No matter what age you are, please remember these three words of advice from life.
1. No matter how difficult it is, don't always complain.
"I'm in a good mood"
Lin Qingxuan wrote a story in his prose collection, "I often think about one thing or two, but I don't think about eight or nine".
Once, an old friend found Lin Qingxuan. Because middle-aged people have some bad worries in all aspects, I thought Lin Qingxuan could give him a few words of comfort.
Lin Qingxuan pondered for a long time and wrote four words: Always think about one or two things.
What did the old friend ask him? He said:
As the saying goes, nine times out of ten things in life are unsatisfactory, but after deducting 890% of them, at least 120% of them are satisfied, happy and gratified.
If we want to live a happy life, we should always think about those 120% good things, so that we can feel lucky, cherish them and not be knocked down by the disappointment of 1989.
In the world of adults, there is nothing that can't pass, only the mood that can't pass.
After various choices, you will face various pressures. You may not be able to avoid emotional ups and downs, but please don't complain all the time.
It is better to talk less, do more, complain less and be optimistic than to hurt yourself with bad emotions. This is the best way to break the ice of life.
There is a saying that:
The greatest charm of a person is that he can not only enjoy the gift of fate, but also bear the blow of fate. Whether it is good or bad, it can become an upward motivation and a landscape of life.
Such a person must be full of soul. The disease of the soul is precisely the disease of losing hope, indulging in the secular world and forgetting the upward.
With the advancement of life, we are inevitably confused and at a loss.
When a person is confused, he will worry about his future, fear that he will accomplish nothing in the future, fear that everyone around him is struggling, and fear that he will be confused.
But what problem can fear solve?
The only solution when you are confused is to calm your heart and not be afraid of the front.
You can try to look back at yourself, no matter how difficult the situation is, what obstacles are there? If you lose again, don't forget to go up.
Chen Guo said: There are always physical degeneration and functional loss. Decline is a mental breakdown.
No matter what age we are, we should try to find an upward force. Not timid, not lonely, not sorry for myself ... not a mental decline, but an explanation that my life is not mediocre.
On the road of life, it is impossible for everyone to be top-notch, but no matter when it comes, I hope you will always keep your attitude of going up the mountain. Grow step by step, and this life will be worthwhile.
Some people say that life is always compared. At the age of 20, education, ability, experience, financial resources, physical strength and medical records are more important than at the age of 30. ...
In the final analysis, the body is the most important thing.
Jia Pingwa is a famous "old patient" in China literature. In his own words, "I got hepatitis in my thirties and have been ill for almost twenty years."
Later, when his body recovered, he kept reminding himself:
I'm afraid I'm in poor health. I won't stay up late in the future. I should pay attention to my diet.
Don't care about whether the salary level can be high, and be careful not to let the blood pressure and blood lipid be high;
It doesn't matter whether you are outstanding or not. Pay attention to disc herniation.
Because of their youth, many people think that life is extremely vigorous, so they overeat, stay up all night, and squander their health, as if there is no limit to their health.
It was not until a sudden illness that I suddenly realized that youth can be squandered, but health can't.
The philosopher Spinoza famously said, "It is our duty to keep healthy."
Now, you may have a successful career and a happy family.
Therefore, health is very expensive, please don't squander it.
The bankruptcy of life is often not lost to wealth, but to health.