Zhou Zhou, 2 1 year-old, a junior. I met a man seven years older than her on the Internet last year. Hometown together, engineer.
For a time, this man was not busy and Zhou Zhou was bored. Chat every day Soon after, the man said he liked her and asked her to be his girlfriend. At first, Zhou Zhou didn't agree, but the man didn't give up. Later, Zhou Zhou agreed.
Zhou Zhou didn't really know the man because he didn't tell Zhou Zhou anything. Sometimes there is no news when chatting at night, and the next day he will tell her that he fell asleep last night.
Zhou Zhou felt uncomfortable, and then he felt very tired, so he broke up. Then the scene of being saved in the TV series was staged. We outsiders look tired, but our loved ones don't think so.
During the summer vacation, it happened to be Zhou Zhou's birthday, and this man invited him to his home. Zhou Zhou told me that most boyfriends and girlfriends get presents on their birthdays, but this man didn't give them and cooked for her. She is very happy. Then, at night, they got together, and then Zhou Zhou got pregnant.
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The man said he would take her to the hospital, but he was too busy at work. Finally, after Zhou Zhou returned to school by himself, he induced labor and was hospitalized for six days. The man didn't call Zhou Zhou or give her money.
"I'm sorry, I want to break up, he doesn't agree. He always said he was sorry for me, but I really didn't feel that he loved me. Maybe I'm a little girl and insecure. I think I still like him, but I can't be with him, sister. Should I leave? But I really can't forget him at once. What should I do? How can I get out? Maybe he loves me, but I can't feel it. Am I too ignorant? "
From this passage, I can feel Zhou Zhou's doubts and struggles. I told her that it was not that she didn't respect herself, but that she didn't know how to protect herself.
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I have never opposed premarital sex. How can I restrain myself when I am deeply in love? I support the pursuit of love. When you are young, tossing around and doing something that will kill you is not a bad thing for your growth.
But I am very opposed to going to work without a condom and having sex with strange men. In our traditional education, when it comes to sex, we feel very ashamed and shy. This has caused people to have a great misunderstanding about sex and have no common sense.
Because I have been engaged in related industries for more than a year. I know too much about this, and of course I have seen many girls get hurt. A pregnant mother had five test-tube babies, and the last one finally gave birth, still premature, weighing only 3.8 kg. There is also a pregnant mother who didn't know how to cherish herself when she was young. Later, she could not get pregnant. After three months of pregnancy, she went to the Confucius Club early to keep fit.
There are too many such examples, so I won't list them one by one. If a woman miscarries once, it will do more harm than the child matures. Not only physical, but also psychological trauma. We are naive, pinning our hopes on someone who knows how to protect you. I don't even know how to protect myself, let alone others.
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Zhou Zhou is still young, and I think keeping healthy is the first priority for her. This man, after breaking up, was not together. Why must you forget him? This thing has happened and must be accepted. But this man, can't be so cheap, she always needs nutrition.
There is a couple around me, ready to break up, but the woman found herself suddenly pregnant and went to the hospital to have an abortion. However, she offered the man100000 yuan as compensation. That man doesn't want to give so much. He felt that he had paid for the nutrition and surgery in the hospital.
The woman didn't want to, and finally the man gave it. This man is my good friend, but I am on the side of women. I especially support her approach, what should be lofty and what should make men remember this beauty forever. To remind him, his heart should have a diaphragm. The body is hurt, why not ask for some benefits in money.
In youth novels and romantic dramas, there are often fragments of girls aborting for their beloved boys, which they think is love. I remember reading a novel that year was in a hurry when I was a freshman. At that time, Anis miscarried and went to Australia to study, half dead.
I was joking with my friends. After Anise died, I can still study in Australia. We ordinary girls from civilian families are really dead when we die. Living expenses are tight every month, and there is no leisure to play such a love drama.
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Zhou Zhou is still young, only 2 1 year old, what a beautiful age. What does youth mean? If you make a mistake, you still have a chance to make it up. Think of this as the biggest lesson for yourself. Protect yourself and keep healthy in the future.
She can't make her life worse because of this, or the price will be too high. She should become stronger and make herself more and more beautiful, so that she can meet her better self. Only when we grow up and look back will we feel nothing.