If you are the kind of friend who can understand only by looking at the catalogue, you can just look at the table above. If you don't understand, you can refer to the following directory to jump to the explanation position of each taboo!
Friends who need a catalog should look here:
Keep a proper distance.
Don't be ambiguous
Don't get along as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Moderate exchange of gifts
Too much heart-to-heart communication
Don't often go out alone.
Don't interfere in each other's lives.
Don't always listen to each other.
Too concerned about each other.
Don't feel inseparable from each other.
1. Keep a proper distance.
The most important thing for friends of the opposite sex to get along with each other is to keep a proper distance! Even if you grew up together, even if you are childhood friends, as long as you regard each other as ordinary friends of the opposite sex, you must keep this distance. Don't ask what you shouldn't ask and don't do what you shouldn't do!
Not long ago, I met a very cheerful girl at work, and a thin boy came next to me. It is because the skinny boy didn't keep a proper distance, thinking that the other party was interested in him, but he thought too much, which led to girls being passers-by with him from now on!
2. Don't be ambiguous
Ambiguity is a wonderful feeling, especially for boys and girls who have no love experience. Because you may become a lover one step and a stranger the next.
But if you don't like each other and don't want to have any development with each other, then don't be ambiguous. You will lose your judgment, but you will lose money and people!
3. Don't get along as boyfriend and girlfriend.
Many people have wild ideas about friends of the opposite sex who play well, and there may be behaviors that only men and women can do in action, which is very dangerous!
I was lucky enough to see something similar in high school. Because of playing well with a girl, the sports commission members get along like her boyfriend. Whether talking or touching, they feel quite close to him and even announce it to officials!
Until one day, the girl listened to a friend in the next class and directly broke the idea of the sports Committee on the spot! Not only did you clear up the relationship, but you also launched public opinion to suppress boys.
Moderate exchange of gifts
It is common to give gifts to each other, such as gifts from people, gifts between lovers, or gifts between parents and children. But no matter what kind of gifts, these gifts are very modest and will not cross the line.
If you just make friends with her, you can't send flowers or necklaces, and you can't send some easily misunderstood gifts on some festivals. Sometimes the sender is unintentional, but the receiver is intentional! Once you have the wrong idea, the consequences will be very serious.
5. Too much heart-to-heart communication
Many heterosexual relationships begin with heart-to-heart, especially when girls take the initiative to talk to boys. Many times, girls may just want to simply spit out their experiences, and when they spit them out, it will never happen again.
However, there are also boys who think that their relationship has reached the point of heart-to-heart after sharing with girls. Not only did I share my own things, but I even said some words and things that are only suitable for close lovers.
Once girls realize this, your relationship will gradually become strange. Unless she is interested in you!
6. Don't go out alone often.
You can go out to play with the opposite sex, but you can't go out to play often, let alone often Especially for girls, if the other person is a gentleman, that's fine, but once the other person has the psychology of plotting evil, the consequences are unimaginable.
If you really want to go out with the opposite sex and don't want to promote the relationship, the best solution is to find a friend like you! This will not ruin your relationship, and there will be no embarrassing things.
7. Don't interfere in each other's lives
Don't interfere in each other's life, whether it's private life or the place where you contact, don't interfere excessively. Remember, you are just ordinary friends of the opposite sex, and you have no right and no need to interfere in each other's lives.
If the other person has a girlfriend or boyfriend, it is even more important to keep your distance and not interfere in the other person's life! Because once you interfere and can't solve it well, your relationship will become very strange!
8. Don't always listen to each other.
Remember, no matter whether your relationship with the opposite sex is good or bad, you can't always be the listener of the other side. I have met many girls who complain to boys because of loneliness or irritability.
It doesn't matter if you have a good relationship once or twice. The problem is that some girls will treat boys as tree holes after a long time. And when boys want girls to listen, girls play the role of missing persons!
Remember that your relationship is equal. You can listen to each other, and they can listen to you. If you can only listen in one direction, then you must draw a line in time!
9. Care too much about each other
In fact, this is more like an ambiguous atmosphere. I remember Xiao pang mentioned it before. It's because he chatted with a girl online, and the more he chatted, the more familiar he became, and the result was that he cared too much about each other.
Not only did he care about each other's every move, every word and deed, but even the girls didn't reply to him in time because of something, and they kept chasing each other and asking questions. Overexposure of one's sense of need, it turns out that Xiao Pang and that girl are still a little possible, but it is precisely because their relationship has not yet reached the mature stage that it led to the final direct cooling.
Sometimes your concern is just your wishful thinking, don't fall into this whirlpool!
10. Don't feel inseparable from each other.
In this world, especially when the opposite sex is single and familiar, it is easy to create the illusion that one party cannot live without the other. This is actually the highest level of ambiguity, only one step away from determining the relationship.
Sometimes it is because the opposite sex encourages each other to make progress and study together. As a result, one party suddenly has something to do, which will cause a big gap. But in fact, this is just a habit and feeling.
No one can live without anyone, whether it is strange or too ambiguous.
To sum up, in fact, everyone knows the boundaries with friends of the opposite sex, but sometimes we don't want to admit it. No matter what kind of opposite sex, the most important thing is to have your own bottom line!