1. Don't spoil it.
Care for children should be moderate, not excessive. Too much concern will make children accustomed to being self-centered and often become arrogant.
2. Let children know the relationship between rights and obligations.
Parents should let their children understand the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age. Only through hard work can you get what you want, and only through hard work can you gain something.
3. Don't be too close to children.
Children should have their own room for growth, and they should not be deprived of the opportunity to get along with their peers because they are too close to them. Only by spending more time with accompanying children can we exercise their social skills and improve their interpersonal skills.
4. Don't force children to challenge impossible tasks.
It is very important to give children a sense of accomplishment and self-confidence through daily trifles, so parents should arrange something for their children to do, and be careful not to give them something difficult to do, which will easily dampen their self-confidence.
5. Don't be too hard on children.
It's normal for children to do something wrong. Don't beat, scold or scold at every turn, otherwise they will become inferior, timid and even violently resist, struggle and run away from home.
6. Don't cheat and intimidate children.
Parents should not deceive or even intimidate their children, which will affect their status in the children's minds and will not be conducive to future education.
7. Don't criticize children in public.
Children also have self-esteem. Don't criticize children in public, otherwise it will cause great psychological harm to children.
8. Don't praise children too much.
Parents should reward and punish their children appropriately and avoid excessive praise or punishment. Of course, children's good grades can be praised, but enough is enough, not complacent.
9. Don't get emotional with children.
Children are very sensitive. Parents should not be moody towards their children. Don't vent your anger in life on their children. In the long run, children will be timid, suspicious and even autistic.
10. Help children analyze difficulties
When children face difficulties and cannot be solved, parents can help them analyze and find solutions together, and then let them try to solve them themselves.