My colleague married his wife, lived a healthy life, and didn't deliberately prepare for pregnancy, but she got pregnant in the first month of marriage, and now she has a baby and is very healthy. Therefore, if couples live a healthy life, there is no need to deliberately prepare for pregnancy, which will make them nervous and stressed.
If both husband and wife have bad habits, such as smoking, drinking and staying up late, there may be differences between pregnant children and non-pregnant children, because smoking, drinking and staying up late are not good for the development of embryos and fetuses, which may lead to abnormal children. Therefore, if both husband and wife have bad habits, it is safer to quit these bad habits first and then prepare for pregnancy.
We definitely want to have a healthy baby when giving birth, so it is best to give up bad habits before giving birth and ensure the baby's health as much as possible.
For pregnancy preparation, some people will say that I am not pregnant either, and the child born is also very healthy. For example, I grew up with nothing wrong with the physical examination hardware, but my spleen and stomach were not good and my digestion was not good. The more you grow up, the more serious you become. I went to see a Chinese doctor. She showed me a list and asked me if you had done the above questions (basically, eat cold drinks and drink less). I said no, my lifestyle is quite healthy. She asked you why you are so young and your spleen and kidney are so weak. The final conclusion is the tire belt. At the same time, she also reminded me that if my problem is not cured, it will also affect my baby. So is my husband. His father has a bad stomach, and neither does his stomach. The doctor says it's not really genetic. As long as your illness is under control for a period of time, and you want to have a baby during this period, there will be no problem with the baby. The so-called pregnancy preparation does not mean eating folic acid without contraception. When my husband and I were pregnant, we first took some Chinese medicine to recuperate, then checked before pregnancy and insisted on fitness and running. Avoid alcohol, tobacco, take-away, etc ... Now too many people start to protect their babies when they are pregnant, and there are still many fetal stops. In fact, it is necessary to find problems for both husband and wife. It is true that many people are fine without pregnant children, but we can't bet on the problems of a generation, especially those who are in poor health like me, but they can get pregnant smoothly during pregnancy without any problems, thanks to their pregnancy.
Children used to have no plans, but now it's different. Everyone began to pay attention to prenatal and postnatal care, hoping to give birth to a healthier and smarter child, so many young couples will be ready to get pregnant.
In fact, even if it is an unplanned pregnancy, as long as the husband and wife are healthy, have no bad habits, have a healthy diet, go to bed early and get up early, exercise regularly, and have no toxic environment or radiation effects, there is generally no big difference. However, this does not mean that there is no need for pregnancy preparation. The quality of the baby born after planned pregnancy preparation will be better and play a icing on the cake.
1. Get high quality sperm and eggs. If you plan to get pregnant, you will get high-quality sperm and eggs, get pregnant more easily, and cultivate an excellent fertilized egg, which is better and stronger.
① The growth cycle of the egg is about 80 days, and the sperm needs about 90 days. As long as the pregnancy time is not less than three months, better sperm and eggs can be produced in a planned way. Of course, it is necessary to practice during pregnancy.
Check your body in advance to see if it is suitable for pregnancy, so that you can know it early and treat it early. For example, it is not suitable for filling teeth and extracting teeth during pregnancy. Women who need this must deal with it in advance, otherwise dental discomfort during pregnancy will be quite troublesome.
And because during pregnancy, I quit smoking and drinking, have a balanced diet, and have a regular schedule. After this series of adjustments, my body is in the best condition and the quality of sperm and eggs will be improved.
③ Successfully avoid toxic environment. During pregnancy, both men and women will consciously stay away from toxic environment and radiation, and eliminate or reduce the use of drugs, which is very good for improving the quality of sperm and eggs.
④ The best childbearing age for women is 23-30 years old, and that for men is 25-35 years old. If it is not in the best reproductive age, it is necessary to improve the quality of sperm and eggs through pregnancy preparation.
If it is an unplanned pregnancy, there is no such thing as mentioned above, but even if sperm and eggs are not in the best condition, it does not mean that the fetus is unhealthy. Many pregnant mothers who were pregnant unexpectedly also gave birth to healthy and lovely children.
2. Reduce the deformity rate. Women need to take folic acid all the time during pregnancy. Taking folic acid can reduce neural tube malformation, that is, reduce the birth rate of deformed fetus. Generally, folic acid is taken three months before pregnancy, three months after pregnancy and one month after pregnancy, and 400 units are taken every day. Moreover, folic acid during pregnancy is very safe, and it is no problem to take it for a long time during pregnancy.
But if you get pregnant unexpectedly, you won't consciously take folic acid in advance. Although many pregnant mothers who didn't take folic acid also gave birth to normal and healthy children, if you don't take folic acid, it is an extra risk.
3. Provide a good living environment for fertilized eggs. During pregnancy, women's body is in a very good state because of planned physical exercise, healthy diet and regular work and rest time, which virtually provides a good living environment for fertilized eggs and is conducive to their growth and development.
4. Psychological satisfaction. Since everything goes according to the plan, I believe the result is satisfactory, and I am naturally in a good mood and good for the fetus, because in the early pregnancy, if the pregnant mother is depressed for a long time, it will easily lead to miscarriage.
If it is an unplanned pregnancy, pregnant mothers are prone to some anxiety, such as not taking folic acid on time before pregnancy, taking some cold medicine before knowing pregnancy, and drinking a little wine before knowing pregnancy. And I always worry that these things will have an impact on the fetus, which undoubtedly puts some pressure on the pregnant mother and affects her mood.
But there are also many pregnant mothers who are not pregnant or have not given birth to healthy and lovely babies for three months. Not being pregnant does not mean that the baby is not good, but pregnancy has many benefits. Don't underestimate these benefits, which have a great impact on the fetus. After all, not every couple is healthy. Therefore, it is suggested that the pregnancy preparation time is 3-6 months, giving sperm and eggs some time to create a baby with the highest configuration.
..... Now too many people start to protect their babies as soon as they get pregnant, and there are still many fetal stops. In fact, it is necessary to find problems for both husband and wife.
Pregnancy is just to keep yourself in the best condition and eat folic acid to prevent fetal malformation. However, if you are pregnant and not pregnant, you don't have to care too much about whether you are pregnant. You know, every child came by himself in a fierce competition, and every child is the best "swimming" champion.
It makes no difference. Let it be.
There is no difference, of course, provided that both husband and wife are in good health and have no history of alcohol, tobacco and drug abuse. The so-called pregnancy preparation means taking folic acid as soon as possible without taking contraceptive measures. There is no difference in other aspects.
It's actually quite understandable. In the past, expectant mothers rarely got pregnant, because there were no conditions, so everyone got pregnant without getting pregnant. But now the society is different and the cost of pregnancy preparation is not high, so most expectant mothers choose scientific pregnancy preparation. If they are not pregnant now, it is very likely that the child will "lose" at the starting line as soon as he is born! Because pregnancy and non-pregnancy will definitely cause differences in children's immunity and resistance.
In eugenics, reasonable and planned pregnancy preparation can often give birth to smart and healthy babies. Parents have no bad eating habits before pregnancy and live a normal life, which has many benefits for the future development of the fetus.
The bad routine and eating habits of unprepared parents during pregnancy will have an impact on the fetus, especially the situation of taking drugs before pregnancy, which must be paid attention to. Be sure to remedy it in time during pregnancy.
I think there is a difference. Pregnancy requires the joint efforts of both men and women. We plan to have a child this year. I really hope he can pay attention to it, pay attention to his diet and try to quit smoking. I hope to have a healthy baby this year.