Last month, two students in a key middle school in our city committed suicide. One was to take sleeping pills and the other was to jump off a building in anger. Last year, a student in a primary school in this city was scolded by his mother because of a conflict with other children, so he committed suicide by taking pesticides and died unfortunately because of late treatment.
I have a niece, 13 years old, a freshman, who laughs all day. When asked about her grades, she always swears that she will do well in the exam. As a result, the mid-term grade was the sixth from the bottom of the class. The little girl was blinded at once and said in her diary, "I'm sorry, teacher!" Sorry, mom and dad! I have no face to see anyone, I might as well go diving and die. " Her deskmate saw her diary and secretly reported it to the teacher. Only when the teacher did the ideological work did she give up the idea of suicide. Later I asked her, and she smiled and said, "What's the matter? There is another one in our class who wants to commit suicide by jumping off a building. "
Suicides range from college students to middle school students and even primary school students. For parents and schools, the situation is getting worse.
Yes, there are not a few students who want to "die" from exams. They scold their parents and teachers and laugh at their classmates. I once made a questionnaire survey in the class where I taught, and more than 80% of them had suicidal thoughts, and the number of middle school students who committed suicide was also increasing.
These flower-like lives wither in the moment of youth because of a temporary impulse. Why? Don't they realize the beauty of life? Or have we neglected the education of cherishing students' lives in our education?
There is an ancient saying that "filial piety is influenced by parents", and suicide is unfilial to parents; Western religions say that people who commit suicide can't go to heaven, and all their sins can't be forgiven by God.
I have seen patients in hospitals who are pushed out of the operating room by doctors with tubes all over their bodies, and I have also seen patients struggling with the disease in their beds. At that time, I really felt that life was so precious that nothing else was worth mentioning in front of life. Someone once said: health is more important than money; Life is more important than health.
At present, the enthusiasm shown by the whole country in fighting against SARS is enough to prove the importance of life and to feel people's love for life.
Young friends, please cherish your life!
Cherish life, learn to be kind to yourself, learn to fly yourself, and make yourself closer to nature. There are many interesting things in life, and there are also many beautiful things in life. We can try to do what we like. Playing football, surfing the Internet, going for an outing with friends, swimming in the sea, fishing by the stream, watching comedies, climbing favorite mountains, watching waterfalls and listening to the sound of the waves … There are so many things waiting for us to do, and so many joys need us to participate. We run, we jump, we laugh, we sing, and this beauty is all because of life.
Cherish life and make it valuable. Enrich yourself and improve yourself. For the enrichment of life and the perfection of life, you have no reason not to work hard, but to make life wonderful because of struggle.
Cherish life, but also learn to treat life with a normal heart, adjust your mentality in time, and face everything in life calmly. Believe that there are no obstacles in life.
Let's embark on the road of life with such a little poem:
I walked into life with a smile, no matter how life rewarded me.
Give me an apartment? I am a cheerful river;
Call me rough? I am a mountain of solemn thinking;
Reward me with happiness? I am a swallow flying in the air;
Repay my misfortune? I am a strong bamboo, and I can bear thousands of blows.