The happiest time is childhood. As parents, can we give our children a happy and meaningful childhood? How to be a good parent?
In my memory, when I was a child, I was so free and carefree, and my parents never forced us to study. There are jujube trees, pomegranate trees, Toona sinensis trees and Sophora japonica trees in our yard, and there is a big elm tree behind the yard. Every spring, I watch jujube and pomegranate trees blossom, and then there are many red dates on the trees. I can't tell you how happy I am. Sophora japonica blooms, tastes sweet and has a lot of money. It can be eaten raw or steamed with steamed bread. It is delicious.
It can be said that I didn't study hard from the age of six or seven until I graduated from primary school. At that time, I lived in a bungalow, and the children were very close. Usually after school, everyone will go to the hutong to play bungee jumping, grab stones and throw sandbags. I remember 1987, a big buttonwood tree was planted at home. Sycamore trees bloom in May. We picked up the buds of buttonwood and strung them together to play. Have fun, doze off in class, and get average grades. What you are most afraid of is that the Chinese teacher asks you to recite ancient poems or texts. If you can't recite, stay. Don't go home until you finish reciting it.
The yard is very big. My father likes growing flowers and my mother likes growing vegetables, so there are many flowers and vegetables in front of my house. My father's flowers include impatiens, chrysanthemums and other flowers. Impatiens are pink, purple and white. This summer, the yard is full of colorful flowers, which are really beautiful. In autumn, chrysanthemums are in full bloom, and clusters of chrysanthemums are in full bloom in the wind, some are just in bloom, and some are in bud.
In a word, the yard is thriving. At that time, although his academic performance was average, he was healthy, carefree and relaxed.
Parents should give their children time to play.
Because children's play is natural, play is the foundation of healthy growth. Children should not be allowed to study all the time, and they should attend various remedial classes. In this way, children have no time to play, they are always nervous, and they are easy to get tired of learning when they grow up.
We should create more conditions for children to play with them and get close to nature.
Today's children live in buildings from birth, rarely contact with nature, and it is easy to live in the virtual world of mobile phones and networks. On the contrary, taking children outdoors is good for their physical and mental development, and their physical strength after study and work is also sufficient. One disadvantage of living in a building is that there is no grounding gas and it is not close to nature. Therefore, taking children out for outdoor activities is good for physical and mental health. Many children have all kinds of psychological problems when they grow up. It's easy to trace back to the source. They can't find the joy of life, which is related to their self-isolation when they were young.