2, communication: premarital counseling should learn to communicate, including listening, expression, feedback, which are two intersecting opposing lines. Experiential exercises and games can help students check their communication patterns and the direction that needs improvement.
3. Family background and you today: Everyone makes a detailed family map, so that they can write for each other and ask questions from pens, so that they can write answers for each other. In this way, on the one hand, you can learn to listen, on the other hand, you can learn more about each other, and the other party can concentrate on recalling the past of growing up.
4. Commitment to marriage life: check whether the marriage motivation, expectation and commitment are mature, and don't be too idealistic. If it is unrealistic, it must be repositioned.
5, the establishment of a happy marriage: marriage should know that it is the continuation of love, so it is best for both parties to make a commitment before marriage, so that it can be realized, and both parties must continue to keep the contract. Both sides estimate the obstacles they may face, and many things should be discussed in advance to avoid frequent conflicts due to the pace gap after marriage and lose the pleasure of enjoying marriage.
What psychological preparation should I have before getting married?
1 First of all, we should be prepared to live with this man or woman, so no matter what happens in the future, we should be prepared to accept all this. As long as we are in the same boat after marriage, we will be a family from now on.
After marriage, you should keep your distance from other friends of the opposite sex, because at this time, you are not a single person, and at the same time, for your sake, you must refuse the ambiguity of the outside world.
Be sure to let your heart accept everything about this person, whether it is good or bad. For a better life, we should start all this well and have a good mood.
4. Make up your mind. In the future, if there are contradictions between the two sides, we must not easily say sad words, but also solve the contradictions, not just let go, so as to have a healthy heart.
5, and be prepared, even if the other person doesn't love you, learn to resolve the contradiction, and then continue to love well. It is best not to have fear before marriage, so that life together will be good. Another possibility is that everything will happen after marriage. Even if you are unhappy, even if you are unhappy, you still have to go on.