2, don't bribe children, let children know the relationship between rights and obligations from an early age, and they can't enjoy rights without obligations.
3. Don't get too close to children. Children should be encouraged to live, study and play with people of the same age, so as to learn how to get along with others.
Don't force children to do things they can't do. Children's self-confidence is mostly cultivated by success. Forcing them to do what they can't do will only hurt their self-confidence.
5. Don't be too strict, demanding or even abusive to children. These practices can easily lead to unhealthy psychology such as inferiority, timidity and evasion, or lead to abnormal behaviors such as resistance, cruelty, lying and running away from home.
6. Don't cheat and frighten children unnecessarily. Scaring children will lose the authority of parents in their children's minds, and children will not listen to all warnings in the future.
7. Don't criticize or laugh at your children in front of your friends. This will make your child feel disgusted and shy, which will greatly damage your child's self-esteem.
8. Don't praise children too much. If your child has achieved something, you can give him a little praise. Excessive praise will make children infected with the bad psychology of fishing for fame. In addition, praise must be targeted at specific things, let children know their own advantages, and feel that your praise is sincere, not empty and deceptive.
9. Don't be moody with children. If parents treat their children with unstable emotions, children will be at a loss, become sensitive and suspicious, emotionally unstable and timid.
10, don't turn a blind eye to children's difficulties, but help them analyze their current difficulties and teach them how to analyze and solve problems. Help children solve difficulties, not replace them.