Improving social skills In China, most babies will go to kindergarten after they are 3 years old. At this moment, friends of the same age are gradually playing a very important role in their daily life. If children can be handed over to good friends in kindergarten, it will not only help children understand and cultivate various lifestyles, but also help their mental health.
In the meantime, parents should mainly improve their children's social skills. To shape a child's social skills, parents should first let him maintain a good image temperament, pay attention to his neat clothes and proper head shape. Secondly, parents can give their children simple interpersonal skills, such as teaching them to ask others friendly questions: "Can I play with you?" "Do you want to play mobile games with me?" .
In addition, parents should pay attention to teaching their children to correctly treat and handle social media differences. Don't use physical violence when you are in conflict with others; When you hurt others, you should sincerely apologize to them; When others admit their mistakes to themselves, they should learn to forgive their good friends and gradually improve their social skills effectively.
Shaping self-esteem and self-confidence In view of the rapid development of self-identity, children aged 3-6 will be very concerned about how they look in the eyes of others, and whether they are loved by others is of great significance to them. In this process, students' self-esteem and self-confidence will be gradually established, which will make his future development more smooth.
During this period, parents must always use incentives and be cautious in using accusations when educating their children. When a child succeeds in doing something, there must be no doubt about it and help her build self-confidence; But when he does something wrong, don't be sarcastic, in case his personal evaluation is lowered and his self-esteem and self-confidence are low.
In addition, children in this period can freely choose their own bodies to complete a certain posture, and the all-round development trend of this ability is conducive to his self-confidence, so parents can shape his baby's self-confidence by shaping his fitness and sports ability. Swimming and dancing are very good ways to shape children's physique and athletic ability, but parents need to pay attention to preparing more professional sporting goods for their babies in advance to prevent physical injury.
Establishing prescribed boundaries for the teaching of children aged 3-6, and another point that parents can't ignore is to "set rules" for their children. Limited by the development trend of logical thinking ability in this period, children can't fully understand various standards, and often do what you like. But during this period, he paid more attention to the authority of adults, so this period is also the best stage for children to establish standard boundaries.
In the process of teaching them, on the one hand, parents should promptly correct students' personal behaviors out of bounds, such as losing their temper, violent means, lying, etc., on the other hand, they should actively draw boundaries for them, such as when to sleep, how many sweets they can eat at most, and how to put these away after eating toys.
Moreover, because of the development trend of children's self-awareness, during this period, parents should actively discuss with their children and let them participate in the decision-making process, which not only makes it easier for them to observe discipline, but also makes them feel their own significance and uniqueness, which is also of great benefit to the establishment of her self-esteem and self-confidence.