When getting along with others, don't tell others what to do, and put your hands naturally and appropriately.
Don't play practical jokes on your friend, lest he be frightened and hurt.
Don't hum songs in front of others, and don't beat time with your hands or feet.
5. When you want to cough, sneeze, sigh or yawn, try to keep it secret and avoid making a loud noise; The correct way is to cover your face with a handkerchief or hand and turn to the empty side. Besides, don't talk to people when yawning.
6. Don't doze off when others are talking; Don't sit while others are standing; Don't talk when it's quiet; Don't go by yourself when others stop.
7. Don't undress in front of others, and don't go out disheveled.
8. When playing games or gathering together to keep warm, you should take the initiative to give way to the latecomers, and don't make a fuss on purpose.
9. Don't spit in the fireplace, don't bend over to keep warm, don't put your hands into the flames to keep warm, and don't put your feet on the fireplace, especially when there is food in front of the fireplace.
10. When sitting down, keep your feet steady, don't overlap your feet, and don't cross your legs.
1 1. Don't dangle to block people's sight, and don't chew your fingernails.
12. Don't shake your head, stamp your feet, shake your legs, roll your eyes, hold your eyebrows above each other, and don't crooked your mouth. Be careful not to spit in someone's face when you talk near him.
13. Don't catch lice and fleas in front of others; If you see stains or sputum on the ground, you should skillfully wipe it off with your feet; If you see something dirty on your partner's clothes, you should help him remove it. If you find someone removing dirt from your body, remember to thank you.
14. Don't turn your back on others when talking to them; Don't bump or lean against the table when others are reading or writing on it.
15. clean your nails, cut them short, and keep your hands and teeth clean, but don't pay too much attention to these things.
16. Don't bulge your cheeks, don't spit out your tongue, don't rub your hands, don't rub your beard, don't gesture with your lips, don't bite your lips, and be careful not to open your mouth too wide or close it too tightly, and be natural.
17. Don't flatter or tease those who don't like being teased.
18. Don't read letters, books or newspapers in social situations; If you really need to read letters, etc. , request permission to leave. Don't catch up with others when they are reading or writing, unless you are invited or have a chance to express your opinion. When others write letters, don't read them privately.
19. The facial expression should be cheerful, but in serious occasions, the expression should be solemn.
20. When you make a speech, your body posture and gestures should match it.
2 1. Don't blame others for their natural shortcomings, and don't feel glad for it.
22. Don't gloat over the misfortunes of others, even if they are your enemies.
23. It's natural to be gratified to see that crimes have been punished, but we should be sympathetic to the criminals who have been punished.
24. Don't laugh wildly when watching a public performance or exhibition.
25. Etiquette should not be cumbersome and should not be ignored when necessary.
26. When meeting people with status such as nobles, judges and priests, you should take off your hat to show your respect. When bowing, the radian of the body should follow the customs, which are different for people of different identities. For peers, don't always expect the other person to salute you first. However, taking off your hat when you don't need it seems to be done. The language of address and reply should conform to the usual habits.
27. It is impolite not to take off your hat when greeting people who are more important than yourself. Also, you can't take off your hat in a hurry, so that the other party can't put it on; After saluting, let the other person put on his hat first, and then put on his hat after the second invitation at most. What I want to explain here is that, according to the etiquette requirements, you should find your own seat before sitting, which is boring. Don't sit casually according to the regulations.
28. When you are sitting, if someone comes to talk to you, you should stand up, even if the other person is your subordinate. When you are a guest, you should be guided by his identity and status.
29. When you meet someone taller than you, stop; If you are at the door, you should take a step back; If it's face to face, you have to make way for him.
As far as most countries are concerned, the right position is a position of respect, so when walking with others, you should give the right position to the person you should respect and walk on the left. If you travel with three people, you should reserve the middle seat for the most respectable person among the three. If two people walk along the wall, let their partners walk against the wall and lean out by themselves.
3 1. Even if a person is older than others, or has higher status and achievements than others, he should show humility and courtesy. There should be no exceptions at home or anywhere. Of course. On the other hand. Don't be too humble, or just humble occasionally.
32. When receiving people with the same or slightly lower status at home, they should be invited to sit down: the invitee should politely decline first and sit down when invited for the second time. There is no need to be timid.
33. People with high status or holding public office are generally given priority in various occasions, but at the same time, if they are young, they should respect people who are equal to them in birth or other aspects, even if they do not hold public office.
34. When speaking, let the other person speak first, especially in the face of people with higher status than us. We should never grab words. It's polite.
In business or official conversation, your speech should be short and easy to understand.
36. Workers and people with low status should show respect and respect when dealing with nobles or other people with high status. The same is true of people in high positions. When dealing with people with low status, they should be friendly and polite, not arrogant.
37. When talking to someone in position, don't lean sideways, don't stare at the other person's face, don't get too close, and at least keep a step away.
38. When visiting a patient, if you don't know the condition, don't immediately act as a doctor to talk about it.
39. When writing or talking, give the other party a title or honorific title that suits you according to the identity of the other party and local customs.
40. When you disagree with your superiors, don't try to argue and win, just put forward your opinions with an open mind.
4 1. Don't pretend to be a "mentor" on the professional issues of friends or colleagues, which will make you look arrogant.
42. Proper manners should be maintained according to different people. It is ridiculous to adopt the same etiquette for country people and princes.
43. Don't show happiness in front of patients or unfortunate people, because that will only aggravate each other's pain.
44. When a person tries his best but fails to do a thing well, don't blame him for it.
45. When you comment or criticize someone, consider whether you should be in public or in private, or at other times. At this time, criticism will not be angry, but rather moderate and acceptable.
Whenever and wherever you are criticized, accept it gratefully. But if you are right, then don't refute it at that time, and find a convenient time and place afterwards to explain it to the critics.
47. Don't laugh at people, don't make jokes on important issues, don't make jokes that hurt people, and if you want to express your views on something, be witty and happy to avoid becoming a laughing stock.
48. When criticizing a shortcoming of others, you must get rid of it, because example is more important than words and deeds.
49. Don't use the language of condemnation to treat others, don't call names, and don't insult others.
50. Don't believe those slanders easily.
5 1. Clothes should not be sloppy, tattered and dirty. You should brush your clothes at least once a day and be careful not to get close to anything unclean.
52. Clothes should be dignified and generous, suitable for your temperament and personality. I'd rather keep the same style as my peers than pursue vanity. Win respect with gentleness and neatness anytime and anywhere.
53. Don't run around in the street, don't be too slow, don't open your mouth and don't wave your arms. Don't tilt your toes and don't look like you're dancing.
54. Don't show off like a peacock. Pay attention to your appearance everywhere: dress beautifully or not. Do the shoes fit? Socks are very particular. Are clothes fashionable?
Don't eat in the street, and don't eat in out-of-season houses.
If you cherish your reputation, make friends with people of good quality. It is better to be alone than to associate with bad people.
57. When walking in social situations, if you meet someone with higher status than you, you'd better be alone with him. First, extend your right hand to him until he also extends his hand. Don't turn away yet. When you want to turn around, let your face face him. If he is a man of great power, don't walk side by side with him and fall behind appropriately. In such a polite way, he can talk to you at will.
58. Don't talk to people with malice and jealousy. This is a meek and commendable character. Stay rational and calm in all emotional situations.
59. Never show any rude or unethical behavior in front of people who are lower than you.
60. Don't call your friends to pry into other people's privacy.
6 1. among solemn and knowledgeable people, don't make vulgar and frivolous moves, and don't show off difficult questions and topics; Don't jump to conclusions about things you don't know or are difficult to confirm, whether in front of your elders or among your peers.
62. Don't say sad things when you are happy or at the dinner table. Don't talk about things like death and injury. If someone else mentions this, change these topics if you can. Don't tell your dreams except to close friends.
Don't brag about your achievements and talents, let alone your wealth, virtue or origin.
64. Don't be funny when no one is in the mood. Don't laugh too loudly, and don't ignore the occasion. Don't laugh at other people's misfortunes, even if there is something ridiculous.
65. Whether joking or talking seriously, don't say hurtful things; Don't laugh at anyone, even if they give you such an opportunity.
66. Don't be willful, be friendly and humble. First, listen and answer politely. Don't think alone when talking to others.
67. Don't belittle others or overestimate others.
68. Don't go to social occasions that you are not familiar with, whether it will be popular or not. Don't give advice until someone asks you. If you want to make suggestions, try to be brief.
69. If two people are arguing, don't just intervene on one side. Take the side of most people on unimportant matters, don't stick to your own opinions.
70. Don't blame others for their shortcomings, because that's what parents, teachers and bosses have the right to do.
7 1. Don't stare at other people's scars or flaws, and don't ask questions. Don't tell the secrets between friends to others.
72. When interacting with people, don't speak dialects that others don't understand and jargon and slang in your circle. Serious problems should be taken seriously.
73. Think before you speak, pronounce accurately, don't speak too fast, and be clear.
74. When others are talking, listen attentively and don't disturb the audience. If his speech stops, don't try to give him advice or help without being asked, don't interrupt his speech, and don't reply immediately before he finishes.
75. When someone is talking, you come uninvited, and you realize that your arrival interrupted the conversation, you can apologize and politely ask the speaker to continue; When an important person comes while you are talking, you should repeat what you said to him before. This is a sign of education.
When you are talking, don't point your finger at the person you mentioned, and don't get too close to that person, especially his face.
77. Talk with people at the right time. Don't whisper in front of others.
78. Don't mess with people. When someone is praised for his bravery and other virtues, don't compare him with others.
79. Don't release news smartly when you don't know the truth. When talking about something you hear, the author's name is always an elusive secret because the author of the earliest version is not you.
80. When giving a speech or reading, don't be tedious unless you find that people are willing to listen.
8 1.？ Don't be curious about other people's private affairs. Don't get involved in other people's private conversations.
82.？ Don't promise what you can't do, but once you promise, you must keep your word.
When you decide to do something, don't be emotional, but use your judgment. On the other hand, the same is true of being a man.
84.？ When your boss is talking to others, don't listen, don't interrupt and don't laugh.
85.？ Don't talk casually among people taller than you before inviting you to speak. At this time, you should stand up straight, take off your hat and answer in short words.
86.？ In an argument, don't be too eager to convince everyone, and don't let everyone express their opinions casually. Obey the opinions of the majority, especially when they are the judges of arguments.
87. When listening to others, be serious and concentrate. Don't always object to what others say.
88.？ When you speak, avoid monotony, frequent digression and repetition of the same way of speaking.
89.？ Don't speak ill of people who are not present, because it's unfair.
90.？ Don't scratch, vomit, cough or smell when eating unless it is really necessary.
9 1.？ Don't be too cheerful when eating; Don't be greedy; Cut bread with a knife. Don't lean on the table, don't be picky about food.
92.？ Don't take salt when eating with others, and don't cut bread with your greasy knife.
93.？ It is appropriate to entertain people and make them full. But don't entertain people who are not welcome by the host without authorization.
94.？ If you soak bread in soup every time, you might as well put it directly in your mouth. If the broth is too hot, don't blow it, wait for it to cool down slowly.
95.？ Don't put bread in your mouth with a knife, don't spit fruit pie seeds on the plate, and don't throw things under the table.
96.？ It's impolite to bury your head in food. Keep your fingers clean. If it is dirty, wipe it with the tablecloth in your corner.
97. Don't take another bite before you completely swallow the food. Don't eat too much food in each bite. Don't gobble.
98.？ Don't drink water or drink when you are talking, don't talk with your mouth full, and don't look around when you are drinking.
99.？ Don't drink too slowly, don't rush. Wipe your lips before and after drinking. Don't gasp too loudly at any time, because it's not elegant.
100.？ Don't wipe your teeth with tablecloths and napkins, and don't pick your teeth with knives and forks. If someone wants to pick their teeth, the correct way is to prepare toothpicks.
10 1.？ Don't gargle in front of others.
102. Don't always invite others to dinner, and don't persuade others to drink every time.
103.？ When you eat with your elders, don't eat longer than them. You can put your hands on the table, but don't put your arms on the table.
104.？ When eating, only those who serve the table have the right to open their napkins first, but they should start in time and pay attention to giving people who eat slowly time to finish eating.
105. Whatever happens at the dinner table, don't get angry. If you really have reason to be angry, don't show it. But act happy, especially when strangers are present, because a good mood is the best dish at a party.
106. Don't sit at the top of the table when you are seated. But if you have to sit down, or the host invites you, don't shirk, so as not to embarrass others.
107. Show concern when others are talking at the dinner table, but don't talk if you have food in your mouth.
108. When you talk about God or his qualities, you should be serious and respectful. Respect parents and be filial to them. Even if they are poor.
109.？ Entertainment should be healthy and uplifting, not low-level and evil.
1 10. Try to let the flame named conscience burn in your chest.