How to cultivate a confident and excellent child? What are the specific methods?

In any case, it is indeed a good thing for children to have self-confidence, but most children lack self-confidence and feel inferior. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's self-confidence when they are young and realize their future. If parents don't know how to cultivate their children's self-confidence, then at least six of the following eight methods need to be learned. 1, one of the benefits of raising children. From primary school to high school, students bow their heads to study. Although they are all trying to get into a good university, when they get to the university, they find that they can do nothing but learn from themselves. Whenever the program is performed, I sit under the stage and envy those students who are singing and dancing on the stage, thinking that they are shining.

At this time, the child's heart is inferior and melancholy. Because she has no special talent, at least at this stage she feels like a failure. No matter how dissatisfied the child is, if the child is really inferior to others in technology, one of the child's strengths can be cultivated to cultivate an interest, which can make the child feel different and greatly improve his self-confidence. 2. Improper comments on shortcomings. Some parents like to expose their children's shortcomings in front of others and never consider their children's feelings. You know, children have their own self-esteem when they reach a certain age. Self-esteem and self-confidence sometimes merge into one. If you hurt your child's self-esteem, your child's self-confidence will also be hit.

In severe cases, it will make children feel inferior and give up on themselves. So parents should get rid of this love and don't talk about their children's shortcomings in public. 3. Encourage children. Encouraging children is a necessary skill for every parent. When children do good deeds or get good grades, parents should encourage and praise them in time, so that kindness and glory can take root in children's hearts. In this way, the child's heart is full of confidence. When children are depressed, parents should also encourage their children to cheer up and not let them continue to be depressed. A good attitude is also a sign of self-confidence. 4. Help the child analyze his advantages.

Many parents and children analyze their children's shortcomings together, taking children as the boundary and taking fewer detours. But few parents will analyze their parents' shortcomings. Only look at the child's shortcomings, not the child's advantages. When children know themselves, they only see their own shortcomings and can't see their own bright spots, so their personality is even more inferior. Helping children analyze their own advantages is to make up for this mistake, let them know themselves more comprehensively, guide them to develop in a better direction and become confident children. 5. Care about the people around you. Children rarely take the initiative to care about the people around them. People around you usually think of him. However, when actively guiding children to care about people around them, they will feel that they need children and are trusted.

This feeling makes children confident, capable of helping others, and at the same time makes children more kind. 6. Encourage children to participate in sports activities. If children like sports, they will be more energetic, cheerful, positive and optimistic, and have a good fate, which is of great help to the cultivation of children's self-confidence. In addition, sports can improve children's physical strength and do no harm to children. By doing these six things, children's self-confidence will be stimulated to the maximum extent, life will become more substantial and the future will become better.