highly valued.
3. Jealousy: It is an inner unpleasant emotion that dominates others. When others are better than themselves (such as study, looks, popularity, etc. ), they show unhappiness, shame, resentment, anger and even destructive negative emotions.
4. Fantasy: Teenagers have many fantasies, hoping to turn them into reality, and they will make various efforts and even pursue them deliberately. When this demand is continuously unsatisfied or partially satisfied, there will be setbacks. Mainly in study, work, love and so on. Frustration and adversity easily bring tension, fear, depression and disappointment to teenagers.
5. Inferiority: It is an emotional experience of self-humiliation caused by excessive self-denial. I lack confidence in myself and am inferior to others in all aspects. In interpersonal communication, I underestimated my ability and my psychological endurance was fragile. Caution, timidity, hesitation, etc.
6. Loneliness: Some teenagers often feel that they are a lonely boat on the vast sea. They are withdrawn and unwilling to associate with others, but complain that others don't understand and accept themselves. In psychology, this psychological state is called locking psychology, and the resulting emotional experience of feeling isolated and lonely is called loneliness. Childhood living environment, such as parents' divorce and lack of communication, leads to withdrawn personality, while adolescence is a transitional period from maturity to safe maturity in the process of life development. Their sense of independence is enhanced, they are unwilling to listen to their parents, but they lack a sense of security, so they feel nervous, uneasy and lonely.