Psychologists believe that you should never underestimate an introverted person who doesn't like to talk.
Introversion is not shyness.
When it comes to introversion, we always think of the word shyness. But in fact, introverts don't feel embarrassed and uneasy in public or communication places. They are willing to take the initiative to understand others and even observe everyone around them from the perspective of a bystander. Peace of mind and relaxation. And shy people don't know where to put their clumsy hands in communication places, which will make them feel embarrassed.
For example, people who talk to you privately in Kan Kan will tremble when they speak in public, and his contrast is great. This is shyness. Even if you are a cheerful and lively person, this may happen. It can be seen that introverts and extroverts are shy.
In contrast, some people seem introverted and don't like to talk, but once they speak, they often speak clearly and have no stage fright, so introversion is different from shyness.
Introverts and extroverts have different sources of motivation.
What is the source force? Source power is actually the source factor that keeps you alive, such as dreams. If a person doesn't have a dream, he is bound to lack spirit. Extroverts are mostly motivated by various social activities and communication with others. If they are left alone, they are likely to be depressed. Keeping in touch with others and society is the spiritual pillar of extroverts.
On the contrary, introverts like to be alone. They like to get energy from their spiritual world and are more creative when they are alone. For example, writers and artists are usually introverted. However, the creation of an excellent work can not be separated from a long period of high concentration, and only when they are born lonely can they create more perfect works of art.
Shi Tiesheng, a famous writer, became an introverted person because of his paralysis of his legs. The boring life of the disabled makes Shi Tiesheng often sit in the park for a day, even listening to the rain. This high degree of concentration allows him to explore emotional experiences that others can't understand and see more different scenery. Because the source power of introverts can make them have a broader world outlook and artistic aesthetics.
Introverts are more likely to gain the trust of others.
People who talk too much are usually bored. Only by talking less and doing more can they gain the trust of others.
During the Three Kingdoms period, Yang Xiu was one of Cao Cao's men, extroverted and eager to express himself. On one occasion, Cao Cao wrote the word "a box of cakes" on a box of cakes, but everyone turned a blind eye. At this time, Yang Xiu jumped out and said "one person is crisp" to Cao Cao's idea. Yang Xiu only saw Cao Cao's love for money, but forgot his suspicious character. He doesn't want others to understand his ideas. In the end, what Yang Xiu did cost him his life.
Cao Cao loves talents. He has a lot of talents, but no one knows what he really thinks. People who know how to shut up are more likely to get his attention. Introverts don't like to talk, which reduces the anxiety of others to some extent. People are selfish and want their ideas to be heard by others, not criticized. Therefore, the quietness of introverts can easily gain the trust of others. Even if they don't express any opinions, confidants will feel the loyalty of introverts.
Who do you prefer to share secrets with in life? Extroverts will bring a lot of fun to your life. Introverts can be used as tree holes to let others listen to their joys and sorrows. Their innate emotional ability will bring a stable power to friends, so the first choice for us to pour out our worries must be introverts.
Introverts are usually more likely to succeed.
Extroverts will spend a lot of time and energy on socializing, while introverts will spend time on work and study, which naturally makes them more successful, while introverts are more delicate.
Stephen Chow, a famous comedy star, is taciturn in acting. He personally taught others how to perform better, from an action to the pronunciation of a line of words. Introverts tend to be very demanding of themselves, and naturally it is easy to succeed.
Success is a high mountain, and only those who can stand loneliness and hard work can climb to the top. Introverts are good at being alone, and they tend to achieve their goals more easily. Don't underestimate the ability of introverts, and don't underestimate what they do. When you talk a lot, he may just smile, but he thinks of a vast world that ordinary people can't see.