Sometimes children and adults don't have the same language. The main reason is that there is too little communication with children. It is necessary to communicate with children more, understand their inner world, become their friends and get along well with them, so that children can grow up healthily. Third, learn to praise children. Excellent children are praised. Every child is eager for success and recognition from others. Moreover, the child's nature is to praise him more. The more he is willing to do things, the more he is willing to do the right thing. Therefore, when a child can accomplish something, adults should give affirmation and praise in time to give the child a sense of satisfaction, which will stimulate the child to be more willing to listen to adults and do better next time. Fourth, don't beat and scold children. Children are born willful. This waywardness requires adults to change with emotion and heart, not by beating and cursing. The more you beat and scold the child, the more rebellious the child becomes. Children have strong self-esteem, so we should use correct educational methods to let them know their own right and wrong, such as telling stories and giving examples.
Fifth, don't spoil children, and don't spoil them too much. Let the children know that everything they get is paid by their parents, and let them know how to be grateful. Often take children out to play, let them see the outside world. Playing is a child's nature. When they are old enough, you should let them play. You should have the psychology of a child. Children are curious about new things and always ask why. This is what you should answer with your heart. These questions are very important to children. Children can learn a lot from contact with nature, which is necessary nutrition for their growth. So adults should spend their energy with their children.