Learn to focus:
In fact, many of us adults are easily distracted when doing things, and we need various tools to help us focus on the present. Today, with more and more temptations, it is obviously more and more important to learn to focus, which is not only beneficial to children's student career, but also to their working life in adulthood.
Guiding children to concentrate can start from five aspects: "body straight/eyes looking/ears listening/mouth closed/head thinking". Every time a child is distracted or crooked, he can be reminded that correct external posture can help him become focused.
(2) learn to be responsible for yourself:
Now many children are fed by adults, and toys are packed by adults, so there is no need to do any housework. You have to be stared at by your parents to do your homework at school. If they don't stare, the parent-child relationship will deteriorate and adults and children will be tired. From this perspective, it is really important to learn to be responsible for yourself.
Let the children learn to be responsible for themselves. What adults need to do is to let go and let the children eat by themselves. It doesn't matter if the ground is messy. It doesn't matter if the children do their own homework. Children are ashamed, and shame will make them take their things seriously.
(3) learn to respect:
We should respect not only people, but also the environment and animals. Nowadays, families are basically child-centered. If you don't learn to respect, it's easy to be xenophobic. No one likes a person who swears at every turn, but he will kiss those civilized and polite people. If he learns to respect from an early age, he will naturally win the favor of some strangers.