1, returns the life process.
It is unimaginable that the Colosseum in ancient Rome needs to be rebuilt, the ancient city of Pompeii needs to be rebuilt, the Angkor Wat in Cambodia needs to be rebuilt, and the Mayan cultural sites need to be rebuilt. It's like we can't imagine that the ancient bronzes in the distance need polishing, the unearthed halberds need nickel plating, the books in the Song Dynasty need plastic surgery, and the old lady in the Han Dynasty in Mawangdui needs skin grafting, breast enhancement and heavy makeup. As long as history does not stop and time does not go backwards, everything will age. When you are old, give the world a kind of beauty peacefully. Pretending to be naive is the cruelest form of self-abuse. Grandma without wrinkles is terrible, and old people without white hair are sorry; Life without ruins is too tiring, the land without ruins is too crowded, and the act of covering up the ruins is too deceptive.
Let history return to reality and life return to the process.
-This is the great wisdom of mankind. Of course, not all the remains are worth preserving, otherwise the earth will be scarred. Ruins are messengers sent from ancient times to modern people and have been criticized and screened by history. Ruins are feats launched by our ancestors, which condensed the strength and essence of that era. Ruins are a magnetic field, extremely ancient and modern, and the compass of the mind is strongly felt here. If you lose magnetism, you will lose the life of the ruins and will soon be eliminated.
Step 2 be in awe
In this world, some people believe in God and some don't, so they are divided into theists and atheists, religious people and non-religious people. However, this difference is not very important. There is a much more important distinction than this, that is, some people believe in holiness, while others don't. The distinction between people is noble and despicable.
One can not believe in God, but one cannot but believe in holiness. Whether to believe in God, Buddha, God or other mysterious forces that dominate the universe often depends on national traditions, cultural background and personal special experience, and even depends on some mysterious experience of individuals, which is reluctant. A person without these religious beliefs may still be a kind person. However, if you don't believe in any sacred value in the world, everything is forgiven and you do whatever you want. Such a person is no different from an animal.
People who believe in the sacred are in awe. In his mind, there are always some things that are fundamental to being a man and cannot be profaned. He is not afraid of being punished, but refuses to lose his basic personality. No matter how eager he is for life, he always understands that once his personality is swept away, he loses his confidence and dignity in front of himself, so the satisfaction of all his desires cannot save his completely failed life.
On the contrary, people who don't know fear never reflect on themselves in personality. If it is said that "shame is almost brave", then such people will show a cowardly licentiousness because they are shameless. As long as he is not punished, he dares to trample on anything beautiful, including love, friendship and honor, and he has no anxiety in his heart. Such a person, despite more affairs, has no ability to really love once; No matter how many buddies you make, you can't appreciate the purity of friendship; No matter how much fame you get, you don't know what glory is. People who don't believe in the sacred will be abandoned by all the sacred things in the world.
God only knows half.
From the moment you were born, you were destined to go back. The twists and turns in the middle, smooth and happy, are all your destiny. Fate is always with you all the time. Don't be afraid of its mystery, although it is sometimes unfathomable; Don't be afraid of its impermanence, although sometimes it comes and goes without a trace.
Don't bow to fate because it is grotesque and be at its mercy. When you are old and look back, you will find that half of your destiny is in your hands, and only the other half is in God's hands. Your life is to use what you have in your hand to get what God has.
The more extraordinary your efforts are, the bigger your half will be, and the more you will gain. When you are completely desperate, don't forget that you own half of your destiny; When you get carried away, don't forget that God still has half his destiny. Your life's effort is: use your own half to get the half in God's hand. This is the arrangement of fate; This is the fate of life.
Step 4 be at ease
Life is a person's own non-transferable patent.
The process of life is the process of time consumption. In the face of time, the greatest man has no power to reverse; We can't buy or sell; We must choose and use.
Therefore, cherishing life means cherishing time and making full use of it. Because of this strong consciousness, I am spending myself more and more miserly.
I try to choose a relaxed lifestyle, so I advocate and create light poems. When I say light, I don't just mean dancing school and pleasure, but I pursue spiritual relaxation and freedom, a self-relaxing life. And this feeling will lead to a more humane and chic behavior choice. A person's own life is very tired, which will make people around him and society feel very tired. If I can benefit others and groups, it is because I can release this relaxed atmosphere and make others feel happy when they meet me (no matter how short).
Only by relaxing can people live a life full of flavor and make the whole world harmonious. You can't treat evil with evil.
For our descendants of the Yellow Land, the ancient civilization and long history have made us bear heavy enough, and the complicated reality and interpersonal relationship have also made us tired enough.
I am willing to put light on weight and light on fatigue. For myself, whether in prosperity or adversity, I can find myself relaxed, not tired of fame and fortune, nor suffering from adversity. For the surrounding groups, when I appear in front of them, I can bring them the relaxation they need, thus increasing or alleviating the joy and pain in their lives.
Of course, this is also my wish in a very narrow world. I'm trapped by society and secularism, and I know-
Pursuing a relaxed lifestyle may pay a heavy price at some time and in some aspects.
5. Want to study
Often miss some people for no reason.
When I think of some people, I always feel that my life has been cut into segments, and each segment is connected with some people. Without these people, life seems pale and poor, and there is no landing. But not only friends, people who are not friends, but even some people who hate them will often think of them, so life can be broken down into this: the people you love are separated; Some people you hate are separated; Some are separated by people you don't care about love or hate. Your life has been broken by these three people. You miss them for a long time, so you think your life is really full.
The faint thoughts are unknown, with the emotional color of the past, or love or hate, or thick or light or long or short. When I miss someone, I feel some inexplicable tremors in my heart, looming, trying to hold on tight, but fleeting.
When you miss those who slip through your life, all your love and hate are covered with a faint aura. Through the halo, you can see them again, and love and hate turn into a profound comfort to experience life.
6, don't need too much
I went to the flower shop that day. He noticed my love for yellow roses and gave me a bouquet the next day.
But somehow, I always think of the flowers in the flower shop window, and I always feel that this bunch is not as beautiful as that one.
One day, I asked him wittily, "Do you really love me?" In fact, as long as he said the word "love", I would be satisfied, but he not only said "love", but also said many reasons for love. Listen, listen, I'm absent-minded
There's no need to go too far! Sometimes people really don't have to get or hear a lot. A flower, a green leaf, a knowing smile, a ray of tenderness, a little sincerity, a caring greeting and a sympathetic regret can all make us like fragrant teas and sweet drinks.
As long as a pair of warm hands reach out to me when I am physically and mentally overdrawn, I can get out of trouble with this arm;
As long as I have an understanding friend around me when I am upset, I can spit out all my thoughts and seek spiritual relaxation;
As long as there is a faint sunset on the horizon when I am depressed, it can illuminate my confused eyes. As long as you don't want too much-for friends, for love, and especially for life. Do you remember? How intently we used to design a bright future, and how attentively we used to paint a colorful future. However, although we are so stubborn, so pious and so tenacious, life has appeared in a different face that we did not expect at all.
Don't think too much! As long as we are serious, live every moment seriously.
7. Happy Chai Men
If the door to happiness is a magnificent door, we have no reason to stop; But what if the door to happiness is a simple and shabby Chai Men? We walked along with longing for happiness, longing and tireless pursuit, with sweat, scars and dust all the way. The vicissitudes of life have not been washed, the tears have not been wiped, and it is by no means a happy dream to stare at Chai Men. Will the fiery heart suddenly cool down? Will disappointment cover the whole body?
I will never take back my knocking hand. Years have changed, joys and sorrows are intertwined, and fate is ups and downs, which makes me deeply understand what is the most cherished wealth in life. As long as happiness lives in it, what about humble Chai Men and humble huts! A happy smile will never lose its brilliant light because of its status. I walked through the desert of mountains and rivers, groping for happiness itself, not the golden urn in front of the happiness seat and the treasure stick in my hand. Happiness is more precious than gold, which is what life has taught me.
8. fate
Sometimes, just one or two steps can change a person's life. This is destiny.
Many times, I always think that if I hadn't chosen this road at that time, the outcome would often be very different. Yes, we lost a lot, but we also gained a lot! Like life and death, gain and loss are always twin brothers. When we lose one thing, it also means another kind of possession.
This is destiny. At some point one day, I wandered out of the door and came under a tree. Just then, a gust of wind blew, and a fallen leaf floated, which led to a poem. Everything is natural. Just like the "Zen" of Buddhism, you can't think about it.
This is destiny. Many years ago, I passed by an unknown town and went to a hotel at random. The host's appearance is usually forgotten, but he treats people well. I slept soundly that night, and at dawn the next day, I took the bus on my way. Maybe I will never go to that small town or see the shopkeeper again in my life, but those incomplete memories about the lights, the town, the hotel and the shopkeeper constitute the biggest imagination space in my life.
This is destiny. The girlfriend who has been in love for a long time suddenly broke up for a simple reason: there is no chance in this life. I'm relieved. In such a big world, there will always be a girl who loves herself and a love of her own. What else can we force?
This is destiny. Wrong, joys and sorrows, constitute our life. While losing, we often gain a lot invisibly. Because it is hard to come by, we should cherish it. There is nothing to complain about in this world. Because this is fate!
9. Be quiet
I believe that our inner peace and happiness lies not in where we are, what we have, or who we are, but only in our inner realm. Here, external factors have little to do with this.
About 300 years ago, when Milton was blind, he discovered this truth: "Thought and the application of thought itself can turn hell into heaven or heaven into hell."
Napoleon and Helen? For example, Keller's life can prove how correct Milton's words are: Napoleon has everything that ordinary people dream of-glory, power, wealth and so on. But he said to Santa Helena, "I have never been happy for a day in my life." Where is Helen? Keller was blind, deaf and dumb, but she said, "How wonderful life is!" " "
I lived in my fifties. If you ask me what I have learned in my life, then my answer is: "No one and nothing can bring you peace except yourself."
10, three elements of happiness
There are three indispensable factors for a happy life: first, there is hope. Second, there is something to do. The third is being able to love others.
There is hope. Alexander the Great once gave a big gift to show his generosity. He gave A a lot of money, a province to B and a senior official to C. His friend listened and said to him, "If you go on like this, you will be penniless." Alexander replied, "I will never be poor." I left myself the greatest gift. " All I have left is my hope. "If a person only lives in memories and loses hope, his life has already begun to end. Memories cannot inspire us to live vigorously. Memories can only make us escape, just like prisoners escaping from prison.
I have something to do as an old English lady. When she was seriously ill and knew that she was running out of time, she wrote the following poem: Don't pity me now, never pity me, I will never work again, ever, ever. Many people have been unemployed or have nothing to do and feel that life is slow and empty. Anyone who has had this experience will know that having a job is not misfortune, but a kind of happiness.
Can love others. The poet Bai Langning once wrote: "He looked at her and she smiled back, and life suddenly woke up." With the love in life, we will become radiant, humble and energetic, and new hopes will emerge, as if there are thousands of things waiting for us to complete in Qian Qian. With love, life has spring and the world has become colorful.
The perfect prayer should be: "Lord, please help me to have the strength to help others."
1 1, life and beauty
Really beautiful life, persistent pursuit of truth, goodness and beauty. It will not distort its image, change its smart lines, and will not contaminate its beautiful background with dust. Unless it is burned to ashes and turned into dust, a beautiful life is like a clean stream, which will never look back and run optimistically to the sea until the last drop.
Sometimes, it may be blocked by cold eyes; Sometimes, it may be ruthlessly stranded; What's more, it has not caught a glimpse of the beautiful and splendid starry sky at night, and has not quietly listened to the pure sound in the depths of the universe. It has been destroyed by unexpected vulgarity and sinister, and is heading for extinction.
Life is beautiful because in the process of its flesh and blood, a beautiful theme is always held high: beauty is eternal because in the inside story of life, the purest conscience and desire of human beings for the world are always flowing.
Therefore, beauty exists because of life, and life is eternal because of beauty. This is a unity for which even God prays.
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I long for it.
What do you crave? I often ask myself this question and sometimes I get tongue-tied. The joys and pains of the world evaporate on the earth, condense into clouds in the sky of the soul, or shed showers or pour snowstorms. This sweet and bitter water is sucked by the root of the soul, giving birth to a desire, just like the root of a tree, stretching its branches, sticking out of the ground and reaching into the sky to spy out a world that has never been seen in the soil and pursue the green leaves, flowers and fruits that contain the secrets of the future.
Is this a desirable role? -Yes. Yearning for and living together. Desire is a form of life. I have missed Ganxin countless times, and each petal changes with the time sequence of missing, sprouting-falling, falling-sprouting. So, I continue to yearn for it.
I know that if there is no yearning for life, it is lifeless, equal to stillbirth, equal to premature aging, equal to withering, whether it is a tree or a person.
13, don't hurt yourself.
As long as we devote ourselves to life, we will inevitably encounter some injuries from the outside world. With more experience, you will naturally be wary. However, we often don't realize that there is a kind of harm that comes not from the outside, but from ourselves: for a small position, a meager bonus, and even for some gossip of others, we are all worried, angry, seriously concerned and entangled. Once for a long time, our hearts are riddled with torture, and we lose love for the world and life.
If we can not be influenced by a little utility, we will be much more calm, we will be able to face all kinds of honors and sorrows, and we will be able to hold a beautiful understanding and persistent pursuit of life forever. This is a kind of cultivation, a kind of personality temperament smelting, which makes people's minds tend to be broad and their horizons become far-reaching. Then, on the journey of life, we can walk calmly, even if we encounter difficulties and setbacks.
It is precisely because those gains and losses of honor and disgrace and various difficulties can't hurt us that we have reduced a lot of helplessness and sadness and lived a happier life; Less shadows, more gorgeous colors. Therefore, if you don't hurt yourself, you will cherish yourself and cherish life.
Don't hurt yourself, which also means that we need to give up some small and immediate interests actively, so that we won't be entangled in these things, and we will be scarred and hinder our steps. This is undoubtedly a detachment in a positive sense, which allows me to have a peaceful mind, take my own road calmly, do the great things I should do, and then go to success and get more and more valuable things. It may be said that not hurting yourself is a clever way to make yourself achieve something. Really, when walking on the difficult journey of life, we might as well tell ourselves at all times: don't hurt ourselves.
14, promise yourself
Promise yourself that you will be strong, and nothing can disturb your inner peace; Talking to everyone you meet is healthy, happy and comfortable; Let all your friends feel that they have their own strengths; Everything can see its bright side, so that your optimistic creed can be fulfilled everywhere; I only want the happiest things and the happiest ending; Cheer for the success of others, just like cheering for your own success; Forget the mistakes you have made and strive for greater achievements in the future without hesitation; I will always wear a cheerful appearance and send a cheerful smile to every creature I meet; I will be too busy perfecting myself to find fault with others; Will be too open-minded to worry; Will be noble enough not to be angry; Will be too tough and fearless; Will hold a grudge for being too happy.
15, the juice of life
Everyone has a glass of water in front of them.
That is the real water from the mountain spring, which contains the sincerity of the mountain, the passion of the spring and the purity of the sky.
Water is the juice of our life. Many times, for all kinds of desires and requirements, we mix all kinds of messy impurities into our own cup of raw juice to make ourselves conform to other people's tastes. Many times, even when we are not eager and unconscious, a pair of sacred and kind hands will hold us slightly, examine, smack, shake our heads and sip. Finally, they grabbed something from their open hearts and put it in our cups. Then pay attention. Then quietly suck it up and put it down. Then walk away sighing. Or, leave with a smile.
However, we are numb and call the former "adaptation". But pious people call the latter "shaping". The original pure and true life has to be alienated and distorted in this artificial adaptation and shaping. At this moment, when we shed our heavy camouflage and look at ourselves with the big mirror of nature under the cool breeze and bright moon, there is only one taste in our hearts: bitterness. How long can a life in disguise last? How far can a lonely life go?
I came here alive without any shyness. Like blue sky and white clouds, sunny days and breezes, you often let the sunny days and breezes bathe your youth, and you often let the blue sky and white clouds wipe your mind; I hate haze. I always tear it up and throw it behind my head. I always crush the rain and throw it under my feet. Like is like, hate is hate, right or wrong is my real choice! Tired, just shed a sad tear and sing a sad rest. Don't let others call you weak. Dance hard when you are happy, and then you will be crazy. Don't worry about people saying that you are immature-I am an ordinary person with a normal heart.
Only then will the world be restored to its original appearance, human beings will awaken intoxicated memories and life will be full of vitality!
Sip the juice of your life! Let me, you and him.
16, friends
A friend means that you can extend another warm hand, feel the light of love when you are helpless, and get peace and comfort of mind when you are anxious and lonely. Friends are brothers, sisters, companions and intimate friends, so should the ideal relationship between husband and wife (intimacy, protecting each other's loneliness). It seems that Eve and Adam are the archetypes of the earliest friends of mankind, and it is according to this example that God inspires the world and designs the future of mankind. The so-called flesh and blood is not only for the relationship between men and women, but also for the ideal friends: Boya broke the piano after Zhong Ziqi's death, Theo died a few months after Van Gogh's suicide, and Luo Yihe also broke the piano shortly after Haizi's martyrdom. A friend is the kind of person whose soul is connected with each other. The word "friend" in Chinese characters is quite meaningful. We can understand that two moons are sitting in the sky, taking care of each other and illuminating each other. Endless light is the link and bridge connecting each other! The long journey of life is full of sadness and loneliness. People who have no friends are people who live in darkness, and people who have no friends are real orphans.