Actually, women are very smart. When talking about other people's affairs, you are often clear-headed, but when it comes to yourself, you are easily confused. This is a typical fan of the authorities. Therefore, I suggest that my fortune teller should be objective when encountering things, try to look at himself outside his own environment, look at his current situation from the perspective of God, and then make a calm judgment, so that you will find that you have always had the ability to think independently. You can try several times if you don't believe me.
Step 2 read on
Read more books, read good books, there is always a way. I don't like reading, and I get sleepy when I study. This is actually a psychological barrier. As long as you keep reading for 3-5 times, you will get into the habit of reading.
Reading can really increase your knowledge and exercise your thinking ability. The more books you read, the stronger your independent thinking ability will be. Of course, it is better to stay away from the novels of love and poison chicken soup. Because these books will backfire and make you immersed in unrealistic dream love all day, or in various seemingly reasonable "road traps"
3. Cultivate high emotional intelligence
The so-called high emotional intelligence is good at interpersonal relationships, likable and popular. A * * * knowledge is that high emotional intelligence is easier to succeed than high IQ. Carnegie, a famous American interpersonal master, said that success comes from 85% interpersonal relationship and 15% professional knowledge.
Step 4 learn to smile
Smile actually belongs to the category of high emotional intelligence and is the lubricant of interpersonal relationship. Many times, as long as you smile, things will become easier to solve, tense interpersonal relationships will be alleviated, and the atmosphere will become relaxed. Although you are still you, everything has changed qualitatively, and things that would have gone bad have begun to get better.
Smiling is particularly friendly, easy to eliminate the sense of distance, and it is a sharp weapon to integrate into the team and bring the relationship closer. Everyone is willing to accept and welcome a smiling person.
5, improve professional ability
A person with strong professional ability, even the boss should respect him for three points, let alone others. People with strong professional ability have the right to speak in the team and the company, so that they can respond with one voice and not be overwhelmed by mediocrity. In the workplace, I always rely on my professional ability to eat. My position in the company and the strength of my gas field are largely determined by my professional ability. Recognizing this, I will constantly improve my professional ability and win the right to speak, and my gas field will come out.