When a cancer woman and a cancer man take off their protective shells and fall in love, emotional security becomes an important thing for them. They usually want to get married. Some people can temporarily try to tolerate a poorly designed cohabitation plan, but this tolerance can only last for a short time.
These two people really like and need the warm protection brought by the relationship between social recognition and legal strengthening. It is extremely doubtful whether cancer people can stay together comfortably under the psychological burden of illegal marriage (what do mothers think? )。
Only a few cancer people who are withdrawn and previously alienated by family ties-for one reason or another-can successfully adapt to loveless marriages and even bow their heads quickly when passing by their neighbors' houses. Yes, they are the most dissatisfied women in the world. Each of them cried herself to sleep at night.
Once the 1- 1 type Cancer-Cancer Sun Palace is formed, it bears fruit and has children, and they become a "whole". They can find many things they have common interests-for example, laughing at each other's baby photos while studying family photo albums carefully, collecting stamps and ancient coins, crying on each other's warm shoulders, visiting their parents, redecorating their houses, gardening, traveling, exchanging dreams and nightmares, reading poems, writing poems, singing, listening to music, and running on the beach to pick up drifters. Cook for him, too He earns money to support her. He cooks for her and she earns money to support him-whatever. All Cancer people like delicious food, and most of them are good cooks.
Crying sadly (or pouting) is the first problem that cancer people may have, which makes paper towels a major item of their financial expenditure. They can cry for tragic movies, for being ignored by their peers and for their forgotten childhood.
Food is the second most important thing. Accompanied by it, it is either a pleasant agreement, a dispute about which restaurant to eat (in love), or a dispute about how to cook at home (after the honeymoon). Those cancer people who don't care about food-where to eat, when to eat and how to eat-are either from jiminy, or they are used to taking it for granted, or they will lie about the date of their birthdays. Cancer people will burst into tears when they think that others are starving. Those who check their loyalty, gentleness and care for others deeply hope to help the hungry people (especially children) in poor countries, who belong to cancer (or perhaps some people who buy weighing scale in the bathroom most often).
After the emotional richness and food, there is a child-to support a family. If one of them has no desire to have children, the other will get angry. If both of them want to have a baby, they will stop arguing when the baby is about to be born. Some cancer mothers don't believe that their son is old enough to date girls, so it is possible that he will still live alone in the apartment until he is 30 or 35 years old. Some cancer fathers (or mothers) believe that their daughters can't get married until someone who is healthy, rich, smart, has an annual income of more than/kloc-0.0 million dollars, has a high reputation and can regard their daughters as the apple of their eyes appears.
The possibility of affecting the harmony and tension of love between two "crabs" is next-money. In fact, money is the first thing for cancer, but sometimes romantic passion will make lovers forget their personal money. They are right. Nevertheless, they will face one conflict after another from the beginning, and they should separate their bank deposits. Spend their own money, and then they can save as much as they want in the deposit, or they can quietly do all kinds of stingy or generous charity-no one else knows. Cancer people may be useless, because they are good at keeping secrets and spying on each other's secrets. Last but not least, of course, sex. Whether male or female, Cancer people always treat what they desire, and things always retreat to one side as if they don't care, and then suddenly jump forward. If they all remember this implied trend, then when he inadvertently announced that he would sleep on the sofa in order to enjoy the moonlight outside the window, she would not cry in opposition, but laugh at herself. She knows that his real purpose is to sleep with her in the future, because when the knife kisses him and says "good night", the faint perfume on her body and his favorite pajamas will make him glow with passion. Then, when she turned her back on him coldly on her first wedding anniversary, she murmured "good night, dear". He won't fall into the panic that she can't do anything about her sexuality. He will wait with a smile until she sends him a signal of love-she will slowly touch his warm toes with her cold feet, or something like that. Both of them are good at playing guessing games in sex, hiding their fear of being left out, or hiding their desire for divorce without common language; So both of them often try to get each other to take the initiative. Apart from this kind of hide-and-seek game, they are rarely satisfied when they show their love with body language.
They don't ask too many questions about sex. Although their senses are extremely keen and they are good at making strong reactions, they have sex more out of love for each other than just sexual desire. If the other person doesn't express his or her need for sex with gentle touch, he or she will get angry. The core part of romantic cancer sex. When boys or girls in Cancer feel unloved, they will go to bed earlier than their spouses, expecting Maoou to make them feel better by constantly apologizing.
When they first met, timidity and caution made their initial contact colorful. Then all of a sudden, on a full moon night that can arouse the passion of cancer, they will go forward and do the next natural thing, and then they will ask the question of who seduced whom. Poetry and music can successfully speed up the process of their love, but when they are worried about money but can't express it, their physical love will be difficult, poverty will temporarily interrupt their sex life, and the feeling of not being appreciated will also reduce their passion. When their sexual relationship is indifferent, they don't need to go to the hospital for examination or eat a bag of ginseng biscuits, but need a lot of money, rich love and compassion. Usually, people in cancer, both men and women, are very loyal, and there are few people who don't believe it. If this happens, their possessiveness will not lead to the same firm determination as waiting for their opponents, nor will it lead to jealousy.
They must restrain their early habit of keeping secrets. Although both cancers like to keep secrets, they don't like each other's secrets they don't know. If they can be more open, more direct, less sensitive and evasive, many injuries can be avoided. When she is silent, he may think she has a lover, but the real reason is that her mother hasn't written to her, or he hasn't praised her cooking and paid attention to her new pajamas. Similarly, when his real secret is actually just worrying about paying for the car, she may think that he is looking for another woman, or that he forgot to say "thank you for loving me" to her after waking up for three weeks. In both cases, an honest confession will change everything and turn tears into laughter-because they all have a sense of humor, which can always serve as the safest and most reliable antidote when they make themselves nervous.
Unlike other couples whose horoscope is 1- 1, the fit between the moon and cancer depends on their respective moon phases. If they are in harmony with each other, their harmony will far exceed their complaints. If they are not harmonious, they will have a great chance to become rich-they can be gentler and love each other more than anyone else. When the moon is the last quarter, they may talk sharply to each other, but when the moon gradually becomes round, they will sail from the imaginary ocean into the wonderful world, and both of them will become gentle as water.