What kind of emotional model is the healthiest emotional model?

It is easier to fall in love than to be together. In order to maintain a long-term relationship, both men and women must stand in a more fair and equal position, be able to rely on each other and go on together. Only such an emotional model is the healthiest and most firm. In this love relationship, both sides can get the greatest happiness.

In real life, we often see some overly dependent ways to get along, especially some girls. Do you believe it too much? Men are responsible for making money to support their families, and women are responsible for beauty? This distorted view of love. They are like vines that can only live on others. Even trivial things like food, clothing, housing and transportation depend on boys to help everywhere, let alone make money. All the stress in life is on men. But he is also an ordinary person, and he will be tired, and he will want to have a shoulder to lean on, but the woman with him can't give it, and their three views will gradually open up and become speechless. Slowly, men will get tired and miss the freedom and excitement outside, and eventually they are likely to cheat.

There are also some male chauvinist boys who believe it. Take husband as the sky? The concept of love, in the name of love, deprives women of their freedom and has a strong desire for control. Just like the man in Don't Talk to Strangers, although he loves his wife, he can't stand her talking to other men, so the tragic ending of domestic violence appears again and again.

So in my opinion, men and women should get along on the basis of respect and cherish their partners, but they should have their own lives. We have the same goal and work together to achieve a bright future. Only in this well-matched mode can we get the greatest respect and equal status in marriage. The relationship between the two is lovers and comrades fighting side by side, firm and reliable.