Previously, we published a survey on the self-exploration level of contemporary people, and * * * collected 25,554 valid questionnaires, including a survey on people's views on mate selection and their views on love, marriage and childbirth.
Some people don't know what to look at when looking for someone.
Among the unmarried people who have never been married, 44.83% said that their criteria for choosing a spouse are relatively clear, and more than 55% think that their criteria for choosing a spouse are still "unclear" or "difficult to say". On the whole, the higher the education level, the older people are, and the clearer people's views on mate selection are.
So, what are people who have a clear concept of choosing a spouse looking for?
Specifically, the general concept of mate selection is different from the mainstream imagination of society. The first three most important projects are:
The consistency of three views, personality and physical and mental health accounted for 69.7 1%, 50.73% and 28.97% respectively.
However, age, concept of bearing and rearing, family economic background and other relative traditional mate selection criteria are at the bottom. ?
Please see the figure below for details:
It can be seen from such data that many people are looking for a partner, or they are happier living together for a long time. After all, the consistency of three views and personality is an important basis for a stable relationship.
Whether the concept of choosing a spouse is clear or not, we will find that people's willingness to enter marriage is not high.
Only 14.02% of the respondents who have never been married (including singles and love) said that they want to get married at present, while 36.8 1% of the respondents generally have a desire to get married, and 47.50% have a weak or very weak will (and 1.66% said they don't know).
In other words, at least about 30% of people have clear criteria for choosing a spouse, but more than 80% of the respondents do not want to enter the marriage life at present. Of course, considering that more than half of the questionnaire participants are in the age of 18~25, people may not consider getting married for the time being, rather than not wanting to get married or not planning to get married.
Whether single or in love, people aged 36-40 who have never been married want to get married most.
In addition, women are more reluctant to get married than men. Perhaps for some women, the "pay" that comes with marriage is far more than "get", and too much pay has become an obstacle for them to enter marriage.
An interesting discovery is that although people's desire to get married is generally low, more people want to get married among people with higher education and higher income. This may also reflect that marriage needs more resources and investment ability. Or it can be said that if you are looking for a marriage partner, the importance of money becomes more obvious.
Because the participants in this survey are mainly young people, we can also see the fertility attitude of contemporary young people.
Generally speaking, less than 10% (7.82%) of the respondents want to have children.
Among the married respondents, 45.09% have children, and only 9.82% want more children. Among the unmarried respondents who are in love, 19.40% have a desire to get married ("very strong" or "strong"), but only 7.80% have a desire to have children.
I wonder if the above data is the same as you think? Welcome to discuss ~