Yesterday, I just saw a news that a 39-year-old drama actor was reluctant to see a doctor because of ovarian cyst … As a result …
There are many reasons why ordinary people, especially the elderly, are unwilling to have a physical examination:
First, I feel no discomfort, and I am afraid of trouble/cross infection when I go to the hospital.
Second, if you find that you may not be able to face it, it is better not to know.
Third, the high medical expenses scare away many people.
Fourth, I am afraid of being fooled into paying IQ tax and being misdiagnosed/blindly treated/overtreated by quacks.
Of course, some people, on the contrary, especially like to go to the hospital to see a doctor/have an injection/take medicine/take medicine whenever they feel a little sick all year round, and always suspect that there is something wrong with their health.
Hello, thank you for your initiative. I can feel your concern and filial piety about the problem that the elderly are unwilling to go to the hospital for physical examination. We are all experiencing this problem, we can understand your helplessness, and we have been paying attention to the psychology of the elderly.
First of all, the last generation, those who survived, were poor and hungry, all of which were internal injuries caused by previous lives. Therefore, many old people have been saving money all their lives. In this case, the elderly are generally reluctant to spend money, thinking that money is more important than their own health, and even feel that they are in good health and there is no need to spend money. In this case, make up a white lie, saying that the family members of employees paid by the company have free medical examination papers to reassure the elderly.
Secondly, the older generation, many of whom have lived, have earned their dignity by their own efforts all their lives. They have a good face and a strong sense of responsibility. They will know their physical condition and worry that once they find out what is wrong with their bodies, they will drag down their children and worry that their problems will bring trouble to their children. They would rather refuse to check. In this case, you can speak your mind directly to the elderly and truthfully communicate your filial piety and worries. Since everyone cares about each other, take the initiative to convince each other so as not to miss each other.
Another generation lived to this age, and their closest relatives left one after another, which also caused their psychological problems of death anxiety. In this case, you need to pay more attention to the psychological needs of the elderly, encourage more communication with them, and fear the unknown. You can express that no matter what the result is, it's just a kind of peace of mind. Early detection and early treatment will make it clear that you can enjoy your old age.
Old people are reluctant to go to the hospital for physical examination. This problem is a problem that we have to experience or are facing. Maybe there are other situations. Welcome to guide each other. Thank you.
The above are personal suggestions, I hope to help you, thank you for watching.
Hello, I'm half down.
There are old people at home who have faced similar problems and are willing to share them with you.
This is a very common situation, but every old man still has a different situation, and the people who can impress the old man the most in each family are also different. So don't think that old people are reluctant to spend money, and old people are afraid of death. He is a specific person, family member, parent or grandparent. You can know the reason why he thinks through patient chat.
This psychological reason is not necessarily the reason we take for granted, just as we have to understand why the elderly are unwilling to spend money, but are willing to buy health care products, children, travel and shopping. No matter how embarrassing, I always want to leave some money or something for my children after death.
The reason why the elderly are unwilling to go to the hospital for physical examination is often not as negative as we think, so it is taken for granted that it is their own views on life and death, health and money. These viewpoints and their origins deserve our understanding and study. There are also many considerations for family members, which often include the love of the elderly for their families, their understanding of life and the summary of their personal experiences.
Every old man is an independent individual, just as there is no unified plan for educating children and no fixed plan for persuading old people. Only by truly knowing the reasons why the elderly are unwilling to have a physical examination can we prescribe the right medicine.
If old people are afraid of death, it can be said that some old people, especially celebrities around them, have lived for a long time after being cured because of minor illnesses found in the examination. Because of early treatment, the elderly do not need long-term care from their children because of illness. After the old man left, his children were very moved. The old man loved them so much, took care of himself and didn't let his children worry.
If the elderly are worried about spending money, they can communicate their current economic situation and the current expenses can be reimbursed. On the other hand, because of early detection and low cost, an old man was seriously ill and went directly to the hospital because of no examination. The huge cost made the family unable to support him.
The most important thing is to say repeatedly that you love him and want to live happily with him for a long time.
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There is not an old man who doesn't want to check and live. He just loves us and worries about the consequences of the check. What we want to confirm with the old man is that we love him and need him.
Generally speaking, it is to be reasonable, emotional and persuasive, and to be expressed in the best way by many powerful persuaders in the family who can impress the elderly.
Generally speaking, the reasons why the elderly are unwilling to go to the physical examination are:
I don't want to know what I don't want to face.
Many old people heard that XX went to the hospital for examination, found out cancer, or other incurable diseases, and left in a few weeks, or spent hundreds of thousands at home, and his life was hopeless. This kind of news appears too frequently, so as long as they go to the hospital for physical examination, it is equivalent to letting him know the countdown of his body in advance. As long as there is no illness or disaster, I feel that there is nothing serious in my body and refuse to participate in this kind of physical examination.
Most of the elderly around me are unwilling to accept the "physical examination" trial of the hospital. As they say, "what should come will always come, and what should go will never stay." Many people died not of disease, but of fright. Let me live for two more days, and I will feel less guilty about being flustered. Out of sight, out of mind. "
There are three suggestions on how to persuade the elderly to have a physical examination:
First, it is said that the physical examination issued by the company to family members is free. It is mainly routine examination, blood sugar, blood pressure, blood lipid and other liver function contents, which belong to health care nature. If you don't go, you will waste the interests of the company. If the elderly know that their children's companies have this benefit, most of them are willing to go rather than void it. As for the real physical examination items, it is agreed with the physical examination hospital in advance, and finally it is more appropriate to report to the children, so as not to find out what unbearable diseases the elderly have psychologically.
Second, give more health knowledge to the elderly and form * * * knowledge-prevention is better than prevention. When I was on leave, I went to the hospital for a physical examination with the elderly, and the whole family mobilized to check each other's physical condition. I'm happy when I get to the hospital. The old man felt that it was not for his own health, but for the * * * project that everyone in the family had to participate in, so he naturally relaxed his vigilance.
Third, persuade the old people's better friends, Uncle X and Aunt X, to listen to the old people. Recently, I went to the hospital for a physical examination and found that triglycerides were too high, so I resumed my eating habits with less oil and salt, and finally slept soundly at night, and so on. Old people have the psychology of keeping up with the joneses. When a close friend goes, it is necessary for daily health care, and it will naturally be "into the pit".
In short, there are always more ways than problems for children to be filial.
In today's society, many elderly people are reluctant to go to the hospital for physical examination. Why? Generally speaking, there are several reasons.
First, when people get old, all organs and parts of the body will become old and stiff. I have worked hard all my life, and I am dissatisfied with all kinds of pain. When you get older, you will have problems and problems more or less. The old man is very clear about his physical condition and thinks there is nothing wrong with him. Because they are usually very resistant when they are young, they will think that their children are making a fuss, so they will stubbornly refuse to go to the hospital for examination.
Second, children are under great pressure and their economic strength is not strong. They usually have to rely on the support of their old people to live. The water flows downwards, the children suffer, and the old people feel guilty and want to help them reduce their burden. Their limited pension can slightly subsidize their families. Therefore, in order to save more money, the old people are reluctant to spend money, and certainly do not want to go to the hospital for physical examination.
Third, the old people feel that when they live to such a big age, they should eat, drink and play where they want to play. Their life experiences are very rich and they don't have too many regrets. They are indifferent to life and death, so they don't think it necessary to go to the hospital for examination. If there is anything wrong, it will increase your own difficulties. This idea will also make the elderly reluctant to go to the hospital for physical examination.
As children, of course, we don't want to see the elders who brought us up with hardships treat their bodies badly for various reasons when they are enjoying their old age. I understand the thinking of the above-mentioned old people. In addition to moving, more is self-blame.
We must pay more attention to the health of the elderly. No matter how healthy you are, arrange a physical examination every year. Don't take it lightly when you are uncomfortable at ordinary times. We must persuade them to go to the hospital for physical examination to nip the disease in the bud. How to persuade thrifty old people to go to the hospital? There are three ways: first, if they have any pain, tell them that if they find it early and treat it early, they can suffer a lot less, find it early, treat it early and cure it early. Only when they are healthy can the younger generation work with peace of mind. Secondly, tell them that their children have their own children. Although children are under great pressure and have many difficulties at present. But this is not a big problem. The child will find a way to solve it, and all difficulties will pass. The old man has worked hard all his life, so don't worry about his children any more. Let them go their own way. Old people's own health is the most important. Only by going to the hospital for a physical examination can they be free from illness, which is the greatest blessing for children. Finally, if the old people want to live a dull life every day in the future, they should go to the hospital for physical examination. Only when they are healthy can they enjoy a wider and more beautiful scenery.
When old people are old, they will definitely stick to their own opinions, but they will be kind to them sincerely. They will understand the filial piety of the younger generation by analyzing the advantages and disadvantages of going to the hospital for examination. Moving with emotion and understanding with reason is a magic weapon to get along with the elderly. Don't say Sang Yu is late, because it is still full of clouds. May all the old people in the world live a long life and be happy in their later years!
Dare not face the real problems brought about by illness, have no money to treat diseases, or get terminally ill. Neither of these phenomena can be overcome by normal people. Your so-called release and persuasion will only bring more negative effects in the eyes of a person who has crossed more bridges than you have.
Physical examination is sometimes delivered to the door and killed.
In the past, the old people were particularly bitter and reluctant to spend money. It is suggested that they can find community hospitals for on-site service.
Never had a physical examination in his thirties. It is best to euthanize terminally ill patients. I don't have the money to treat them, and I don't want to drag the children down.
Like myself, I don't think there is any serious disease. If you go to the hospital for examination, you have to be seriously ill, or there is swelling and cancer festering in your body. Generally, I can't find out the initial stage of cancer or heat poison. If I check my blood sugar and blood pressure, I will check it myself. So what else do I need to check?