In ancient times, Bao Shu Ya gave more gold to Guan Zhong. He doesn't care about Guan Zhong's selfishness, he can understand Guan Zhong. He also recommended Guan Zhong to Qi Huangong as his boss. This is a kind of tolerance.
Now, there are many tolerant stories: once upon a time, there were two good friends, Yue Heqi. One day they quarreled, and Yue wrote it down on the beach. A few days later, Pi Nuo saved the moon, and the moon actually carved something on a stone. Pi Nuo wondered, "Why are you doing this?" Yue said, "Let the unpleasant things drift away with the sea breeze, and remember when you save me." .
Whenever I read these two short stories, I feel ashamed, and what happened that day keeps coming back to my mind.
I have a favorite that records the joys and sorrows of my study and life. On that day, this favorite suddenly disappeared. Just when I was in a hurry, my sister came with a smile on her face that she liked. I was so angry that I ignored my sister for days.
Now think about it carefully, can a love get the friendship between sisters? I can't. Now I finally realize the importance of tolerance, which is a good medicine to maintain mental health.
Friend, be tolerant, don't let meanness ruin friendship. What is more tolerant than the sea is the sky, and what is more tolerant than the sky is the heart. Let's learn from the sea, tolerate the waves, learn from the sky, tolerate everything and make friends with tolerance.
Learn to tolerate. 2. endure a calm moment and take a step back. This is a sentence I denied, but now it has become my wisdom.
A fierce battle for the "38th parallel" started in English class. I was writing an exercise when suddenly an unknown force pushed me and cut a sharp wound in my exercise book. Boy, dare to leave your "masterpiece" in my exercise book. Who gave you the courage of Xiong Xin leopard? I thought angrily. I am not a vegetarian. I will retaliate immediately. At the moment when the teacher called, I deliberately pushed his hand away and left my "masterpiece" on his homework. He gnashed his teeth with anger and made a face at me. Although he did it behind my back, I noticed it. I am not a fuel-efficient lamp. I gave him a "golden foot stamp". Look at his painful expression, I have the upper hand. I won the game.
As soon as the bell rang, everyone took out a ruler. Oh, no, I didn't. Suddenly I remembered the advice of the "cold-faced killer" math teacher and broke out in a cold sweat behind me. "Cold-faced killer" is famous for not laughing. Once something doesn't meet her requirements, the consequences are unimaginable. I want to borrow it from my deskmate, but I am afraid I will be looked down upon by him. I'm worried. I regret it very much If I hadn't been brave just now, I wouldn't have ended up in such an embarrassing situation.
The bell in class is so harsh, the footsteps make my eardrums tremble, and my blood is frozen to the point of collapse. The world isolated me, and I closed my eyes and waited for the "bad news" that I was about to stand out. "As long as there is a ruler falling from the sky, I will do anything!" Suddenly, a hand patted me and handed me a ruler. "But this is your only ruler ..." I said. "Nothing, don't you just go out and stand as a punishment?" He pulled me out of the jaws of death, but pushed himself into the abyss. This move made me feel warm ... Later, I apologized to him and we made up again.
It has been many years, and it is still very touching to think of it now.
Learn to be tolerant 3 What is tolerance? Tolerance is the rainbow bridge of friendship! What is tolerance? Tolerance is the glue to repair friendship!
Thomas lee and I are very good friends. We often have fun together, but one thing separates us. It was in science class, and everyone in our class planted a pot of impatiens. A few days have passed, and under my careful care, my impatiens has sprouted. I am extremely happy, which is the result of my efforts. I expect it to bloom every day, and even dream that it will produce beautiful flowers. But when my good friend thomas lee was on duty, he knocked over my flowerpot and broke my dream. I cried with anger. Thomas lee quickly said, "I'm sorry, I didn't mean to." He also gave me his own pot. Not only did I not ask for it, but I also pushed him to the ground and said loudly, "thomas lee, I hate you, and I will never play with you again!" "After a day, two days, half a month, a month, every time we meet, he warmly greeted me, and I ignored him as if I didn't see it.
A few days ago, my classmates and I played football on the playground. I accidentally kicked the ball into thomas lee's face. He immediately covered his nose, but the blood still came out. This is terrible. I'm in trouble. I'm as anxious as a cat on hot bricks. I thought: thomas lee will hate me. At this moment, thomas lee blocked his nose with paper and said, "I don't blame you. You certainly didn't mean it. "
In the last class in the afternoon, I kept thinking about what happened between me and thomas lee. He can forgive me, but I can't forgive him I'm ashamed. After school, I wrote a little note to thomas lee: thomas lee, forgive me, let's be good friends. Li Tong smiled and we ran out of the campus together.
Through these two things, I learned tolerance and made more and more friends!
Comments: Based on two things, the students wrote down their own process of learning tolerance in detail. The discussion at the beginning of the article points directly to the theme, and the end summarizes the full text concisely and clearly.
Learn to tolerate. Tolerance is a hymn. Tolerance is the most important thing in interpersonal communication. It's like a cup of strong tea. The more delicious, the better. Tolerance is like a ray of sunshine, which illuminates our hearts. In an incident, I learned how to tolerate others.
That's how it happened. On a hot afternoon, the sun shines white and bright on the earth, just a sword inserted in the ground. An unpleasant thing happened because of the hot weather.
At that time, we were practicing calligraphy under the supervision of the teacher, and my deskmate inadvertently crossed the 38th parallel I secretly drew and stabbed my arm. I can't control it at once. The pen is like a machine, drawing lines on the notebook. I stood up in anger and fought back. I also drew a big line on my deskmate's notebook with a pen. At this time, an unexpected thing happened. He cried and cried, and the teacher who heard the crying came over in three steps and two steps and asked kindly, "What's the matter with you?" The deskmate said, "He! He! " The teacher turned to me and said eight words sternly: "You! Come to the office after class! " This command made the whole class look at me, and everyone talked about it. After class, I hurried to the office. I thought to myself: I must have been "bombed" again!
Things are not as bad as I thought. The teacher asked me what I was thinking in detail first, and I told her from the beginning as usual. The teacher began to educate me, and in the whole process of education, one sentence impressed me the most. "People at the dinner table should be tolerant. As long as they have a tolerant heart, they can find the principle of being a man. " This sentence has always accompanied me to grow up and taught me how to be a man.
A hundred rivers are full of tolerance. Tolerance is a bright light that illuminates the way forward in our lives!
Learn to tolerate. 5 "Be strict with yourself and be lenient with others" is really not easy to do! To be strict with yourself means to restrain your desires at any time, be strict with yourself more often, take everything you do seriously, and show it to everyone with a rigorous face. Being strict with yourself is a way to improve your quality. Under strict requirements, you must pay attention to your behavior inadvertently, and everything can become a habit. This is man's heteronomy, and time is enough for the most difficult thing to persist. It will become our own thing!
When you treat others, you can't be as tolerant of others as you are of yourself. Always remember to tolerate the mistakes and shortcomings of others. Giving others more tolerance and understanding is also a virtue, a manifestation of seeing things clearly, and a way for us to leave a way out for ourselves!
To be strict with yourself is to improve your level, and to be tolerant of others is to give others opportunities. However, sometimes we should be more tolerant of ourselves and more strict with others. Nothing is absolute. Anyone's mistakes are inevitable. When others make too serious mistakes, we can't just be tolerant. Facing our inevitable mistakes, we should not be too strict with ourselves. We should tolerate ourselves appropriately and give ourselves opportunities and tolerance appropriately. Don't you also give yourself confidence and motivation, and give yourself a chance to practice and live? This may be the complexity and dialectical side of things!
Man is to be the protagonist of society, let others give him applause, and let others be his applause!
Learn tolerance 6 tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses the tolerant, and she blesses the tolerant.
As the saying goes: "The prime minister can punt in his stomach, and the general can bear the brunt on his back. Then why don't we be prime ministers and become generals?
Some people say that tolerance is a flower that never fades and an eternal light. Some people say that tolerance is a bridge between innocence and immortality. Some people say that tolerance is a cool spring that irrigates a dry heart. Yes! Tolerance! What a beautiful quality.
Many people in the world believe that tolerance is a kind of understanding, a virtue, a ray of warm sunshine on the snowy mountain in winter, a rich harvest in autumn, a watering of the hot sun in summer, and the gratitude of the earth to nature in spring ... But I think tolerance is a kind of friendship, which can't be exchanged for money or rights. We should tolerate our friends when they do something wrong. Our tolerance will make them feel relaxed and happy. Similarly, when we do something wrong, they will tolerate us.
I remember once, when we were watching The Straw House in the classroom, I sat with my good friend. While I was watching it, the man behind me poked me. I turned around and pushed the table together. My good friend's hand is on the seam of the table. When I push it, my arm will bleed. Although it is only a minor injury, I still feel very guilty. I asked her, "I'm sorry. She said, "Why should I blame you? I forgive you this time. "Because of her words, I understand what tolerance is.
"One foot crushed the violet, but left the fragrance on the heel. This is tolerance. " Andrew matheus said this in The Heart of Tolerance.
Tolerance can make us understand the truth; Tolerance can make us think calmly; Tolerance can make our dreams come true. ...
So we should learn to be tolerant and let others turn us into tolerant people.
Learn tolerance 7 poet Hugo once said: "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky." Indeed, tolerance is very important. Learning to be tolerant of others is learning to be kind to yourself.
Tolerance is a kind of understanding, a kind of respect, and tolerance is a kind of generosity, which can be selfless, fearless, dust-free and pollution-free.
I remember one recess, I was doing my homework with Xiaoming, my deskmate. We wrote carefully without any interference. Just then, Xiaogang, who was cleaning, passed by me and accidentally dropped a few drops of water on my exercise book, which was wet. I immediately flew into a rage and shouted, "What's the matter with you? You got my book wet! You pay me! " As I spoke angrily, I wiped the wet place on the book with a napkin. But when I was wiping, I accidentally met Xiao Ming, and he also left a "close contact" with water in his notebook. I thought in horror: Xiaoming won't scold me, will he? Isn't that my shame? Alas! What to do! I thought and explained in a panic: "I'm sorry, I'm sorry, I accidentally hit it!" " "Xiao Ming said without thinking," It doesn't matter, this little thing is nothing! It doesn't matter! Students should be generous, so that friendship will last forever! "Hearing this, I felt extremely ashamed and quickly turned to apologize to Xiaogang:" Xiaogang, I'm sorry! I really shouldn't have been angry with you just now. I sincerely apologize to you! " "It doesn't matter, we can't care about this little thing! "
Tolerance is a line that defines the basic bottom line of your life; Tolerance is a beam of light, reflecting a person's good self-cultivation; Tolerance is the bridge that supports you to overcome difficulties and succeed. May the flower of tolerance bloom in our hearts forever!
Learn tolerance. Forgiving others is also being kind to yourself. As long as we learn to be tolerant, the world will be better. People will live in harmony, no quarrel, no resentment. We should learn to be tolerant.
I experienced it once. That time, I lost a good friend because I couldn't tolerate others. One day, just after the third class, my pencil disappeared. Then I found the little dragon in front holding my pencil. I didn't care. I went up and said, "you thief, take my pencil away." Now people have stolen it. What do you have to say! " ! "He quickly went up to him and explained," I just found this. Who said I stole it! "I thought to myself: Even if you take my pencil, you are still so arrogant. You must have stolen my pencil on purpose. I quarreled with him again and finally had a big fight. As a result, this incident not only made me criticized by my teacher, but also made me lose a good friend, which was really wrong. If I don't want to get back at him, but tolerate him, when this never happened, I wouldn't be criticized by my teacher and lost a good friend.
There is a line in Shakespeare's famous play The Merchant of Venice: "Tolerance is like a drizzle in the sky, nourishing the earth. It blesses those who are tolerant We should learn to tolerate others ... "
In our life, it is inevitable to have friction with classmates and teachers. When we disagree with our classmates, sometimes we quarrel. At this time, we should calm down and think about it. A celebrity in Qing dynasty said: "His truth is that I am right and wrong, so I will let it go;" Whether he is right or wrong is my reason that I will tolerate it. "Don't be opinionated, be good at listening to other people's opinions, so as to avoid.
A necessary quarrel. Friendship will bloom undefeated. When the teacher is wrong about you, there is no need to argue with the teacher excitedly about right and wrong. Talk to the teacher sincerely and understand that the ultimate goal of the teacher is for your own good. The relationship between teachers and students will last forever. Life is bound to be bumpy. If you want to live a relaxed and happy life, you must learn to be tolerant. If you want to learn tolerance, you must first understand. Tolerance is the expression of understanding. Only by understanding others can we tolerate others.
Learn to tolerate. Tolerance is an antipyretic, an anti-skid oil, the secret of success, and the fountain of friends.
In life, it is inevitable to get angry and angry because of some trivial things. At this moment, if you smile and let go, then at this moment, tolerance is an antipyretic; Tolerance is also a happy pistachio. I once accidentally read a story: a mother took her five-year-old son to climb the mountain, but she didn't bring anything. His five-year-old son is carrying a small bag on his shoulder. When he climbed halfway up the mountain, his mother asked him a question: "You have two apples on you. We climbed to the top of the mountain. What would you do with them if we were all thirsty? "
The son replied, "I'll take a bite of both first." When the mother heard this answer, her face was clouded at once, but instead of reprimanding her son immediately, she suppressed her dissatisfaction and asked gently, "Why?" The son shook his head and said, "I want to taste which is sweeter. I want to give the sweetest to my mother!" " "
After listening to her son's answer, the mother smiled with relief, and then he hugged her son and shed tears of emotion.
I am proud that this mother has such a lovely son, and I am glad that her son has such a generous mother.
In fact, many things can be laughed off! Think about it, if the mother didn't ask another "why", my son wouldn't have a chance to answer this "why?" So what will happen? The mother scolded her son, who cried bitterly. From then on, the mother was disappointed with her son, and his son was lost because of it, and finally ended in "tragedy" ...
Tolerance can really avoid many unnecessary things!
Society is a school, and life is our mentor. We learn to be tolerant when others hurt us.
Tolerance will make tomorrow sunny, dark and bright, make the cold winter as warm as summer, give others more tolerance, that is, let yourself avoid more harm!
Look up at the sky and feel the beauty of nature!
Learn to be tolerant 10 "Take a step back and broaden the horizon." Tolerance is a good medicine and the most precious quality that everyone should learn.
I remember once, I had a good time with the front table. Who knows, accidentally hit the back table. The cup on the table fell to the ground with a click, and the cup broke and the tea was wet all over the floor. Glass fragments are particularly dazzling in the sun.
I was scared to death, and the back table shouted, "Oh, my God! My new cup! "
I retorted, "It was my carelessness. In addition, the cup should not be placed on the table. "
Hearing this at the back table, I was tearing my hair out. We don't talk to anyone anymore.
I didn't turn around and talk to her all afternoon. We are like a pair of strangers. I looked at the pouring rain outside the window and thought, it's over. Today I use the back table to sweep the floor. I didn't bring my rain gear, and no one answered it at home. what can I do to help?
I have a lot on my mind, and there seems to be a big stone hanging in my heart. Alas, I can only resign myself to fate! what can I do?
I pretended not to see anyone playing with my back table. One afternoon, I was a lonely goose, and no one asked me to play or said a word to anyone.
When it's time to sweep the floor, I look at the table behind me while sweeping the floor. Usually the back desk reminds me, but now-she keeps her distance from me and doesn't even look at me. I thought to myself: cut, just ignore me. Why are you so indifferent?
After sweeping the floor, it's still raining, and the back table and I are still in a cold war. I want to go home with her. But seeing her cold face, I gave up the idea.
Seeing the pouring rain outside the window, my heart is cold. Who knows, a voice came from the back table: "Let me spell an umbrella with you. It was my negligence to forget to put the cup behind in the morning. "
My heart tightened and relaxed, thinking: the students at the back table are so tolerant, and I, the person who broke her cup, still care about this. You really shouldn't. I said, "I'm sorry, I was careless." I'll give you a drink tomorrow. "
We talked and laughed under the umbrella. Although it is cold, my heart is warm.
The clouds in the sky are so beautiful, whether beautiful or ugly, you have to broaden your horizons with an open mind.
Learn to be tolerant 1 1 "The ocean is always blue and boundless, and the sky is wider than the ocean. However, what is broader than the sky is the human heart ... "Every time I think of this little bit that has become a classic quotation, my heart is full of mixed feelings and I am extremely excited.
A broad heart, which everyone has, is just buried deep in our hearts, waiting for us to find it. I found it not long ago.
Tomorrow is Sunday. I will get together with some childhood friends and discuss one topic after another. Just then, I don't know who suddenly said, "Shall we talk about Xiao Nan?" This sentence should not be underestimated. So, everyone said their own things, and I discussed them word by word.
At this moment, someone suddenly said to me, "What do you think of Xiao Nan?" I said, "He's ... He's ... Okay. It's just ... it's just a little cold and arrogant. " My words aroused everyone's appetite. So, guys, once again, you're talking about it. It's not good to say peony, it's not good. I think: We had such a heated discussion that we joined them. ...
Just as the discussion was heating up, Kobayashi suddenly said to me, "You'd better stop playing with Xiao Nan. He often speaks ill of you behind your back, and it's ugly! " "oh? Really? " I smiled. Actually, Xiao Nan and I are very good friends. After listening to Xiao Lin's words, I was furious and wanted to kick him. Because I am very kind to him, but he ...
The next day, I met Xiao Nan, and I really wanted to kick him. However, to my surprise, he gave me a kind smile first. A smile seems magical, and I am fixed there. I smiled awkwardly.
At this time, I suddenly climbed out of the terrible. Because I know that it is inevitable that he will speak ill of me. Didn't I speak ill of him yesterday?
Then, a clear spring flows through my heart and opens the door to tolerance. ...
Learn to be tolerant 12 Happiness is something we all have. Everyone may think that happiness means having good living conditions and good clothes ... and I want to say that happiness means tolerance.
We should be tolerant in life. Tolerance is a quality, a sentiment and a virtue. Tolerance is not cowardice and timidity, but generosity and tolerance, and it is a hearty smile to the situation.
A tolerant person is a healthy and optimistic person. Zhang Sanfeng, the great master in Jin Yong's works, laughed at the changes in Wulin with a broad mind, forgave the mistakes of the younger generation, and made countless people who had gone astray turn over a new leaf. Because of tolerance, he was not angry and healthy physically and mentally. In his sixties, he also created a Juexue ... Taiji Chuan. The style of Taiji biography is refined and gentle, but not vicious, which is a portrayal of Zhang Sanfeng's life.
Tolerance can not only make your mind quiet, but also give others a spiritual comfort. Due to the meritorious escort, Lin Xiangru's official position rose all the way, which caused Lian Po's jealousy and dissatisfaction. In the face of Lian Po's unreasonable behavior, Lin Xiangru laughed it off, which resulted in a much-told story of "offering a humble apology". From then on, Lian Lin joined hands and defended the great country of Zhao. Tolerant people have many benefits for themselves, and tolerant people will certainly gain the trust and support of colleagues and friends.
On the other hand, narrow-minded people talk endlessly when they encounter small setbacks, complaining about this and that, even if they have great skills, it is difficult to achieve anything. Zhou Yu of Soochow is an excellent strategist. He managed the huge Soochow Navy in good order and was a rare general. However, he was naturally jealous of Zhuge Liang's clever plan. Although he knew he was inferior to him, he didn't dare to lose. After sighing sadly, he vomited blood and died.
Be a tolerant person and benefit others and society. The world of life is so vast that we don't need to waste time and life because of mutual friction. The sky is big, and what is bigger than the sky is the human heart. Tolerance and generosity will make our life more exciting, harmonious and happy.
Learn to be tolerant 13 When I was a child, my father told me how to be a man and taught me how to be tolerant. Tolerance is like a seedling, rooted in my heart.
I have been in primary school for six years and made many good friends. After graduation, everyone vowed that middle schools should be divided into one class, "share weal and woe". It's a pity that my good friend was assigned to another class. Even so, we firmly believe that "time will not dilute friendship." After school, we go home together every day, ride bicycles on the road and sing Emil Wakin Chau's friends. Life at that time was really happy. I thought those days would last forever. ...
My friend doesn't play with me for some reason. Every time I ask her to go home with me, she finds an excuse to refuse. Our pledge of friendship has been diluted by time, and no one has said a word. Good friendship is like a cut silk thread. When I got home, my careful father asked me what happened. My tears came first. I still can't help myself. I leaned on my father's shoulder and burst into tears. After listening to my crying, my father touched me and told me, "Go to that girl, ask the reason clearly, don't be too impulsive, and remember what my father often tells you." My father's words touched my heart that has been filled with grievances.
On weekends, no matter what she said, I hugged her tightly and went to the river where we often played. The willows by the river are still green, and the water in the river is still rushing. What a familiar feeling!
That time, I smiled and asked the questions I had hidden for a long time. I didn't expect her to answer all my questions with a smile. Is it my illusion? I was calm that time, and so was she. Maybe this is what my father called tolerance. From then on, I forgave her from the bottom of my heart. Tolerance needs to be forgotten. Restraint and tolerance is not true tolerance. It can't get rid of emotional pus and heal emotional trauma. Only that kind of understanding that doesn't remember or investigate is true tolerance, isn't it?
Learn to be tolerant 14 Be tolerant of others and be kind to yourself.
Tolerance is the basis of determining a person's personality and moral character. Without tolerance, one cannot say that one is polite and polite.
However, these are all things that I learned later.
There is a little sister living opposite my building. She is a child still in kindergarten. She is cute, but a little unreasonable. I just know that children are like this, and so am I when I was a child.
One starry night, my little sister was taken to my house by her mother to play. I was doing my homework, but a loud noise completely broke my mind. I opened the door and saw my beloved glass broken into pieces and fell to the ground. Looking up, it was a frightened little sister. My heart suddenly got angry and I became more and more dissatisfied with my little sister.
"What are you doing!" I frowned and shouted fiercely. My little sister looked at me innocently, but she cried with a "wow" and jumped on my aunt.
My little sister immediately changed from crying loudly to sobbing quietly, and my mother couldn't sit still. She immediately stopped her aunt's next growl and comforted her.
I closed the door carefully and listened carefully to what was going on outside. I was afraid to go out.
Fortunately, the next thing I heard was a heavy door closing. I'm relieved.
Suddenly, the door of my room was opened. I looked up and saw a serious mother. My mother won't be angry if my heart is tight, will she?
"Do you think you did the right thing tonight?" My mother didn't lecture me, but asked me seriously.
"No." I looked down. My little sister is not even in primary school. Everyone is curious. Who hasn't made a mistake? It's just a cup, but I am too stingy to let my aunt severely criticize my little sister!
Mother didn't say anything, just smiled knowingly and went out.
From then on, I suddenly understood that I should let go of my child at any time, otherwise it would cause irreparable consequences. Learn to be kind to others, lower your requirements for others, and don't be a "high-minded" child.
Learn to be tolerant 15 Before I went to participate in the training activities for young male teachers organized by the Red Eagle Development Center, I participated in the military training organized by the school in the first grade.
I understood the importance of discipline in the military training of Grade One in junior high school, but during the three-day outward bound training, the instructor made me understand life much more than during a week of military training. In just three days, the instructor made us understand that unity is strength and time is precious. Players should help each other, understand each other and learn to tolerate and forgive.
In many activities, we should learn to do it by hand, such as making a raft. The raft was made by ourselves, and the two were combined into a group. Every member should give full play to his wisdom and practical potential. If everyone is not United, then the raft will not be complete, and everyone will die together when launching. This is exactly what the tutor said: no pains, no gains. As long as you pay, you will get the corresponding reward.
I believe that what everyone remembers most is the activity of "walking blindfolded", which is to test everyone's communication potential and trust among players. Although everyone verbally says that they trust their players, they are actually a little afraid that they will fall and hit something. When walking, it is inevitable that some players will fall and hit the tree, and some instructors will say the wrong direction to make the players go the wrong way, but they have learned to tolerate others, so they will not blame the instructors.
When eating, the instructor doesn't talk to us. If you talk, you are not hungry. If the chair rings, it means that you are not tired. You should eat standing up. When we don't respect the teacher, the instructor will tell us the truth and let us know that this is wrong. The instructor also told us some short stories, which made us understand that our life at the moment is much better and happier than those children in mountainous areas who have no clothes to wear and no books to read. This was given to me by the instructor.