It's not a weekend, there are not many people in the hospital, and it's my turn soon. Walking into the consulting room, the doctor asked, "What's the matter?" I try to speak quickly and clearly, lest the doctor get impatient.
I said, "Cold, cough, sore throat."
The doctor asked again, "How many days did you eat?"
I said, "Take cephalosporin ..."
Before the words were finished, the doctor changed his face and said, "I don't know if it's a viral cold or a bacterial cold, so I started taking cephalosporins?"
I am like a primary school student who has written wrong homework. I said timidly, "The main reason is that I am afraid of infecting my children. I will take whatever medicine I have at home."
The doctor softened his tone and said, "Take care of yourself first. How many times have you taken cephalosporins? If you eat too much, you won't draw blood. "
I said I only ate it once, and the doctor gave me a blood collection slip to take blood.
Show it to the doctor when you get the report. There is a patient in the clinic, and I am waiting outside the door. Suddenly, a woman in a black down jacket crowded in front of me. I tried to stop her from cutting in line, but I thought she was in a hurry and forgot.
The patient inside comes out and she goes in. The doctor said that the film should be pneumonia and should be hospitalized.
The woman said, "Doctor. It's not that serious. My mother didn't have a fever and became pneumonia. "
The doctor said, "Adult pneumonia is different from children. Not necessarily a fever. "
The woman said, "I'm at work, and my mother is still at home with the children, so I can't be hospitalized."
The doctor's face changed again and said, "The old man is over sixty years old and his physical strength is declining. Don't be brave, but pay attention to rest. "
The woman said shyly, "If you are not hospitalized, can you make a phone call in the community?"
The doctor was a little impatient and said, "You can play in the community. In short, you should take care of the children after you get well. "
At first, I felt that this daughter was very filial, and the old man was sick and asked to take care of the children. I can recall our family, indeed. The child's grandmother's eye cataract surgery has been delayed until the 11 th holiday, and only one person goes back to his hometown for surgery. I hurried back to take care of the children before the review time, for fear that it would affect our work.
Without children, everyone is free at home. With children, everyone becomes like a top and revolves around the children.
After having a baby, I began to buy all kinds of buy buy products, milk powder, diapers, baby shampoo, shower gel, skin cream, all kinds of clothes, and studied various brands, always trying to give my baby the best.
But is it worthwhile to buy something for yourself? Cosmetics, clothes, bags and shoes have all started to decrease. The euphemistic name of being a minimalist is actually that economic reality is controlling desire.
Children's quality of life can not be poor, regardless of adults, no matter how bitter they are, they can't suffer children. This is the spirit of sacrifice of parents, and everything is simple.
After having a baby, you don't have to worry about where to eat and go shopping after work. Go home and take care of the children, or you will be labeled as a child and lectured collectively by the whole family.
Think about how long it's been since you went to dinner with your friends.
How long has it been since you traveled?
How long has it been since I went home to see my parents?
How long has it been since I slept all night?
How long has it been since I was alone?
Sometimes no one can understand the old mother's sadness. Everyone thinks we should. You have to raise it when you are born. If you don't raise it, who will?
It sounds reasonable, but the child is not the child of the mother alone. Those who stand and talk like a baby need help.
Without a baby, a quarrel becomes a quarrel between a young couple, but after having a baby, the quarrel escalates.
Why do my parents always help with the children?
The skirt you bought for the child is not easy to wear at all. If you think you buy it well, you buy it.
When I get home, I will know whether watching TV and playing games can control my children.
If you don't ask again, I won't help you with your children!
The relationship between husband and wife, mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has become sensitive and fragile, which may be ignited by a child's cry and trigger a quarrel.
This seems to be everyday, but if it is not handled well, contradictions will escalate and affect family harmony.
Babies usually can't sleep for one night until they are one year old. Before that, she was awakened by crying in every confusion. There is nothing she can do. She couldn't resist, so she had to do it and got up to nurse and change diapers.
Babies who don't sleep honestly always kick the quilt, which makes adults sleep uneasily. Early in the morning, I want to get up with the early baby. This is how dark circles are trained.
Husband often complains that sleeping every day feels like sleeping in a sleeper on the train, and there is no room to turn over. The baby sleeps with open arms, just like flying a plane, except that his small body occupies half of the bed and sometimes turns over, so basically the whole bed is his.
There are all kinds of hardships and tiredness in raising a baby, but they also bring us a lot of happiness and happiness, making parents feel that everything is worthwhile.
When she grows up, she will expect her parents to come home from work early and give her a big hug.
I will carefully prepare Christmas presents for my parents on my birthday.
Eva will have all kinds of whimsy to make her parents laugh.
In the process of raising a baby, adults grow up together, which is a painful and happy life. Take care of yourself and your parents while taking care of your baby. Don't take turns giving yourself and your parents a holiday just because your child has lost himself.
Only when you are in good health can you spend more time with your child.