However, throughout adolescence, young people's emotions fluctuate greatly and are easy to change. If we do not pay attention to timely guidance, some teenagers will often have unhealthy sexual psychology, leading to puppy love and early marriage, neglecting their studies, and some even violate the criminal law and embark on the road of crime. Therefore, both teenagers themselves, parents and teachers should have a certain understanding of the sexual psychological changes in adolescence, so as to cultivate a younger generation who is not only healthy, but also healthy.
The development of teenagers' sexual consciousness can generally be divided into four periods:
1, sexual conflict period at the beginning of adolescence, there is a short period, teenagers always want to stay away from the opposite sex, especially girls. This is mainly related to physiological factors. Due to the emergence of the second sexual characteristic, teenagers feel at a loss and shy about their own drastic changes, instinctively alienate the opposite sex, and some even resent it. This period lasts about 1 year.
2, admire the elderly in the middle of youth development, young men and women tend to some people in the surrounding environment who are particularly outstanding in sports, literature, knowledge and appearance (mostly elderly people of the same sex or the opposite sex), mentally causing * * * sound, admiration and love, yearning, and trying to imitate the words and deeds of these elderly people, and even fascinated.
3. The yearning for the opposite sex reaches the late adolescence. With the gradual maturity of sexual development, young people tend to be interested in the opposite sex of the same age, hoping to get in touch with the opposite sex, or trying to attract the attention of the opposite sex in various fields. However, due to teenagers' emotional instability and strong self-awareness, they are easy to cause conflicts in the process of communication, and often quarrel or even break up because of trivial matters, so the communication objects often change.
Youth development in love has reached adulthood. Young people focus their friendship on the opposite sex they love. They are often together, congenial to each other, help each other in work and study, take care of each other in life, look forward to a happy life after marriage, and begin to make preparations for organizing future families. At this time, young people pay less attention to the surrounding environment.