Tang Yong, vice president in charge of student affairs in City College of Wuhan University of Science and Technology, said in an interview with this newspaper that although the law stipulates that qualified college students can get married and have children, from the perspective of school management, it is not encouraged to get married and have children too early. "At present, family pressure, academic pressure and economic pressure keep him busy, which is not what a college student should face now." Tang Yong said: "College students should concentrate on their studies first. It is recommended that college students start a business first and then get married. "
Professor Fan Xianzuo from the School of Education Science of Huazhong Normal University pointed out when Yan got married in 2009 that "his marriage is an example and not worth advocating". Professor Fan told reporters: "Although Yan has matured after getting married and having children, it is better to postpone this maturity."
Professor Fan Xianzuo said that it is not good for college students to get married in a hurry, and it will also have an impact on the healthy growth of their children. Strictly speaking, his daughter stayed in Xianning and became a left-behind child. Although Yan is very independent, at present, his main energy is to earn money to support his wife and children, which will inevitably affect his studies. In fact, it has affected his level 4.
Professor Fan Xianzuo said: "I suggest that college students should not follow Yan's example. It is better to study knowledge and skills during school, find a good job after graduation, and then get married. "
Experts believe that the proportion of college students getting married will not rise again. The proportion of college students registered for marriage is around 25%. Yilong Lu, a professor of sociology at Renmin University of China, said in an interview yesterday, "At present, this figure is already relatively high, and it should not continue to rise in the future."
Professor Lu believes that college students should not choose to get married too early, especially in some big cities. Due to comprehensive social factors, including work and economy, or the restriction of household registration system, some people even choose to postpone marriage. From a sociological point of view, the proportion of college students registered for marriage will not increase.
Professor Lu analyzed that for college students, including undergraduates, master students and doctoral students, the most important thing in school is academic work. College students' choice of marriage does not necessarily affect their studies, but mainly depends on their attitude towards learning. It is also possible that after marriage, you will have another level of understanding of your life, which may be helpful for your studies. However, they may lack the consideration of uncertain factors in the future, such as the pressure from family, life and economy after marriage, and feel very stable during school, so they don't need to think too much about these. However, in fact, all the problems have to be faced after entering the society. College students may not be able to take on family responsibilities after marriage. Once many factors are considered, their feelings after marriage may be affected.
On the other hand, Professor Lu believes that the policy of lifting the ban on college students' marriage is also a humanized consideration. For college students, especially master students and doctoral students, a university is not only a platform for learning, but also a platform for communication. "This policy still has more advantages than disadvantages for social harmony. To a certain extent, it also avoids the problem that it is difficult to find single people with high academic qualifications. "