1, you are not serious if you are not responsible for your own life. Mediocrity is the biggest lack of seriousness. The highest seriousness often seems cynical, and doing what others do seriously in laughter is the highest wisdom.
2. The distance between heart and heart is the closest and the farthest.
3. The person who glimpses the truth of the sea no longer tries to talk about the sea, because he understands what Kant said: words invented by human reason can only talk about phenomena, but not the essence of the world.
Silence is the last dignity of the desperate. Silence is the highest contempt for the Avengers.
Being alive, being able to stand up straight and jump, this is a very high level. In a sense, jumping out is the premise of standing up straight. Only by respecting ups and downs and ups and downs can we be upright without caring about gains and losses.
6. Most people's life potential is too unexplored and underutilized. Due to the pressure of the environment, the drive of interests or laziness, people tend to be stereotyped prematurely, taking a narrow gap formed by accident as their own life trajectory, from which only a tiny part of their potential is released and most of them are abandoned. How do people view life with only one life? No matter how the computer is upgraded, I just use it for writing, and many functions have not been developed. Isn't this our life?
7. Under any autocratic system, harsh moral courts are bound to prevail, and its duty is to judge human evil in the name of virtue. In fact, by this measure, everyone is guilty, at least a potential sinner. However, perhaps because of this, moral judgment can arouse crazy enthusiasm more.
Since fortune is so unpredictable and unpredictable, we should keep a distance from this external fate, so as not to be tempted to some extent, not to be carried away when we are lucky, and not to lose our fighting spirit when we are unlucky. In other words, on the macro level, we hold a passive, detached and natural attitude.
9. People who have no place to stand are everywhere and think they are free. Aren't there still too many people like this today? Without their own beliefs, they call it freedom of thought. Without their own position, they call it freedom of action. Women who don't have their own are called freedom of love. However, true freedom is always based on choice and restriction. To love this flower is to reject other flowers. Even if a person loves everything, he still has to find a clear goal for his love, and then his love for human nature can be satisfied.
10, now I think that the best state of life is richness and tranquility. Quiet, because get rid of the temptation of the outside world. Rich, because you have the treasure of the inner spiritual world.
1 1. However, from another angle, I think this feature is precisely the advantage of human beings, which shows that human beings are naturally a romantic animal. For people, all enjoyment will not be real enjoyment without the participation of imagination. People's imagination always adds some other value to simple things, and the added part is actually spiritual value. If you don't have passion to pursue in advance, you will interpret nostalgic melancholy afterwards, and direct possession will be boring. In fact, nostalgia and pursuit constitute the basic content of our spiritual life.
12. A person's childhood, adolescence and adolescence are originally the most beautiful and important stages of life and have their own irreplaceable value. Now that this value has been completely obliterated, its whole value has been reduced to just preparing for finding a job in the future. How much precious childhood and youth have been sacrificed for such a small goal. This practice is undoubtedly barbaric. I can't help asking: Is this still education? What is education? However, the current education system is characterized by examination and quick success, which makes it difficult for parents and children to have other choices. Therefore, it is imperative to change this system.
13, the question now is, if you are a dignified person and the other person is not, do you still talk about honesty with him? My answer is that I still want to talk about it. In this case, your honesty is manifested in telling him clearly: you are a person without dignity, and I will not deal with you! Never use fraud to deal with fraud, but to form an atmosphere in which people who don't speak good faith are despised and isolated. Perhaps this is the first step towards honesty.
14, a person unconsciously wants to appear sincere and impress others and himself with his sincerity. He was really moved by himself. A person deliberately wants to appear cunning, charm others and charm himself with his own cunning. He really doubts himself.
15, there are two ways to get spiritual happiness: one is to accept, such as reading and appreciating works of art; The other is giving, which is work. It is in the work that people's mental ability and life value have been actively realized.
16, we might as well cling to life, but at the same time, as Montaigne said, we should pack our bags and be ready to bid farewell to life at any time. No matter how deep China's entry into WTO is, it will never forget its own limits. If such persistence is pessimistic, it will not lead to greed. The persistence of pessimism at the bottom is actually a kind of detachment.
17. In the endless years, the change of dynasties is only a passing sight, and the achievements of the Millennium are only a broken monument. This kind of understanding can not only broaden our minds and cultivate heroes, but also suppress our will and cultivate the weak. The consequences of seeing through the world of mortals vary from person to person
18, people are born romantic animals. For people, all enjoyment will not be real enjoyment without the participation of imagination. People's imagination always adds some other value to simple things, and the added part is actually spiritual value. If you don't have passion to pursue in advance, you will interpret nostalgic melancholy afterwards, and direct possession will be boring. In fact, nostalgia and pursuit constitute the basic content of our spiritual life.
19, the fragile reed needs to imagine another reed as its own root.
20. However, in spite of this, you still want to jump, even though you know that another deeper trap is waiting for you. The most unbearable thing is to stay in the same trap forever. Perhaps freedom lies in the process of jumping.
2 1. There are no answers to the big questions in life. However, only by thinking about these big problems can a person truly have his own life beliefs and living standards and make correct judgments on small problems in life.
22. When people are over middle age, they should basically give up utilitarianism, greed and ambition and give way to kindness, idleness and normality. All this stems from a sense of seeing through the fame and fortune of the world of mortals and returning to the essence of life. What will happen without this awareness? It is said that the elderly tend to become indifferent, greedy and conceited, which may be the answer.
23. I don't trust all the so-called life mentors. In this godless world, who can say that he has penetrated all detours and desperate situations, and is no longer confused and needs to look for it?
24. My life is full of changes, and every change has left a deep notch, but I am still the same. Instead, I am more and more me.
25. People have different endowments. * * * Similarly, whether a position suits you best is not to see how many people compete for it and envy it in society, but to ask your life and soul to see if you are really happy.
26. There are criss-crossing roads ahead, each leading to a different place. A man who has only one material goal in his heart and no fantasy is single-minded in one of the roads, and the rest of the roads are nothing to him. Men with fantasies but no goals try different routes at will, just to circle in the same place. People who have both fantasies and spiritual goals in their hearts take all possible directions and always go their own way.
27. You are walking leisurely alone, because you are taking your own road, which belongs to you only, and no one is arguing with you.
28. The cleverness of human beings lies in taming nature and opening up a pleasant artificial world for themselves in the vast nature. However, if you indulge in this man-made world and lose contact with the vast natural world, you will be really smart and will be mistaken by cleverness. The territory of nature is infinite, and it is pitiful to live in a narrow artificial range for life.
29. In the eyes of the viewer, the most beautiful flower is just a flower. Only when watching stops and communication and listening begin will the flowers show their spirit to talk to you.
30. A person has the ability to become a god, but when he is born, he becomes a philosopher.
3 1, "How can you die if you don't do something useless?" People who know this truth can be said to have gained the Tao and are called wise men. Most people, on the contrary, always boast that they are doing useful things and never know that life is limited.
32. Life and its happiness and pain are illusory-this concept is a blow to happiness and a comfort to pain. Perhaps it is the wisdom of pessimism to dilute daily suffering with ultimate nothingness and purify earthly sorrow with complete pessimism.
On the contrary, if you don't feel what you have to do, quiet inside, time will stop. Eternity is a calm state of mind.
34. It is difficult to change a person's basic personality, and there is no need to change it deliberately. Character itself is not good or bad. The key is to use it correctly and make it produce good results.
Most people are full of ideals when they are young. As they get older, they tend to become more and more practical. Due to the pressure of struggle for existence and the temptation of material interests, everyone turns their eyes and energy to the outside world instead of paying attention to their inner world. As a result, their souls are shrinking and empty. Only one body in the world is busy. There is nothing sadder for a person!
36. I really feel that good children are not spoiled. The more you love him, the better he will develop. Pet and love are the relationship between matter and spirit. Spoiling is to create a particularly rich material environment for him and give him whatever he wants. I think this is loving children, but I have no psychological choice. I don't talk to him or talk and laugh with him every day. As long as there is spiritual care, how to love is fine, and love is not bad.
37. In the pursuit of life, China people often have no ego but others. What I want is what everyone is striving for. So vanity fair is bustling and lively. Morally, China people often have no one but themselves, and what I do has no consideration for other people's feelings. So public places are very noisy and noisy. This is China's inverted individualism.
38. Insist on indifference, be silent when the world is surging, and be willing to be lonely and poor beyond fame and fortune. This is also a pursuit. Pursuit does not always show an enterprising attitude.
39. Self-mockery is to look down on your own weaknesses.
40. As for a good woman, I mentioned two criteria-spirituality and flexibility, which I think are correct. This is mainly a matter of personality. If these two characteristics are expressed in the body, it is sexy. I worship women, not every woman.
4 1 however, what is more profound is that no matter how successful you are, you can't get rid of the pessimism in your heart, and you can finally look at this success with a detached eye. If a pessimism can be easily dispelled by external success, I'm sure it's not pessimism, but superficial annoyance.
42. After living in the city for a long time, you will feel a sense of relief and freedom when you occasionally come to a quiet valley and lake, facing the continuous mountains and boundless lakes. However, I think if I live here and live an isolated life, my mood may change. Although I still see the same scenery, I feel not freedom, but limitation.
43. Genius is not necessarily strong, such as Van Gogh. The strength of character determines the fate of the world, and the size of talent determines the fate of heaven. In a sense, the reputation of a genius after his death can be regarded as the glory of heaven.
44. For me, life is a career. I have no career except life. My job is to exhaust all the possibilities in life. This is definitely hopeless, but it is also very attractive.
45. The best job is to have a job without a job, that is to say, to have a career without the constraints of position, position, title and responsibility, and to be able to freely control your time and do what you like. Such as artists, writers and scholars, provided that they really love art, literature and scholarship. Otherwise, there will be so-called scholars, writers and artists, with all positions, positions and titles, but no career.
46. My ambition is to prove that a person without ambition can achieve so-called success.
47. For literati, reading and writing are often just a pastime or a career. Compared with the generation of cockfighting and running dogs, there is indeed a distinction between elegance and vulgarity, but the essence of escaping from self is one.
48. The deepest love is "ashamed to meet people, surprised to ask, afraid of being known", because once it is made public, it will be out of shape and tasteless.
49, a spiritual quality, and frustration is the touchstone of this quality.
50, to prevent too much see through, from now on can not be persistent.
5 1. Happiness is more conducive to mental health than pain.
However, the depth is that no matter how successful you are, you can't dispel the pessimism stored in your heart, so you can finally look at this success with a detached eye. If a prospect can be easily eliminated by external victory, I dare to judge that it is not pessimism, but only superficial troubles.
53. We are absent-minded and careless. We feel that everything we do is boring, not very tired, because we have energy, but no future. It's boring, because we have a wish, but nothing.
54. I even believe that the closest moment between man and God is not the moment when God shows people miracles, but the moment when people realize that there are no miracles in the world but are still surprised at the beauty of the world.
55. A person who never crosses the road with his own feet will never find his own way.
56. Too noisy career and all too ostentatious feelings are doubtful. They are full of too many voices and fanaticism. Can they remain quiet and rich?
57. There are two great pleasures in life. First, you can't get what you love, so you can pursue and create. One is to get what you love so that you can taste and experience it.
Everyone knows that death is inevitable. It is a guest who was told to visit us as soon as we were born, and now it is approaching us day and night. However, when it knocked on our door, we felt suddenly and blamed it for being the most abrupt uninvited guest.
59. Real learning is self-study.
60. A small insect or a giant elephant. No matter what you do, try to be perfect and get great happiness from it. This kind of work attitude contains a kind of divinity, which can not be summarized by the so-called professional ethics or professional accomplishment.