How to treat the phenomenon of puppy love and how to treat the problem of puppy love

1, puppy love is a relatively normal phenomenon. In fact, when children are in adolescence, they will be ignorant of their feelings, which is also a natural reaction when people grow up. In fact, all parents will find that at the same age, they will encounter the same situation. Everyone is an ordinary person and has personal feelings. It is normal to encounter puppy love in adolescence, so parents don't need to worry too much. We should understand that this is a natural phenomenon in adolescence. During this time, your child may envy others, but we need to understand why he likes others. If it is only because of his face value, we can tell him the correct view of love.

There is no need to take very strong measures to stop puppy love. We can take soft measures to help children and let them know that they should do the right things at the right age. Many parents' first reaction to hearing their children's puppy love is to tell their children and teachers immediately. This is actually a very wrong practice. First of all, we should chat with our children and understand their inner thoughts. If children only have pure love for each other, there is no such thing as love. Then we can guide our children by enlightening them and let them know that the other person is also a very good child. If you want to join his society, you need to be better, otherwise there is no possibility between you.

Don't treat puppy love as a wrong behavior, which will make children feel inferior. Some emotional children may have rebellious psychology, which will seriously affect their mental health problems. If you stop puppy love in a very strict way when you find a child, and keep telling the teacher loudly to discipline the child, it will make the child feel very inferior. He may think that his behavior is inappropriate and unacceptable to most people, which will cause psychological pressure on children. Such psychological pressure may accompany his college entrance examination, and he may not be able to exert his due strength.