She represents how the descendants of China's rich people are sophisticated and tactful, but they are lofty and humble. She knew the world very well at a young age.
In the first episode, she just moved into 2203, and after a while, she directly knocked on the door to deliver chocolate to Qiu Yingying and Guan Juer. Let them have a good first impression of her. In fact, this move is not her friendly behavior, just to show her demeanor as a rich man. After less than an hour, I had a party with loud music, and I didn't care after being reported to the property by 2202. When she knew that Andy had called the police, she was stunned by Andy's words and behavior. Seeing Andy driving a Porsche in the garage, she subconsciously took pictures and asked Yao Bin to find out who this woman was. When Yao Bin said that the car was not in her name, she immediately exposed the privacy to three other women on the 22nd floor in the elevator, and told her own guess that "it must be mistress, and I hate mistress most". In other words, if Andy is a beautiful woman who has a sense of justice and loves to protect others, Qu Xiaoyu will have a hundred ways to fool her right away.
But when Yao Bin told her that Andy was high flyers of Columbia University Business School, a Wall Street executive, and was hired as CFO, his attitude changed immediately. When his project encountered problems, he immediately stood in front of Andy's house with a gift to apologize and piteously asked Andy to forgive him. The reason why Xiao Qu-Kong is Xiao Qu-Kong is reflected here: first, she knows what a sensible man is Jie Jun, because she knows that Andy's background is not to be taunted, so she not only chooses not to provoke, but also knows that she is of use value at the first time and immediately changes her attitude and asks for forgiveness; Second, she can quickly bow her head and admit her mistake. On the one hand, she explained that she was not sensible and offended Andy, on the other hand, she pretended to be poor and cheated Andy's sympathy.
You may be particularly shocked that such an arrogant rich second generation can apologize so softly and admit his mistake, and suddenly he is greatly surprised. In fact, this situation is very common. Most wealthy people who are prominent in front of China people can pretend to be grandchildren in the face of more powerful power or more prominent money background.
Two. arrogant
Qu Xiaoyu seems to be a warm-hearted man with a sense of justice, but in fact he is a powerful vassal who shows off himself everywhere.
Reflected in 1, when she learned that Bai, who gave up in revenge for the initial chaos, was called to the police station, she immediately contacted Yao Bintuo to arrest people at the police station; 2. When she knew that Andy was attacked by the net post, she immediately went to find the person behind the scenes, cleverly without retaliation or military intervention. Instead, they set up a game to let the behind-the-scenes ambassador be fooled by them, thus threatening her to apologize and clarify as a poster. Smart and sophisticated. She is so caring for the stray cats in the community, buying cat food and holding a chat.
But in fact, the truth is: 1, she helped Fan purely to show off that she had the backstage to handle this matter. When she saw that fan Mei Sheng could handle it by herself, she said, "It's really boring" instead of being happy for her. It is extremely arbitrary for her to help a person or step on a person. She may do this simply because she can; 2. Don't forget a detail. Although Song made a pit for each other, there is nothing to pursue. Everything is a good opportunity to meet each other in the future, and it can't be described as old. Call Andy after the song is finished. First of all, tell her that she helped solve this problem. She is a grateful person. Second, ask Andy to help her again at once. She will help others. It can be seen that Qu helped Andy not only because she could, but also because she saw the more profitable part behind. For Andy, who has the background and the ability to be used by her, she will try her best to please her. She is kind to stray cats because she can. She hopes that her kindness needs a targeted projection, even for stray cats. This is very contradictory. A powerful person who doesn't even care about human dignity can let dirty stray cats pounce on his arms. But logic is self-consistent. She treats the people below as playthings like stray cats, and can hold them and step on them.
Three. use
She knows how to take advantage. This is her greatest strength and talent.
In the first GI project, she used her wrist to make her father feel indebted and stole the project from her half-brother. When the project was at a standstill, Yao Bin's investigation on Andy helped her quickly find the key person in this problem, and Andy helped her settle the project like a desperate man. The second project was purely Yao Bin's game, and her father gave her the key tips at the right time.
Of course, she also has her own advantages: 1. Corporal Li Xian promised to give his subordinates half a month's salary as a bonus or a big red envelope when the project was successful. Every time, she can find someone to help her properly. Every time she asks questions about search information, she is very accurate and can find the starting point at once. Yao Bin, who is open to the outside world, can give her an answer every time. What she has done is just four words, "integrating resources".
Four. hypocritical
She pretended to be a snake.
I knew I didn't like Yao Bin, but I asked him to run errands for me and let her play games for her without hesitation. This kind of use is very naked. She regards Yao Bin as a Doraemon and lets him check everything. However, faced with examining her new lover, Dr. Zhao, she asked another best friend and told her not to tell anyone, especially Yao Bin. She was afraid that when Yao Bin knew that she had a new lover, she would stop doing everything wholeheartedly. When an acquaintance told her that her brother had borrowed $5 million from the bank, she didn't tell her father immediately, but refrained from remitting it. However, when four people were eating at the same table, her brother said that she was using Yao Bin's relationship to make an affair. She immediately put forward her brother's weakness at the dinner table where her parents and brother were together.
When facing her father, she expressed sympathy as much as possible and proved that she was a promising young man. After returning home, she didn't live at home, but quietly asked Yao Bin to buy her a small apartment. Instead of asking her father for a luxury car like her brother, she is willing to buy food at home. Her father said that two companies under her brother's name wanted to be company bosses because they didn't want anything. After her father was not at ease, she decided to take over the GI project as compensation. She used her father's love and guilt to treat this love as a game, and everyone was in her calculation. At the same time, I was next to Andy, letting my father know that his hands and eyes are sky-high, trying to create an illusion that he has a wide network of contacts; GI cooperation was also reached with the help of Andy Kay Airlines.
Without contrast, there is no harm. When a father sees his child, a greedy and promising young man, the balance in his heart naturally tilts. In front of her mother, she seems to be in the bag-all her confidence comes from this forward-looking woman. She is good at calculation, lofty and low, knowing that the man who pursues himself has a family, and she also makes him abandon his wife and children without guilt. Good wind sent me to Qingyun with strength. Her mother is the most cruel and powerful, and she is also the flower attached by a man with great achievements in my official career, and she is a vassal of male chauvinism. And the songs mixed abroad in the early years will only be stronger and more ruthless than her mother in 20 years.
Five. greedy
She always succumbed to desire.
1. Regarding her attitude towards money, when she returned to China, her purpose was clear. She "competed with her incompetent half-brother" and forced her father to let her take over GI. After her success, she asked for a discount of 2 million instead of the luxury car that her father rewarded. As soon as he heard that Yao Bin was willing to set up a project from it, he immediately devoted himself to the preparation and relationship work. She pays attention to the big and the small, and sets priorities. In the face of key issues, she has strong execution and can stay awake for more than 40 hours. Once finished, she will go to her father for a boss review soon. She was getting ready for bed, and as soon as she heard that there was a partner's dinner, she forced herself to go to the appointment. When treating Dr. Zhao crazy in love, she can also put the project in the first place, because she knows that making money is the most important thing;
2. Attitude towards love. She hooked up with Dr. Zhao, which can be said to be beautiful Love in the city is very suitable. When Dr. Zhao failed in surgery and fell to the bottom, she decided to take Dr. Zhao to dinner and then go to the bar to help him relax. Once she was drunk, she got off the bus immediately after being invited to have dinner tomorrow, giving each other endless aftertaste to keep her appetite. I went to the bar after dinner the next day, and the sheets were quickly rolled up. In the face of Dr. Zhao, she showed a girl's heart full of calculations. How to make Dr. Zhao feel guilty about her, how to be considerate at the right time, how to arouse Dr. Zhao's interest, and how to keep the beauty of distance at the right time. Every time we meet, we hug, jump up and kiss each other, and hormones collide with each other. She is smart and energetic, and she really loves each other. Of course, a young genius like Dr. Zhao Can can't avoid customs.
But actually, Dr. Zhao and Guan Guan are in the same class. In real life, it is often the combination of Zhao and Guan, not Zhao Hequ. They all come from scholarly families. One is a doctor of medicine and the other is good at accounting and English. The difference is that Guan Guan has just graduated for one year and is still internship in a big company. In fact, she is a clever and sensible woman who grew up in a loving family. When Qu asked his girlfriend to investigate Dr. Zhao, she directly said, "Don't play with people of this class. The other party can't afford it. " The song means, whatever, have fun first: "He is a woman's little blue film", which means the object of releasing desire.
She eats, drinks and has fun, and faces love positively, because she has enough confidence, she is rich and powerful, and she is young and can't afford to lose. She can regard Dr. Zhao as a temporary plaything or a long-term partner. The only difference lies in whether Dr. Zhao's family background and her own conditions are worthy of her. Obviously, when Qu's mother knew that Dr. Zhao was a doctor, her face was full of joy. She is a doctor in the graduate school of Fudan University. If Dr. Zhao is just a poor little doctor who graduated from an ordinary university and has a face, it may be just a temporary plaything. Just like Brother Qu treats Fan, you can use it if you can, and discard it if you can't.
Six. force
Her attitude towards other people's lives is rude and self-righteous. When she is rich and powerful, she mistakenly thinks she knows everything, even enough to judge others as gods.
1. Treat Fan, conclude that she is a "fishing girl", investigate the car of the man chasing Fan with great calculation, and then tell Fan with indignation that it is an empty straw bag. Fan was angry, of course, and felt that he had no face, so he retaliated by offering to buy her an expensive gift while helping his client. When she learned that Fan said in vain that the house she bought was not a group rent, it was obviously Andy who told her not to break it, but she still secretly demonstrated with Wang at the dinner table until Fan broke up in a way that hurt Wang in order to protect his face. When she knew that Fan was dating her brother, she deliberately wanted to tell Fan that she was investigating this man again, forcing Fan to shut her up.
She said that Fan was a "hook-up girl", and her father was surrounded by flowers that she got for nothing by thinking about beauty, and then a sense of justice exploded to punish these fantasies. She hooked a "hook-up girl" to represent the moon, but she obviously had a boyfriend, but she also used Yao Bin's psychology of liking her to ask her for help. She will make full use of men herself, so she is not "robbing girls"?
2. Treatment, on the one hand, is to test the white supervisor for a friend, but Fan easily tells the truth, "You are coquettish." She tests human nature because she knows that she has a family background and looks good. This kind of exam is under the banner of being good for others, and there are ulterior motives behind it. "You see, he is not sincere to you." Director Bai was seduced twice, and every time he took the bait, of course, it showed that there was something wrong with this person's character, but didn't Qu himself seduce him as a beautiful snake?
3. Attitude towards Guan Juer's suitor: She simply helped him to the elevator without giving him a note and business card, saying "I am optimistic about you", not because she didn't want to take the opportunity to show her charm, but because she knew that it was meaningless to seduce such a boy with a good family background, and she might not accept her temptation. Brother Lin is a smart man and knows what he wants. Obviously, he is not as stupid as Director Bai, and so is he. Why not enjoy it and be a good person?
4. Treat Andy's boyfriend Wei Wei, knowing that Andy can't afford to offend Wei Wei and won't have a crush on her, so he just joked at the dinner table and didn't dare to offend. Here, she is very restrained and cultured, even standing in Wei's position to speak for him, always making suggestions for their progress. It's time to coquetry and woo, neither offensive nor affectionate.
Seven. Le diable rose
You see, if Fan is a gold digger who wants a good man, a car and a house, then Xiao Yu is a real snob. When facing the needs of the weak while worshipping money, Fan kept hitting himself in the face and said, "Don't be afraid of having a sister." She stood up for Qiu Yingying, and after being taken to the police station and framed, she was still able to escape punishment. She is the patron saint of 2202. She is very kind to Qiu Yingying, who is poor and ignorant every day, and does not make fun of and show off her skills maliciously. When I learned that Andy was attacked wantonly by net posts, I immediately advised Andy to find out who was behind it because I was worried that it would affect Andy's normal life. I tried to find my own contacts and contact the poster with the webmaster. Although I failed, I asked Qiu Yingying and Guan Guan to help me clarify. Although I get very little, it is a kind of mutual help between ordinary people without background. Although she can't help Andy, she really cares and cares.
As for Qu Xiaoyu, she flatters the strong, shows her kindness in 1000 ways, and demands their mutual benefit. For example, Andy and Tan behind her kept signaling whether Andy could catch up with Tan, but when Andy explicitly refused, she didn't give up. She is chasing after her classmates. Obviously, she is the small core of this whole aristocratic circle. She treats these friends well and helps each other. Facing people who are far weaker than her, it is either like stepping on an ant, such as Fan and Qiu, or living in peace, such as Guan Guan, both of which are indispensable, because she knows that Guan Guan comes from a well-off intellectual family and Guan Guan is not a threat to her. Second, because customs clearance has helped her, it is also good for her, and her major is accounting English, which is good and useful.
This is a deep snobbery: she treats a person not by whether this person is good or bad, but by a standard: whether this person is of use value, whether it is on her level or higher than her. She has no fear of equality, only arrogant double standards, stronger than her and weaker than her.
She has no kindness and sympathy for the weak, but deep malice: she speculates on human nature in the most vicious way, thinks she knows everything and can even judge others. This person is a "fisherman", so exposing her is justice, this person is a "fool", and then deliberately hurting her and destroying her feelings is "I recognized each other for her."
She is always judging others and constantly throwing stones at people who are weaker than her. She regards Fan as an upward snob, but she is actually more evil: all her capital worth showing off comes from her birth, her family background, and she can get the best without effort, so that she can skillfully swim among various interests. In order to achieve her goal, she can trample on others' dignity, peep into others' privacy and hurt others' feelings by any means. In fact, she has no knowledge in her mind. She is good at gaining relationships between people and then comparing her own weaknesses.
Eight. The veil of ignorance
Fan, who also knows the way of the world, later felt that Fan was an "old campaigner" who was irresponsible and wary of everyone. Little did she know that Fan was so timid because she couldn't afford to "take responsibility". When she fell, it was an abyss with no retreat.
Let's assume that the souls of these five people are reincarnated into different families.
If Fan is an intellectual with such a family background, she will not only strive to make progress and improve her parents. She is well-founded, and she is good at finding common interests when persuading personnel directors to pay attention to talent issues and year-end awards, which is not clever. Most importantly, she tries not to hurt others. Facing Andy Xiaoqiu is more than goodwill. Facing Wei Wei and his colleagues is more than a degree of concession.
If Fan is adopted and raised abroad like Andy, she is likely to face a new life. She and Andy have the same language, which is so valuable. First, their attitudes towards other people's private lives are very similar. Andy told Guan Guan: "Don't judge others at will, and we have no right to throw stones at others." Fan said to Guan Guan, "No matter how good a friend is, there is a limit. After all, we are not her relatives. If they are together, they are relatives "; Facing the relationship between men and women, she clearly told Guan Guan that "if it is sexual harassment for an ugly man to send you an invitation message in the middle of the night, it should be treated equally, and it is also sexual harassment for a handsome man to do so." Second, they are essentially holding the attitude of "not interfering in other people's lives, choosing to help others when they have the ability and need, and helping others is to contribute to society". Third, their attitude towards their families is very affectionate. Andy doesn't need to say much to get her brother back. In the face of a family like Fan, she was "wiped by her parents as toilet paper for her younger brother again and again". This family has been sucking her bones for ten years, and the root of all this is that she is a girl. She is very kind and can see her parents suffer.
We don't need a more modest family. Fan and Qiu are fellow villagers, and their origins are even worse than Qiu. At least Qiu's family has parents who love her. Although she is poor, Fan just keeps sucking her parents and her brother's sister-in-law.
However, if Qu Xiaoyu and Fan exchange families, she can't compare with Fan's kindness and sense of justice at all, and if Fan is lucky enough to be born in a family like Qu, she must be a noble woman. She has a kind of compassion for the poor and the rich, and will do her best to help others, regardless of the level.
Fan Meisheng is really vain. Faced with Wang Baichuan's deception and Qu Xiaoyu's coercion, she chose to protect herself-this is her only irresponsibility and injury to others, and she saved her face by hurting Wang Baichuan's face. This is a kind of self-protection that she was forced to lose 800 yuan. Obviously like each other but can't stand being cheated, can't stand being insulted by music, which makes people sad. The comment downstairs said that Fan didn't love him, just wanted to extract him and use him, so he chose to hurt Wang to protect himself. But in my opinion, she is helpless. If she didn't love Wang Baichuan, she wouldn't work so hard to look after the house and rent an office for him. Originally, it was agreed that 40,000 Wang Baichuan a month would be enough, but she tried her best to help him bargain to 35,000 a month to save him money. Many people don't understand how the poor maintain their poor self-esteem while struggling in love. That is all the love and money she can give, and she has spent enough time and energy to maintain this beauty. She did her best. Anyone who pays for love is not completely unrequited. Fan Gang wants to change his mind, and the other party happens to have a car and a house. There are many girls who have this expectation, and she has not neglected it.
What everyone sees is Fan's vanity and lack of sense of responsibility in the face of her possible mistakes, while what I see is her forbearing helplessness and noble kindness, her compassion and pity. She walked out of the worst environment without becoming cynical or betraying her company. She works hard every day to earn most of her money and calls her parents. When you are tired, you should enlighten two little girls who live in the same room. She gets along with Andy with a supercilious attitude-when Andy offered to send them to work, she refused and took the subway herself-and she has self-esteem that the poor can't help.
Nine. huge monster
However, Qu Xiaoyu forgot that the hatred of the poor can be ignored at any cost. In the face of Kong's oppression and revenge, Fan will still weigh the cost of his revenge, but nothing can be lost like that. If you really want to get back at her a little bit, it's still quite close for neighbors to have a chance to eat at the same table. Needless to say, you can always do it with perseverance. The counterattack of civilians is the root of the collapse of the besieged city.
Another hidden danger is that their ally, an elite with knowledge and background, who is strong enough to help you get all the benefits, must also have the ability to destroy all your benefits. Song was lucky to meet Andy, who is open-minded and cheerful. If she is a Blair who has to report everything, any key secrets will be leaked to competitors or investigation institutions when the project is promoted, and even her ashes can't be found when she dies.
It's dangerous to live a completely selfish life like Qu Xiaoyu. They look powerful and arrogant, but they are hollow and fragile. They are all based on the fragile interpersonal relationship and the interest game of power and money trading. She is always taking advantage, and her advantage is only strong parents. She has no real entrepreneurial spirit-to create wealth with reason and innovation, to run enterprises with courage and rigor, to defend interests with conscience and law, and most importantly, to create with her mind instead of trying her best to harvest. At this point, she can never compare with Bao Yifan, who is also the successor of the family business.
China will become so bad now. Most of these rich people in power are responsible for Qu Xiaoyu's ideas. The saddest thing is that their descendants are even worse, not to mention that it is almost impossible not to do good or evil. There are still many dignitaries who are "even after my death, the flood is terrible." The saddest thing is that their interests are too strong and they have become leviathan monsters. The more they do this, the better they can live, the more arrogant they are, the ability to safeguard family interests, and use the emerging elites to open up territory for them and bribe everyone who can bribe; In private life, there is no small loss, I am qualified to pursue the best love, and I have full confidence in the future.